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Dublin Pride ends media partnership with RTE over Liveline's Gender Identity discussion

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  • Registered Users Posts: 3,430 ✭✭✭lee_baby_simms


    Seems to me that modern leftist politics is entirely obsessed with labels and tagging people with an ever expanding list of them regardless of the individuals character. It’s insidious tribalism.

    I’m speaking as someone who voted socialist workers/PBF etc for 25 years. The modern left seem to be primarily driven by the emotional immaturity of young people who cannot deal with any form of differing point of view.

    Sorry - this probably belongs on another thread.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Point me to three posts by different posters seeking for trans people not to exist. You claimed this earlier in the thread, I called you on it, and you failed to provide any direct quotes. Here you are again, making the same claim... and how about backing up that claim with some evidence?



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,373 ✭✭✭raclle


    The modern left seem to be primarily driven by the emotional immaturity of young people who cannot deal with any form of differing point of view.

    And this sadly is where we stagnate. @One eyed Jack, @Annasopra, @LLMMLL and @km991148 are unable to have an open minded and honest conversation about the trans- question without taking offense when they disagree with someone. There's simply no hope at all for progression with this attitude. I'd like to hear their general view on what we can do to try and improve taking into consideration that of others?



  • Registered Users Posts: 5,273 ✭✭✭xxxxxxl


    Tbh there is no Real discussion wanted by them or being allowed see RTE. I would wager a citizen assembly properly setup will all views would be interesting to behold.



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,876 ✭✭✭bokale


    .

    I feel you could say the same about the right.

    Once someone has decided they are on a side there is no discussion to be had.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 5,273 ✭✭✭xxxxxxl


    But the problem is not everyone is on the right. Can you point out to a party if I was right leaning to vote for a credible one.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I couldn't give a **** about the right or the left.

    That's a political bias.

    If someone says a man is a woman, they are just simply wrong. I don't care who they vote for.



  • Registered Users Posts: 5,273 ✭✭✭xxxxxxl


    Ofc I am the same. I'm just trying to figure out where all these right wing untapped votes are going. Apparently we have tones of them. A huge growing problem. Ofc is bollo* but not presented as so in the media.



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,876 ✭✭✭bokale


    I'm not sure I understand when you say "the problem is not everyone is on the right".



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Mick Barry, TD for Cork North Central, is reiterating the mantra that there should be "no debate" on this matter.

    The arrogance of people like Barry to come out and try to censor the discussion, that no debate is to be had, is absurd.

    When gay marriage was being passed, Barry and others were not going around saying there's no debate to be had. There was widespread debate - almost non-stop; and that was a positive thing because, if anything, it exposed weak arguments against gay marriage to criticism. More people could then see the flaws in any opposition to gay marriage and that debate no doubt increased the vote in favour of marriage equality.

    But the same forces who benefited from the gay marriage debate, want no debate on any aspects of the trans- question.




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  • Registered Users Posts: 5,189 ✭✭✭Brucie Bonus


    Seems to me that modern leftist politics is entirely obsessed with labels and tagging people with an ever expanding list of them regardless of the individuals character. It’s insidious tribalism.

    Where do you think the term 'snowflake' and the like came from? Seems to me minorities are being heard in greater numbers and right wing bigots created a tribal movement to counter it and keep them silent. Look at who's making the rules. Look at roe v Wade. Look at the possibility of gays rights being taken away. Look at all the good people like yourself selling the propaganda that 'the left' are pushing their agenda on people. As for the 'kids today' portion, kids today have inherited a place were the environment is fucked and nobody in power is doing much of anything and buying a house is nearing fantasy. They also have the burden of the bank bailouts. I do not envy the youth. If anyone feels they want to be 'they' or 'them' its no bother to me and very little to inconvenience my life.



  • Registered Users Posts: 5,189 ✭✭✭Brucie Bonus


    IMO, people previously in the majority now often find themselves in the minority. Looking for external conditions that created that such as the mystery of why less people are voting FF/FG is part of that.




  • Registered Users Posts: 8,451 ✭✭✭AllForIt


    Never heard of Mick Barry but according to his wiki page : "Dick Spring expelled Barry, alongside Joe Higgins and 12 others, from the Labour Party in 1989 for their membership of the Militant tendency".

    From the clip: "Two weeks of targeted abuse of the LGBTQ+ community in general and the transgender community in particular". Ehh, what does he mean by that ? I think he just 'manufactured' something that didn't happen.

    Later in the clip he asks "Why is there no recognition of non-binary trans people?" I'd really really love to know exactly what he means by that. AFAIC there is no such thing as non-binary. I think anyone who promotes non-binary as a minority group in need of legal recognition could find themselves in trouble, because if non-binary were to be widely discredited (to date it's hardly ever discussed publicly as it's overshadowed by T) then how could their views on trans rights be taken seriously either.



  • Registered Users Posts: 9,961 ✭✭✭spookwoman


    Macy Gray the singer says "'Changing your parts doesn't make you a woman': " More and more people especially women are starting to speak out about it. The more people speak out the more chance the "no debate" will be silenced.



  • Registered Users Posts: 3,430 ✭✭✭lee_baby_simms


    I see Bette Midler has raised her head above the parapet also.




  • Registered Users Posts: 9,961 ✭✭✭spookwoman


    Love the reply from Sorelle 🤣 Couldn't have put it better.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I find it interesting because on the one hand there is the resistance to the Trans movement over what they want to do with language.. but it's almost as if we have to accept feminism to do so. Including the rather inaccurate assumptions that feminists continue to push to retain victimhood status.

    It's true that women were told by men how to define themselves for centuries, but.. those days are gone. (the belief that women were completely without influence in determining the path of social development is ridiculous) Just as for the last few decades, that influence has largely been removed, with a far greater presence of women in medicine/research/authority, leading to a more balanced interpretation of women in society.. and yet, feminists will push the belief that it continues to this day, unchanged from the past.

    I'd be careful of embracing feminism in answer to resisting Trans.. Both are potentially damaging to the place and recognition of women in society.



  • Registered Users Posts: 414 ✭✭dorothylives


    I'm not sure where you're getting the feminism angle. Is women refusing to accept being called menstruators, birthing people, people with vaginas feminism that people should be suspicious of? A tiny percentage of the worlds population think they are different to the gender they were born as. I'd consider myself to be a small f feminist and I don't accept being told that I must not question changing traditional female terms in order to acommodate the feelings of men who believe that they are female.

    Women aren't even being allowed to define themselves any more. If I publicly refuse to acknowledge a man as being a woman because he feels he's a woman that's hate speech. If I refuse to call John Mary because he wants to live as Mary now, well that's a crime to apparently. The likes of Michelle Obama using the word womxn as if it's perfectly normal. Prominent people from Politicians to Judges refusing to articulate what they believe a woman is, for fear of the trans activist backlash. It's insanity. I'll politely called Angus Angela if that makes him happy but he's not Angela he's Angus and that's all there is to it.

    I think you'll find that it's usually the angry man hating purple/pink/blue haired 4th wave feminists that are the ones pushing the trans pseudoscience as gospel. A few years ago we were hearing that women were being discriminated against and that we needed gender quotas to stop that. Then all of a sudden the 'I support the latest thing' mob were pushing the rights of men who believe that they are women to be more important that women. Sorry, but a person born with a penis and scrotum is not a woman. That's science, despite the best efforts of trans activists to bully scientists and medical professionals into submission. It's become career suicide for anyone in any walk of life to challenge trans. Sorry, but the emperor is wearing no clothes. This is simple biology. Feelings don't trump reality.



  • Registered Users Posts: 9,961 ✭✭✭spookwoman


    Dorothylives +1 you put it far more eloquently than me.

    Klaz, I would not call myself a feminist by todays standards and many would agree. I'd be more with the equality in all aspects, #notallmen and women also need to take responsibility and can be just as bad. I also don't think women should be placed in position just to fill a quota. I also don't know where the victimhood feminists come in when defending women's identity because from what I see online it's the hard core everyone is against women that are attacking, canceling anyone who questions anything to to with trans. These would be the same people who block, unfollow and subtweet anyone who follows an account that might be following Graham Lenihan, JK Rowling and even a Johnny Depp. The same lot will go around telling people who they have to follow. During the abortion ref I followed many like minded people but since then I've unfollowed many of the same because of their extreme, narrow minded views, the soo called Be Kind lot are far more dangerous and nasty than any other group.

    While women are gaining ground on equality we are still not always equal. This trans issue effects all women and men, why should our identity's be redefined for a few? Society is/was turning into minimalistic and sterile, maybe the pandemic has given people time to reflect and shaken things up, people are starting to speak out more to protect their rights. There is the other side from what we are now seeing in america.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Sorry, but a person born with a penis and scrotum is not a woman. 

    I have never once stated or supported such a position. Just as the whole of your post ignores what I stated, and goes on a rampage on unrelated points. (to my post)

    While women are gaining ground on equality we are still not always equal.

    Except they are. In Ireland, women have complete equality with men. The only thing they're slightly missing is gender-only rights which aren't available to men, which is the next step. The gender wage gap comes down entirely to personal choices, and work performance.. and has been debunked a gazillion times, but people feel the need to promote women as being victims in society. Even when it's not true. The only remaining issue is the placement for senior positions, which requires the old guard to die off, freeing up seats for a more equal assignment.. but that requires to wait a little time. The rights/laws/social norms are already established to ensure equality for women.

    This trans issue effects all women and men, why should our identity's be redefined for a few?

    I didn't say that women's identity should be. Both you and Dorothy have taken my post as some kind of defence of the Trans movement, and the desire for them to reshape language. Except, I haven't stated any such thing. I pointed out that turning to feminism might not be the right answer to dealing with the effects of the Trans movement.

    There is the other side from what we are now seeing in america.

    America should never be used as a basis for change in Europe, TBH it's one of the reasons we have so many issues nowadays here. People have transplanted short-sighted American policies and plonked them in Europe without acknowledging the negatives involved, or adapting them to European cultures. The building pushback to Trans in the US could easily die off... their society is extremely fragmented and everything is politicalized, with the Us VS them mentality. So.. no, I'm not holding out much hope that the US will become a reasonable leader in demolishing this crap, because they started it all off, and secondly, both the PC/Woke movements still retain huge influence within US institutions.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 414 ✭✭dorothylives


    Apologies if I have taken your post out of context, but that is genuinely how it reads. You can say that you think women in Ireland have total equality with men, we don't. We still have politicians here who don't think there should be any discussion on trans, that we should all just shut up and accept pseudoscience bull crap that dehumanises biological women to appease activists, not trans people, activists, and I don't believe the solution to that is gender quotas, nobody should be given a position based on anything but ability. Yesterday Macy Gray got a huge amount of respect for speaking up for women against trans activism today she's done a complete u turn stating that she fundamentally misunderstood and that basically she was wrong and men are women etc etc etc. No doubt her legal people have told her she had just thrown a bomb at herself by speaking the truth.

    This is one of the things pissing women off and it's ingrained here already. We all know trans is pseudoscience we all know that a male born with a penis and a scrotum is male and not female. Sure, there are rare biological cases in nature where there are aberrations, but we're not allowed to say that because of the violence and death threats and de platforming and cancelling and reputational damage done to anyone who points out the obvious.

    I used to be willing to smile and play along with the trans stuff but I'm done now. I'm sick and tired of it. Just take a look at the Social Media pages of these organisations and their 'activists', they are the people living on the margins of society, many who can't function at a social level. The ones who hate men, the ones who hate anyone who is pretty or successful or popular or normal. I'm not referring to the people who consider themselves trans, I'm speaking about the lunatic fringe that latches on to this stuff. The rent a mob who'll back any loony liberal cause, the more loony the better. It's gotten too dangerous now and he needs to be reigned in.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Apologies if I have taken your post out of context, but that is genuinely how it reads. You can say that you think women in Ireland have total equality with men, we don't.

    Really? Be specific then. What rights do men have that women do not have? What protections do men have that women do not have? I suspect if you're even remotely honest, you'll recognise that society still extends positive bias to women, that is not equally applied to men.. but in terms of equality/rights, equality is here.

    We still have politicians here who don't think there should be any discussion on trans, that we should all just shut up and accept pseudoscience bull crap that dehumanises biological women to appease activists, not trans people, activists, and I don't believe the solution to that is gender quotas, nobody should be given a position based on anything but ability.

    I didn't bring up gender quota's. Again you're using my post as a soapbox to talk about a position unrelated to my post. Any reasonable checking of my post history on this thread, or other threads, will show that I'm highly critical of both the Trans movement, and our virtue signalling politicians (and public/civil service). Just as I'm quite critical of the impact of psychology in society, considering how unreliable/verifiable their research methods are.

    Also, these politicians are telling everyone, male and female, to be quiet.. and to accept their desired changes. The idea that this topic only involves women is ridiculous. Male views are being ignored/dismissed, just as much as women's are.

    In my experience of both online and LGBTQ community events, is that there tends to be more female advocates of Trans issues than male advocates (who aren't actually trans themselves). So, I wouldn't make this into an attack by men on women.. that's one of the dangers of applying feminism in such a situation.

    It's gotten too dangerous now and he needs to be reigned in

    No. They need to be reined in. This is why I really dislike modern feminists, because the focus is on making men the enemy, and women are somehow powerful but agentless victims unable to resist male influence when something is negative. But when something positive happens, women have been strong, independent, etc. Feminism originally publicly supported the Trans movement in the US.. for quite a few years actually... even to the point of feminist attacking other feminists because they refused to accept Trans claims. Although I guess that's an inconvenient point to consider.



  • Registered Users Posts: 414 ✭✭dorothylives


    I think we may have gotten our wires crossed and misunderstood each other. For my part in that I apologise. I don't support modern feminism and I have no time for man haters. I've always preferred male company to female company. I don't believe in playing the victim and I don't support all the bat sh it crazy nonsense that went on when the young teacher was murdered. I don't see men as the enemy. I don't want men like my husband and the men in my family and circle of friends to get tarred with the crazy 4th wave feminist every man is a potential rapist/wife beater nonsense.

    I don't support trans issues anymore because I think that it's gone too far now and activists have become too powerful. I think the organistations making lots of money from it took societies indifference/politeness to a minority as an endorsement for all the crazy that was to follow. I take the recent change in regulations abroad bringing in separate trans categories in sport as a sign that things may be swinging away from the crazy now.

    I completely agree with most of your points by the way.



  • Registered Users Posts: 9,961 ✭✭✭spookwoman


    Except they are. In Ireland, women have complete equality with men. The only thing they're slightly missing is gender-only rights which aren't available to men, which is the next step. The gender wage gap comes down entirely to personal choices, and work performance.. and has been debunked a gazillion times, but people feel the need to promote women as being victims in society. Even when it's not true. The only remaining issue is the placement for senior positions, which requires the old guard to die off, freeing up seats for a more equal assignment.. but that requires to wait a little time. The rights/laws/social norms are already established to ensure equality for women.

    Please lay off the women as victims with me, like Dorothylives I also am not a man hater and it makes my blood boil when I see this victimhood sh*t. Like you can't say to a woman watch your drink when you go out as it's seen as victim blaming. On the matter of pay gap, this is from the citizen's advice "If there are gaps in women and men’s earnings

    Where there is a gap between women’s and men’s earnings, employers will need to explain why there is a gap and what measures are being taken to eliminate or reduce it."

    The gender wage gap comes down entirely to personal choices, and work performance -

    I would disagree partly on that, while women are usually the main ones to care for kids and need time off to deal with matters it's a difficult situation to make people equal because there are biological differences. Women are the only ones able to get pregnant and give birth. While it may be a personal choice to have children, women do have the right to have kids if they want to and it does take two to tango. There is also the matter of periods, it's not a choice and it's something that many women have problems with . No woman chooses to get debilitating cramps, heavy bleeding, headaches and even nausea. Women's healthcare regarding pain management is seriously lacking.

    I saw the posts ref identity and I said it it effects both men and women. I posted recently about Paternity leave and how even the wording of that has changed to his or her.

    America should never be used as a basis for change in Europe, TBH it's one of the reasons we have so many issues nowadays here. People have transplanted short-sighted American policies and plonked them in Europe without acknowledging the negatives involved, or adapting them to European cultures. The building pushback to Trans in the US could easily die off... their society is extremely fragmented and everything is politicalized, with the Us VS them mentality. So.. no, I'm not holding out much hope that the US will become a reasonable leader in demolishing this crap, because they started it all off, and secondly, both the PC/Woke movements still retain huge influence within US institutions.

    But we have many cultures now living in Ireland that are trying to influence law. One thing I noticed at the 8th amendment rally's especially here in waterford was the amount of eastern europeans that are pro life. And other societies will always be looked to for inspiration. The PC/ Woke movements, it's hard to say how much influence they have over there when media sanitises everything. I'd say a lot of people are just keeping their mouths shut because of these few nuts that will destroy lives just because they don't agree.

    It's one thing I have noticed with the 4th Wave feminazi is the level of ruthlessness'. I can't ever seeing the more right leaning, hunting down details on someone and then harassing's employers to get that person fired for just saying trans women are men. The levels they will go to destroy someone's life for a view is frightening and it's no wonder the ordinary person is afraid to speak up. There is something very wrong with those people.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Please lay off the women as victims with me,

    The only mention of victimhood, and it was in relation to feminism.

    I would disagree partly on that, while women are usually the main ones to care for kids and need time off to deal with matters it's a difficult situation to make people equal because there are biological differences. 

    And you're now introducing new elements rather than dealing with what was said earlier. In any case, there is no biological reason for women to stay at home, or to be the primary parent for taking care of children (after birth). It's a social construct, and one that has benefited many women throughout history. Feminism sought to attack the role of women as housewives in the 80s/90s, propelling women into the need to work externally to the home as a way of showing their value. You can't exclude the role of feminism in shaping modern society, even when feminists will pass all responsibility over to traditional roles, or the patriarchy.

    As for the rest, it's irrelevant. You cannot demand equality with men, while expecting extra benefits due to XYZ. The simple truth is that approaching or just past 30 years old most women want to have children, and spend time with those children during the early years. That's a choice. If the woman wants to work during that period, with the husband staying at home... that's also a choice. However most research on the topic points to the desire for women to take on the primary parental role, not simply due to traditional values, but simply a personal desire to do so. Choice. Feminists seek to ignore that choice, and expect women to be compensated for something they want to do... While society is becoming more welcoming of stay-at-home-dads, I doubt we'll see any significant change in women being the primary parents, even when, women often earn more than men when they're dedicated to their career development (in the better paid industries). Simply because women want that time with their children, and are less interested in the stress/competition/etc that comes with higher positions, which is what most men in those roles enjoy.

    Going to end this here, as we're heading away from the thread topic. However, the point remains that none of this is an attack by men against women. It's an attack by advocates of Trans issues, and politicians/activists who want these changes. Don't make this into a male vs female thing because it most certainly isn't.



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,829 ✭✭✭Lillyfae


    @[Deleted User] this is where your understanding of equality falls very short. While there is no biological reason for women to stay at home “after birth”, you seem to conveniently gloss over the rather important birth part.

    Pregnancy is generally three quarters of a year long. Healthy recovery from the maternity period is roughly another 6 to 8 weeks, and that’s if there are no complications. Breastfeeding is recommended in babies up to 2 years. It is also recommended to leave a gap of 18 months between pregnancies, in order to allow the body to properly recover from the frankly massive upheaval that it has been through.

    Maternity pay as it is is a social welfare payment in Ireland. It is not based on a woman’s current rate of pay or pension, and employers are not obliged to pay women during this time. If a woman takes maternity leave of 26 weeks 2 or 3 times in her life, this has a knock on effect on her salary, pension, potential for promotion and/ or raise that men simply do not experience.

    All while being hit with substandard childcare, judgement from peers at work for having baby brain, or sick on her blazer or having her larger than normal lactating breasts stared at, judgment from stay at home moms for going to work in the first place etc etc etc. Men take their 2 weeks of parental leave and are treated as heros and renaissance men for doing so.

    But ya, equality is totally a choice that women make.



  • Registered Users Posts: 367 ✭✭Gentlemanne


    The idea that women have "complete equality" with men is just absurd. In this country or abroad. Hard to take you even a little bit seriously when you say things like that Klaz.



  • Registered Users Posts: 264 ✭✭SnazzyPig


    This discussion has taken a turn the TRAs would be delighted with.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Agreed.

    It seems a little silly to even discuss equality between men and women (and there is a discussion to be had) until we manage to pin-point what exactly those terms mean.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,290 ✭✭✭BruteStock


    🤦‍♂️

    a dirty blazer being an example of why women arent equal to men😂



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