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Boy A in the Ana Kriegel case moved to adult prison

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,949 ✭✭✭✭Strumms


    Maybe a fantasy in your mind… facts, grim facts back in reality, they murdered, tortured and raped her.



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Education Moderators Posts: 27,277 CMod ✭✭✭✭spurious


    Any school authorities declaring themselves free from bullying are either lying or deluded.

    It happens everywhere. The important thing is what happens when it happens.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,417 ✭✭✭✭Sardonicat


    Boo hoo. So follow up. Do you mean to tell me no teacher noticed when groups of children stood en masse and left the table when Ana tried to join them? Were they deaf when the name-calling and sniggering occurred? Is a teacher not considered a reliable witness? It's bullsh1t to suggestt that teachers can't see what's under their noses. And the idea that you should treat a bully victim with doubt first and foremost is akin to suggesting that you treat a kid coming to you with allegations of sexual abuse the same way.

    Kids who bully grow into adults who bully in the workplace, n organisations and in their families. The damage they do as youngsters can result in a lifetime of poor self esteem, anxiety, depression, ptsd.

    Ana's bullying and lack of appropriate response from the school marked her out to these disturbed boys as someone of no value, that no one would give a fuk about and fair game for sexual assault, violence and murder. Her isolation and loneliness made her so desperate for a friend that she followed Boy B in the naive hope that someone was interested in her and promised the vague hope of acceptance. The bullying made her an obvious and easy target.

    If schools have not learned from this horrific crime , worse, if they don't even recognise they need to learn something from it, it only point to how little real concern about the effects of unchecked bullying on their watch.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    When her mother said, in relation to the boys calling to the house, "I knew something wasn't right because nobody ever called to see Anna"... wouldn't it just shatter your heart.



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    So now people are arguing that there is collective responsibility of her school bullies for making her vulnerable prey, as well as diagnosing her murderers? I am wondering who will be blamed next.

    She was different to the other children so she had problems adapting. It happens to many people. You either adapt or learn to deal with it. It is not the world’s responsibility to keep one person sane and happy.

    Murders like this are rare but they happen, and this will happen again at some stage. There is no magic formula to avoid this.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Do you ever take a break from being contrarian and downplaying appalling behaviour? And don't say you don't do that because you blatantly do. I suspect that thing you did when you're younger was awful and now you're on the defence and acting the martyr.

    Of course if a child is being very strategically ostracised and ridiculed and verbally abused, they're seen as lesser by the really predatory, who aren't gonna go after the ones who have friends.

    "She was different to the other children so she had problems adapting. It happens to many people. You either adapt or learn to deal with it. It is not the world’s responsibility to keep one person sane and happy" - vile. Deflecting the responsibility onto her. Downplaying the bullying she endured. And not one person suggested it's the world's responsibility to keep one person sane and happy - it isn't even relevant. How about just don't be a hurtful arsehole to them.

    Why has this victim blaming become so fashionable?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,233 ✭✭✭✭pjohnson


    It was the same when this was in the courts. A clutch of posters hand waving away the murder, making a litany of excuses to minimize the case/defend the boys (called children for extra sympathy), saying the parents can't be blamed for how their spawn (sorry children) turned out and of course claiming everyone would protect their child if he was a rapist/murderer.


    That mentality from those posters does give a good indicator of how these rapists and killers were raised. It was always someone else to blame not little angle boy a or boy b or the parents responsible.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,108 ✭✭✭CGI_Livia_Soprano
    Holding tyrants to the fire


    Nobody was “hand waving” the murder, I think you’re just confusing people who aren’t foaming at the mouth looking to publicly hang, draw, and quarter these boys as ambivalent.

    Extremely horrible crimes such as these need to be treated sensitively. For the victims, yes, and also for the perpetrators.

    I’m only speaking for myself here but I would prefer it if nothing like this happened again, and the best way to do that if the investigation of the crime and the pathology of the criminals was done correctly, maintaining their anonymity and examining their backgrounds in depth.

    Holding a “let’s string ‘em up, and dere mudders and fadders and dere brudders and sisters too” circlejerk doesn’t accomplish anything, nor does completely baseless speculation in threads like this about their upbringing. This should all be left to the experts, and the rest of us need to move on with our lives.

    That poor girl keeps having her trauma revisited over and over. Let her rest in peace.



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    I didn’t blame the girl. I just find it ridiculous that the blame for her vulnerability is now placed on a whole group of people. School mates, teachers, all who are now being blamed for having made her fair game.

    There is absolutely no merit in assigning blame and hoping for societal change because it won’t happen, and it also won’t stop this from happening again.

    And yes. If you are different you learn to deal with it or you adapt. She was obviously going through the whole painful process (therapy) because she had a lot of issues, so I am not sure why pointing this out is seen as victim blaming. The unfortunate thing is that she never got to see the upside of it because two people decided to abuse and kill her.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,233 ✭✭✭✭pjohnson


    Damn it how could I forget the faux "concern" for Ana and how the case should just be left to experts. Thats another key part of the playbook to shut down discussion about "the boys" (another word used along with "children" to try and ignore what they are.)

    Some damn creepy behaviour to make these "boys" seem like victims that big bad "society" wants to be mean too.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    I thought the killers were simply being referred to as children because the victim (same age) was referred to as such.



  • Registered Users Posts: 984 ✭✭✭Still stihl waters 3


    Hopefully the 2 cnuts die horribly sooner rather than later



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Jequ0n, saying "she had to learn to adapt" and nothing about the maltreatment she endured, is blaming her. Coincidentally I watched the film Wonder yesterday about a young lad with a disfigurement, whose bully's parents are called into the school, and the mother's response is to say that it's a tough world out there and nobody can expect not to have their feelings hurt - when absolutely none of that was denied, but it's not relevant when the kid was making a continous effort to abuse the disfigured kid horrendously. It's just a deflection tactic to take the blame off the boy who actively bullied, and place the blame on the boy he bullied... and she also said the disfigured lad wasn't right for the school. Very similar to your earlier post.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Yeah, not having any sympathy for the boys because of the acts that they made the choice to carry out, does not mean wanting them to be strung up, and I'm of the "don't blame the parents without sufficient evidence" school of thought. I don't care if they're named when they get out of prison - I'm more concerned about Ana's family.



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    I think we might be misunderstanding each other in parts, which is generally my fault. And I am not trying to be controversial but I just see this in a differently light to you.

    I don’t think that the girl was at fault for what happened to her. But you need to admit that reports on the bullying and her own behaviour are so vague that you shouldn’t draw conclusions. As I said earlier there is no merit in assigning blame just because it makes everyone feel better.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,489 ✭✭✭AllForIt


    I think things are so bad now that we have to have lessons in primary school that teach the consequences of crime, bullying etc. Both the consequences for the victims and the perpetrators to.

    Also the consequences of taking drugs, porn addition, even junk food, and anything else that isn't good for oneself and society in general.

    Instead what we do have is lessons on minority identities.

    Something is really screwed up in our educational system.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,979 ✭✭✭kravmaga


    Mate, calm down ffs, he died recently , end off alright, now chill out and go for a long walk or go for a pint in your local.

    This is not a point scoring contest, yeah.



  • Posts: 13,688 ✭✭✭✭ Adam Ugly Violist


    Of **** off, what a stupid mentality.


    As for Boy A being moved to an adult prison, every prisoner in Ireland knew who he was long ago.



  • Registered Users Posts: 264 ✭✭I told ya


    Is St Pat's Institution still in existence? IIRC, it was for offenders from the age of 18 to 21. Then they were moved into the adult population.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,412 ✭✭✭corner of hells




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,680 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Pretty much all boils down to the same thing: treat people with respect even if they're different to you.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users Posts: 264 ✭✭I told ya


    Apparently it's still there. Now called Mountjoy West, integrated into the main prison now and not a separate entity. Well, that's per Wikipedia.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,946 ✭✭✭MayoAreMagic


    Where is it suggested that teachers dont follow up on things though? These are assumptions you are making. The point is it is actually very hard to prove many of these things due to the teenagers behaviour when they are following up. Often the students involved are friends again when the investigation moves forward - these are just the realities of dealing with teenagers. Im not excusing teachers from all blame, im just pointing out that it isnt always straightforward to get straight answers out of a group of adolescents - that shouldnt be a shock to anyone here. Anyone assuming that teachers just dont care enough to help is not being fair.

    Re kids getting up en masse, yes that is wrong, but could it be missed in a large city school at lunchtime, yes it could, because no school has the staff the monitor every action of every group all the time - it just isnt a reality and that cant be helped unfortunately. Furthermore, teenagers wont generally do these things when teachers are nearby because they know it is wrong.

    As for doubting a bully victim, that is simply not what I suggested at all and actually a bit nasty to insinuate. What I am saying is that people simply need to be open minded to all possibilities and not jump to any conclusions. What if the person complaining turned out to be the actual bully? Their getting in there first means you dont listen to another word from anyone else - that is just nonsense.

    The truth of it is that while they are an easy target here, expecting teachers alone to be able to stop all bullying in schools is simply unrealistic. We heard an awful lot about the bullying the girl endured after the fact. This has to have come from schoolmates. Maybe if those kids were speaking a little earlier about these things they had seen, to a teacher or to their own parents, then these things would be easier to weed out. That is the key to stopping stuff like this eariler.



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,033 ✭✭✭Demosthenese


    Well know locally that the school was too late in reacting to certain situations regarding bullying - too late realising the effect of social media bullying imo. Same kids that had tears in their eyes when they realised what happened. Was sickening. That said - the school have gone the opposite way now and kids can't throw a look at eachother or they'll be reprimanded. Zero tolerance for everything. Bit too late now.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,946 ✭✭✭MayoAreMagic


    I understand what you say. In the broader scheme of things though, is that any good for the kids either? It isnt a natural environment for people to grow and develop. Unfortunately, that is just a reactionary response to a very tragic case. I wouldnt think that such an extreme policy is a positive development.

    Re social media bullying, is that even within the remit of a school?

    To my mind, the issue here is coming from the level of investment that is put into schooling children. That might be just a reality that we have to get on with, but I can say for definite, the level of observation that people are asking for here is simply not a possibility in the real world, while cameras cant be placed in all the places they are probably needed in to address things like this efficiently. We want big brother in cases like this, but people also have rights etc. It isnt a straightforward thing to manage.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,830 ✭✭✭Demonique




  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Education Moderators Posts: 27,277 CMod ✭✭✭✭spurious


    He was caught with images of children. The other guy we hear nothing about as he has not re-offended.

    Some people from Pat's were moved into Oberstown. It caused a big change in the age profile of people there and a number of problems for staff.



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,300 ✭✭✭Hippodrome Song Owl


    Why was Darren Goodwin named but these killers not? Has the law changed since 2004?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,778 ✭✭✭✭cj maxx


    While they were children when they committed the murder , they are now adults and should be named imo. I'm sure it's widely known in the wider area who they are anyway.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,417 ✭✭✭✭Sardonicat


    I'd say everyone from Lucan out to Maynooth know who they are.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,778 ✭✭✭✭cj maxx


    I'd imagine so. Actually after refreshing my memory via Google I can't believe they were 13. Still child protection should only last till 18



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,624 ✭✭✭✭Leg End Reject


    Their picture was widely circulated on social media, the locals would have known and saw the plain clothes Garda going in and out of their houses, and people talk, I doubt they'll be moving back anywhere near home when they're released.



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