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Boy A in the Ana Kriegel case moved to adult prison

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  • Registered Users Posts: 2,956 ✭✭✭mikemac2


    Why would kids in the school care? Why would families in the community feel they need to act some sort of proxy revenge? She was bullied at school, the community didn’t help her at all

    Her classmates are heading off to college. No doubt having #thoughtsandprayers on their social media for every cause in the world

    Post edited by Boards.ie: Mike on


  • Registered Users Posts: 16,572 ✭✭✭✭Galwayguy35


    Unlike the likes of Mary Bell who was able to slip back into society, these days when everyone has access to the internet the murderers will be identified no matter where they go and rightly so.

    They should never have a moments peace.



  • Registered Users Posts: 48 aslanroars


    The poor kid suffered in and out of school.school didn't protect her .my son attends the school.on open day the head master stood there brazen.told all the parents the school was a non bullying school.yes every one knows the family.some family members were attacked.buy over all the community didn't blame the family's. They say one boy was quiter than the other .still evil fuckers.thats why I always ask my son about any bullying going on inside or out of school.this case makes your more aware of the bullying aspect than before .



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    My friend's son went through hell in a Cork school - staff were utterly useless. I know it's not easy, but how can a child have no support from the actual school? Unacceptable. They had to take him out of there eventually - and thank goodness found a lovely school that actually puts its zero tolerance policy into practice.



  • Registered Users Posts: 12,388 ✭✭✭✭Sardonicat


    They don't act to support a bullied child because to do so would lead to an open acknowledgement of their negligence in allowing the problem to get as bad as it did. It's ar§e covering in its finest glory and like everything else, to pursue a formal complaint is so convoluted and difficult that parents who are at their wits end trying to support and protect a vulnerable child just don't have the time to emotional resources to pursue it. The fastest and safest option is to get their kids out of there, and the old school can just wipe its hands if the problem.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 2,935 ✭✭✭MayoAreMagic


    I understand your sentiment, but the thing is that isnt how our justice system works.

    In reality, they are judged to have served their time once released, so never having a moments peace for the rest of their lives doesnt really tally with that reality.

    Furthermore, as unpalatable as it may seem, they themselves were also children when it happened. There is more complexity to the thing than people want to admit to. We all understand the reasons for that, but at some stage we need to face up to the nuances of cases like this in general. People referenced the case in england where the boys were named, but this probably had a huge affect on how the boys developed afterwards.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Yep. His younger brother would have been well able for it, and it's about eight miles closer than the new school, but absolutely no way were they going to have anything more to do with that kip.



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,935 ✭✭✭MayoAreMagic


    Sorry, but this just isnt true. I dont know any teacher who would not try to help a child being bullied for such reasons. Children get bullied to some degree in every school. Most people have faced some degree of it in their lifetimes, so I dont think pretending it isnt there is something that is widespread. The reality is that accusations require proof, parents never believe it is their child and kids are notoriously unreliable sources. Therefore schools need a lot of paperwork to follow up on these things.



  • Registered Users Posts: 753 ✭✭✭dontmindme


    Keep living in your little dark fantasy if you like...



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    It's true but that's a bad structure. Indeed individual teachers aren't to blame, but organisationally there is responsibility. The school my friend's son changed to made it easy to report, and put its foot down every time. It's the reason why his previous school was horrendous for two years but not a thing happened to him for the four years at his next school.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 25,473 ✭✭✭✭Strumms


    Maybe a fantasy in your mind… facts, grim facts back in reality, they murdered, tortured and raped her.



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Education Moderators Posts: 27,222 CMod ✭✭✭✭spurious


    Any school authorities declaring themselves free from bullying are either lying or deluded.

    It happens everywhere. The important thing is what happens when it happens.



  • Registered Users Posts: 12,388 ✭✭✭✭Sardonicat


    Boo hoo. So follow up. Do you mean to tell me no teacher noticed when groups of children stood en masse and left the table when Ana tried to join them? Were they deaf when the name-calling and sniggering occurred? Is a teacher not considered a reliable witness? It's bullsh1t to suggestt that teachers can't see what's under their noses. And the idea that you should treat a bully victim with doubt first and foremost is akin to suggesting that you treat a kid coming to you with allegations of sexual abuse the same way.

    Kids who bully grow into adults who bully in the workplace, n organisations and in their families. The damage they do as youngsters can result in a lifetime of poor self esteem, anxiety, depression, ptsd.

    Ana's bullying and lack of appropriate response from the school marked her out to these disturbed boys as someone of no value, that no one would give a fuk about and fair game for sexual assault, violence and murder. Her isolation and loneliness made her so desperate for a friend that she followed Boy B in the naive hope that someone was interested in her and promised the vague hope of acceptance. The bullying made her an obvious and easy target.

    If schools have not learned from this horrific crime , worse, if they don't even recognise they need to learn something from it, it only point to how little real concern about the effects of unchecked bullying on their watch.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    When her mother said, in relation to the boys calling to the house, "I knew something wasn't right because nobody ever called to see Anna"... wouldn't it just shatter your heart.



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,388 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    So now people are arguing that there is collective responsibility of her school bullies for making her vulnerable prey, as well as diagnosing her murderers? I am wondering who will be blamed next.

    She was different to the other children so she had problems adapting. It happens to many people. You either adapt or learn to deal with it. It is not the world’s responsibility to keep one person sane and happy.

    Murders like this are rare but they happen, and this will happen again at some stage. There is no magic formula to avoid this.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Do you ever take a break from being contrarian and downplaying appalling behaviour? And don't say you don't do that because you blatantly do. I suspect that thing you did when you're younger was awful and now you're on the defence and acting the martyr.

    Of course if a child is being very strategically ostracised and ridiculed and verbally abused, they're seen as lesser by the really predatory, who aren't gonna go after the ones who have friends.

    "She was different to the other children so she had problems adapting. It happens to many people. You either adapt or learn to deal with it. It is not the world’s responsibility to keep one person sane and happy" - vile. Deflecting the responsibility onto her. Downplaying the bullying she endured. And not one person suggested it's the world's responsibility to keep one person sane and happy - it isn't even relevant. How about just don't be a hurtful arsehole to them.

    Why has this victim blaming become so fashionable?



  • Registered Users Posts: 23,697 ✭✭✭✭pjohnson


    It was the same when this was in the courts. A clutch of posters hand waving away the murder, making a litany of excuses to minimize the case/defend the boys (called children for extra sympathy), saying the parents can't be blamed for how their spawn (sorry children) turned out and of course claiming everyone would protect their child if he was a rapist/murderer.


    That mentality from those posters does give a good indicator of how these rapists and killers were raised. It was always someone else to blame not little angle boy a or boy b or the parents responsible.



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,108 ✭✭✭CGI_Livia_Soprano
    Holding tyrants to the fire


    Nobody was “hand waving” the murder, I think you’re just confusing people who aren’t foaming at the mouth looking to publicly hang, draw, and quarter these boys as ambivalent.

    Extremely horrible crimes such as these need to be treated sensitively. For the victims, yes, and also for the perpetrators.

    I’m only speaking for myself here but I would prefer it if nothing like this happened again, and the best way to do that if the investigation of the crime and the pathology of the criminals was done correctly, maintaining their anonymity and examining their backgrounds in depth.

    Holding a “let’s string ‘em up, and dere mudders and fadders and dere brudders and sisters too” circlejerk doesn’t accomplish anything, nor does completely baseless speculation in threads like this about their upbringing. This should all be left to the experts, and the rest of us need to move on with our lives.

    That poor girl keeps having her trauma revisited over and over. Let her rest in peace.



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,388 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    I didn’t blame the girl. I just find it ridiculous that the blame for her vulnerability is now placed on a whole group of people. School mates, teachers, all who are now being blamed for having made her fair game.

    There is absolutely no merit in assigning blame and hoping for societal change because it won’t happen, and it also won’t stop this from happening again.

    And yes. If you are different you learn to deal with it or you adapt. She was obviously going through the whole painful process (therapy) because she had a lot of issues, so I am not sure why pointing this out is seen as victim blaming. The unfortunate thing is that she never got to see the upside of it because two people decided to abuse and kill her.



  • Registered Users Posts: 23,697 ✭✭✭✭pjohnson


    Damn it how could I forget the faux "concern" for Ana and how the case should just be left to experts. Thats another key part of the playbook to shut down discussion about "the boys" (another word used along with "children" to try and ignore what they are.)

    Some damn creepy behaviour to make these "boys" seem like victims that big bad "society" wants to be mean too.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 6,388 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    I thought the killers were simply being referred to as children because the victim (same age) was referred to as such.



  • Registered Users Posts: 984 ✭✭✭Still stihl waters 3


    Hopefully the 2 cnuts die horribly sooner rather than later



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Jequ0n, saying "she had to learn to adapt" and nothing about the maltreatment she endured, is blaming her. Coincidentally I watched the film Wonder yesterday about a young lad with a disfigurement, whose bully's parents are called into the school, and the mother's response is to say that it's a tough world out there and nobody can expect not to have their feelings hurt - when absolutely none of that was denied, but it's not relevant when the kid was making a continous effort to abuse the disfigured kid horrendously. It's just a deflection tactic to take the blame off the boy who actively bullied, and place the blame on the boy he bullied... and she also said the disfigured lad wasn't right for the school. Very similar to your earlier post.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Yeah, not having any sympathy for the boys because of the acts that they made the choice to carry out, does not mean wanting them to be strung up, and I'm of the "don't blame the parents without sufficient evidence" school of thought. I don't care if they're named when they get out of prison - I'm more concerned about Ana's family.



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,388 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    I think we might be misunderstanding each other in parts, which is generally my fault. And I am not trying to be controversial but I just see this in a differently light to you.

    I don’t think that the girl was at fault for what happened to her. But you need to admit that reports on the bullying and her own behaviour are so vague that you shouldn’t draw conclusions. As I said earlier there is no merit in assigning blame just because it makes everyone feel better.



  • Registered Users Posts: 8,450 ✭✭✭AllForIt


    I think things are so bad now that we have to have lessons in primary school that teach the consequences of crime, bullying etc. Both the consequences for the victims and the perpetrators to.

    Also the consequences of taking drugs, porn addition, even junk food, and anything else that isn't good for oneself and society in general.

    Instead what we do have is lessons on minority identities.

    Something is really screwed up in our educational system.



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,952 ✭✭✭kravmaga


    Mate, calm down ffs, he died recently , end off alright, now chill out and go for a long walk or go for a pint in your local.

    This is not a point scoring contest, yeah.



  • Posts: 13,688 ✭✭✭✭ Adam Ugly Violist


    Of **** off, what a stupid mentality.


    As for Boy A being moved to an adult prison, every prisoner in Ireland knew who he was long ago.



  • Registered Users Posts: 246 ✭✭I told ya


    Is St Pat's Institution still in existence? IIRC, it was for offenders from the age of 18 to 21. Then they were moved into the adult population.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 8,385 ✭✭✭corner of hells




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