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1995 Divorce referendum 50.3 % voted Yes

  • 18-08-2022 6:53pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 839 ✭✭✭


    Was watch Reeling in the Years 1995.

    Watching the old news reels this evening ... 80 year old men and women with their 'vote No' banners, the priets and bishops encouraging a No vote, old male politicans against divorce. And the yes vote won by only a tiny margin 50.3%. Bloody hell, it was like watching something out of Afganistan in 2022.

    If we voted today, what would be the result do you think ?


    Ps. I was 21 years old in 1995 and voted yes.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 767 ✭✭✭dontmindme


    Current affairs??



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,242 ✭✭✭brokenangel




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    Probably 80ish% yes today



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 839 ✭✭✭Juran




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,772 ✭✭✭Montage of Feck


    Ah, the nineties when the future looked bright.

    🙈🙉🙊



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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I'd say 82% or more. Based on 2019 referendum result. Probably more from urgency aspect.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,217 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    In 2018 when we voted to liberalise divorce laws, 82% voted in favor and 18% against.

    You'd still met the odd one who'd be very prudish about divorce, people being gay, etc but they are a minority now



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]




    "On a geographical front the country was divided with a strong YES vote in Dublin, Wicklow and Kildare. Cork South Central, Limerick East and Louth also voted YES and the rest of the country said NO! There is a theory that the weather affected the vote and some believe that if it hadn't rained heavily on the day in the largely No-vote West, the referendum could have been lost." (from the RTE website)

    It's hard to know what the result would be today given that fewer and fewer people even bother to get married nowadays.

    I suspect that the turnout today would be much lower than back in 1995 when such things really mattered to people who were struggling to drag Ireland out of the control of the Catholic church.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 839 ✭✭✭Juran


    Ireland looked like an awful place to live when you look at Reeling in the Years up to the 90's. Bans on contraceptives, divorce, abortion, little employment, most of the country were piss poor, country run by old men and the church. I wonder if any other western country progressed so fast ?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    It was very backwards, only in the 90's did it become illegal to rape your wife



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,964 ✭✭✭growleaves


    But of course not everything was seen through the prism of liberal politics at the time even if that's how its presented and understood retrospectively.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,234 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    Not to mention all the bad teeth. It's one of the stand-out things for me when watching RITY. Everyone's delph was AWFUL.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,904 ✭✭✭✭Galwayguy35


    The summers were good though.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 71,182 ✭✭✭✭L1011


    Also everyone looked ancient.

    I needed to go through the DIT (and precursor colleges) student newspapers, and until about 1993, the student reps all looked like 40 year old bank staff. They were 18-21. Guys with Dick Spring taches, the women in skirt suits and pouffy perms.

    Took a generation for not looking 20+ years older than you were to work through to everyone I gues.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,855 ✭✭✭SuperBowserWorld


    People liked to suffer back then.

    Would you like your freedom or be miserable until you die ?

    It's part of Catholicism that you have to suffer, and that it's normal and that everyone is suffering. For their sins. Etc etc etc

    There are people with big pensions, houses, good health, happily married (or partner passed), still believe this and would vote NO to divorce today too. They would condemn someone to a lifetime of a miserable "marriage".

    You still can't remarry in the Catholic church if you've been divorced.



  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 18,663 Mod ✭✭✭✭Leg End Reject


    The 90s were a largely positive time, contraceptives were more readily available, the church was losing its iron-fisted grip, younger generations were far less conservative, unmarried mothers weren't packed off to be tortured by the nuns in quite the same numbers and none after 1996, church scandals were uncovered and we had the first roar of the now extinct Celtic Tiger.

    If you want grim go back to the 80s.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,736 ✭✭✭✭Fr Tod Umptious


    Yes, people just got on with their lives and were happy with their lives

    People will look back at the 2020s and think the same



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 689 ✭✭✭cheese sandwich




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,964 ✭✭✭growleaves


    That is not an accurate explanation of what motivated Catholics and other Christians to not join in with liberal ideas of freedom.

    Reeling in the Years is not proper social history. It is just looking at the recent past and going "Hey look at all these crazy people with their social patterns that don't make any sense!"

    There's no attempt to understand people on their own terms, because that is seen as making a political concession to non-liberal modes of life.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,006 ✭✭✭✭Zebra3


    That’s decades of FFFG misrule for you.

    Don’t even mention their gulags for “fallen women”.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 889 ✭✭✭mazdamiatamx5


    Depends on what you mean by progress. There were ways around the bans on contraceptives.

    Most of the country is still piss poor, and the country is still run by the ideas of old men.

    As an atheist, I preferred the rule of the RCC to the aggressive 'dog eat dog' variant of consumerist capitalism which is now the only game in town.

    It does look shocking in hindsight that the referendum legalising divorce passed by such a wafer-thin majority. But it's false to suggest it was because of the older generation or the RCC's grip on the public debate, I knew at least two of my own peer group (I was 22 then) who voted against, and they weren't even particularly dogmatic Catholics, I knew several others who didn't vote 'because they couldn't be bothered'.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,234 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    It was more down to two centuries of doctrinaire Catholicism. Virtually no political party could have countered that but it's probably fair to say that FF certainly drank the Cardinal's Kool Aid for a long time. FG barely had a seat at the table for most of the time in question.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,050 ✭✭✭Cosmo Kramer


    Looking back at it now, the country changed to an almost unbelievable extent between about 1995 and 2000. We probably didn't notice it so much at the time we lived through it, but Ireland in 2000 probably has more in common with 2022 than with 1995, even though 95 was only five years earlier.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 71,182 ✭✭✭✭L1011




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,390 ✭✭✭UsBus


    I'd take the 90s in a heartbeat over the absolute cesspit of a country we live in today. It was an exciting time, full of promise and possibilities. Ireland has gone backwards the last 15 years and I don't see where it is going to end up, horrible place with no prospects for many. I often think back to the 90s to forget about the absolute rip off hellhole the country is now.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,006 ✭✭✭✭Zebra3


    FG had plenty of time in power.

    Governments are supposed to lead, not be lead. Let’s not excuse their cowardice on failing to tackle human rights abuses. Indeed FFFG’s collusion with human rights abuses.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy




  • Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators Posts: 10,606 Mod ✭✭✭✭Jim2007


    That’s because you have no context! I got married in 1990 in Switzerland, if we had gotten married a year earlier my wife’s employer would have needed my written permission to continue employing her. Women had only obtained local voting rights 20 years earlier and two or possibly three bishops were refusing to accept Vatican II and reverting to running their dioceses according to the Latin tradition.

    i was very involved in the management of youth hostels back then and a hot debate among the European associations was - family rooms: would the public accept married people sleeping together in a youth hostel! The concept of unisex toilets hadn’t even been thought of.

    During the 90s the other members of the EU committed the EU at Ireland’s request not to introduce any legislation relating to gay rights etc and it was agreed with out any major public opposition in any of the states.

    The world in the 90s was a different place and Ireland was not nearly as out of step as some would like you to think.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,984 ✭✭✭Dickie10


    strange days alright but are we now catching up to the way britain was in 1990s ? i think we may be, just social things like child murderers, violence by street teen gangs actually leading to murder. widespread normalised cocaine use. i think its more normalised now than 15 years ago. it brings to bear the question that most countries have a golden era, has ireland had thiers? in 1995-2008? or will we go through it yet? i beleive we probably have had it and future looks bleak. theres a huge social and economic storm coming to ireland that actually could send us back to 1980s ireland. i cant see the EU staying together in 20 years time, i cant see the likes of Pfizer , HP or Intel still being here in 20 years either. what happens then? would it be possible for the like s of irelandto become another version of detroit or pittsburgh?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,513 ✭✭✭BrianD3


    If 1995 had been a No result (it very nearly was) what effect would that have had on attitudes and culture in subsequent years. If 95 was No and the referendum was held now, result would be Yes but hard to give a percentage without rewriting history.

    I watched that RITY for the umpteenth time tonight and the part that stood out was about Playboy magazine finally being uncensored and the head of the Rape Crisis Centre unhappy about it. And this was 1995 when the internet was starting to take off - LOL



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,442 ✭✭✭bad2thebone


    We've really progressed alright, back when you could make a phone call and you have accomoation for college, a great night life, now it's considered violence if you don't call some people by their preferred pronouns and they can change it as often as the like.

    Back when being gay or bi had an edge to it and nobody really cared what way you were orientated. Back when the local paper seller who loved his flamboyant liberty and was accepted, nobody batted an eyelid he was selling newspaper's in Ennis and we all respected and loved good ol'e Michael Tierney.

    Back when there was no Blue haired social justice warriors and their mood swings. Back when myself and my friends were cool and probably we're considered progressive now the people who call themselves left of center all half baked fruit cakes .

    Back when we had the ecco warrior's who camped out in tree's in the glen of the downs and had something to protest about.

    Rave's out in the open, disco bar's, nightclubs, when we had refugees and nobody batted an eyelid. When there wasn't any racism.

    We've progressed all right lol

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,297 ✭✭✭Count Dracula


    Yaeh true, but it was more fun tbh.

    Sex was sooooooo Taboo , getting the ride was like escaping reality for 9 or 10 seconds.



  • Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators Posts: 10,606 Mod ✭✭✭✭Jim2007


    Every organization including the Catholic Church has rules and regulations that members must adhere to. As far as I’m concerned complaining about the Catholic Church not allowing members to remarry is the same as complaining about a golf club not allowing non members playing on their course - just plain dumb.

    Expecting any religion to accept you as a member will allowing you to pick and choose the rules will comply with is not going to happen. And why a grown adult would want to pretend to be a member is difficult to understand.



  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 18,663 Mod ✭✭✭✭Leg End Reject


    But the reality is that very few, if any, catholics follow all the rules.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,297 ✭✭✭Count Dracula


    Never miss an opportunity for an aul bash at the gubbrmint there why don't ya?

    Some people manage to correlate the FFFG with everything( it sounds like an acronym for 90's communist autocracy 😂 ).

    You will be blaming them for the fact that your shight stinks next?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 689 ✭✭✭cheese sandwich




  • Posts: 5,917 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    There are parts of the country you still can't get broadband :-)

    Granted you can't get Playboy in the same parts either.

    Friend of mine was working in a pharmacy in 2018, up in rural Donegal installing a security system and had to walk outside so not to laugh out loud in front of their customer (the pharmacist) , when he told a tourist that they didn't stock condoms because their mother didn't want them in their store.



  • Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators Posts: 10,606 Mod ✭✭✭✭Jim2007


    So why bother complain about their rules? If one wants to be a member be a member, but people complaining because an organization won’t play along and let them pretend to be a member…..



  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 18,663 Mod ✭✭✭✭Leg End Reject


    I'm not complaining about the rules at all, just pointing out that following all the rules isn't really a requirement.



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  • Posts: 5,917 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    More the fact that you are affected by the organisations rules even when you aren't a member, especially around schools.



  • Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators Posts: 10,606 Mod ✭✭✭✭Jim2007


    Politicians don’t get elected by magic, they reflected the views of the majority of the voters and still do. Attempting to detach the elected representatives from the people that elected them just does not fly.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,964 ✭✭✭growleaves


    No but they're meant to try to do what Jesus asked and then repent, which means acknowledging that you fell short but you're still willing to try or at least you aren't pretending that you didn't fall short.

    Here is the Bible passage where the religious experts tell Jesus that divorce is allowed according to the rules and his response:

    Matthew 19 NIV

    "3 Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?”

    4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’ 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

    7 “Why then,” they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?”

    8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”

    10 The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.”

    11 Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given.”"

    Note a couple of things:

    A divorce at this time is a woman being "sent away" by her husband (into poverty?). Grim.

    Jesus' disciples are massively nonplussed and even soured on marriage altogether from the sounds of it.

    Jesus says that a lot of people won't be able to accept it. It's not a "small ask" IOW.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,442 ✭✭✭bad2thebone



    Lol some of us were actually rebellious and did the opposite, apart from the odd now recovering atheist banging on about the church and religion some of us were heathens from a young age. Gave the finger to the church back in 1987 , at Halloween we'd egg the parochial house. We nicknamed the local cannon the rocket launcher. Aul cnut, miserable bastard.

    People will tell you that the church had a grip on us, did they fck. Nothing funnier than having a laugh in church and walking out in knot's laughing. Or the priest asking the youths at the back could they please leave because they're disturbing the congregation.

    Back when there was no contraception lol you're joking right you'd regularly see a rubber johnny on the road even during the 80's . The Pink elephant in Limerick was an open gay bar along with Loafer's in Cork. You had incognito the gay sauna in Dublin and a few other bar's catering for the gay community. Sometimes we'd drop in for a pint, especially in Loafer's in Cork as it was near a friend's house off Douglas Street.



  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 18,663 Mod ✭✭✭✭Leg End Reject


    Many bishops, priests and nuns must have spent a lot of time in confession so.

    I'm not well versed on the bible, but the church was always against divorce. Catholics should be virgins until married, women were once told it was their duty to have sex with their husbands, that sex should only be procreation etc., yet very few catholics follow that.

    There are calls for change, and I assume they will eventually come slowly, for self-preservation if nothing else.

    We've gone well off topic here.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,006 ✭✭✭✭Zebra3


    And ordinary people wanted the raping of a spouse legal?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,006 ✭✭✭✭Zebra3


    FFFG were in power. Who else was to blame for rape being legal? They and their coalition partners like Labour passed the laws. They allowed legalised rape and the RC gulags.

    But fair play to you. Deflect from the collusion with human rights abuses.

    Most people would be ashamed of trying to defend that. Most.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 71,182 ✭✭✭✭L1011


    Most of those laws were old British ones (that the Brits dumped decades before we did), and I think you'll find Labour trying to get rid of them many decades before FF/FG were willing to.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,273 ✭✭✭xxxxxxl


    I would say in this day and age you would be hard pressed outside some kind of Religious fundamentalists it would be close to 100% voted today.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 642 ✭✭✭Tomaldo


    In 1992 the Bishop Casey story broke, same year as the X case, not long after, the Brendan Smyth controversy happened. In the same year as the divorce referendum Fr. Ted made its debut, did the success of that show and those scandals make the church irrelevant?



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