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Would you move seats to allow families sit together on flights?

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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,885 ✭✭✭Optimalprimerib


    It depends. If I am only travelling with hand luggage I am very strategic on where I pick the seats. Aisle seat as close to the back as I can possibly get. I do my best to be the first on the plane and first off so that I get through customs quickly.

    In that case no I wouldn't.

    If I have checked in luggage, I will need to wait for it when I get off so I usually pick a middle seat and don't care where I sit. I'd have no problem changing seats then.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 339 ✭✭Duchamp


    I wouldn't have a problem swapping if it was for a genuine reason. In their case though, the guy said he'd move when he realised she was travelling with kids. When when cabin staff arrive, she calls him a 'f***** particular piece of s**t'

    You wouldn't get my arse off that seat to swap after that. The only ones acting like 't**ts' are these self entitled muppets



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,797 ✭✭✭✭Galwayguy35


    People shouldn't be expecting someone who has paid extra for a specific seat to move because they were either too lazy, stingy or stupid to do the same.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,590 ✭✭✭jmreire



    Nope, I've heard the name ok, but never even saw it advertised in any of the Country's I've worked in, let alone shown on TV. But how do you link it to my comment?? Fly with PIA and i what happened to me is a pretty common occurrence.



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,973 ✭✭✭mikemac2



    “The guy was sitting in the aisle seat and Spencer was like ‘Would you mind doing window instead of aisle so we can be all together.’ 

    “And he was like ‘Yes Spencer, I would mind.'” 


    The mother-of-three said her and Matthews initially responded by saying “oh, okay dude, that’s okay,” but when the mam realised he was being an asshole and saw her with the newborn baby he said he would swop

    I was like, dude and there is more

    I read all of this in an American accent. Some Irish girls are more American than the Yanks themselves



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,980 ✭✭✭John_Rambo


    Who told you I paid extra for a specific seat? That's untrue, rebuke them and tell them to stop pulling your leg and making a fool out of you on the internet. As I said, I was travelling alone I moved for families with small kids so that they could fly together and will do again



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,797 ✭✭✭✭Galwayguy35


    I never said you paid extra for anything, I'm talking about you giving out about people like me who pay extra to pre book a seat and you seem to think we should move just to please someone else.



  • Posts: 13,688 ✭✭✭✭ Elaina Eager Dachshund


    Since when is someone in a leg brace & using crutches allowed occupy an emergency exit seat?

    Don't you have to have be in good enough physical condition to sit in these seats in case of an emergency?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 555 ✭✭✭laoisgem


    Exactly what I was thinking. My brother in law has a prosthetic leg and can't book the middle (extra leg room) seat because he need's to be fully mobile to operate the emergency exits.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,980 ✭✭✭John_Rambo


    Ah, you must have mistakenly quoted me then.

    In future make sure to take care when quoting people and ensure you've quoted the right person, I never gave out about people like you who pay extra or pre book a seat. You're just confusing the thread and misrepresenting people. As I said, when travelling alone I will happily move for families with small kids so that they could fly together and will do again. I hope you'll do the same and someone else will and other people will do for you when you're travelling with family.

    happy flying and be nice, don't make a fuss, it's just a flight, like being on a bus, no big deal, you'll get used to it in time.



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  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Home & Garden Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 22,424 CMod ✭✭✭✭Pawwed Rig


    You learn something new everyday. I knew there was an option to pay extra for flights to choose specific seats but it is not something I thought many people would do regularly. It wouldn't even have occurred to me that if an air hostess told me to sit in a specific seat that I was inconveniencing anyone.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    I would change seats for someone immediately.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,431 ✭✭✭✭Sardonicat


    Well, maybe it never occurred to you that some, of not many, people have to sit on an aisle seat and so pay extra to secure one. Personally, I'd have no problem moving, I don't need quick and easy access to a toilet at all times, I don't have a fear of flying and I don't suffer from travel sickness, but I do understand if someone wouldn't want to move and wouldn't be calling them names before I took into account the many possible reasons for them needing that aisle seat.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,738 ✭✭✭Naos


    In all of the times I've either been asked to move seats or seen someone asked to move seats, I have never seen the 'asker' offer money to the 'askee'.

    They could have specifically paid for that seat to avoid the middle, be closer to the back for quick exit etc.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,797 ✭✭✭✭Galwayguy35


    No I didn't misquote you.

    The post is there where you said someone who won't move from the seat they paid extra for are a manchild or a karen.

    It hasn't happened to me yet where someone has asked me to move but if it ever does I'm going nowhere unless the offer is for a better seat.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,980 ✭✭✭John_Rambo


    Nope, I never mentioned anyone paying extra for a particular seat. Sorry, wrong person.

    I (unlike you) have been politely asked and I moved. Nobody was hurt or injured, I don't have a fragile ego so I wasn't upset.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,488 ✭✭✭kingtut


    I always book a seat and it's always the aisle seat. I'd consider moving for someone but only to another aisle seat (and only if it's like 1 or 2 rows away as I don't want to end up moving my bags or waiting for everyone to get off so that I can go back and get them!).

    Everyone is able to book a seat so the people who think we should move for them because they couldn't be ar$ed planning ahead should be told to f off



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Home & Garden Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 22,424 CMod ✭✭✭✭Pawwed Rig


    No it didn't occur to me. That was the point I was making.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 240 ✭✭patmahe


    I have done and would do again as long as the seat I'm going to doesn't see me squashed in in a corner or middle seat. But its a choice, nobody is obliged to move if asked and you know that getting on the plane. The only exception is if you are a jumped up wannabe celebrity.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,980 ✭✭✭John_Rambo


    Flight is hilarious. You'd swear people booked a box in Teatro All Scala. It's a bus with wings get over yourselves.



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  • Moderators, Politics Moderators Posts: 40,908 Mod ✭✭✭✭Seth Brundle


    I sat in a free seat once when boarding. The one I booked was middle row whereas I like sitting near a window.

    Shortly after, a man approached and as stroppy as you can imagine, said it was his. When I asked if he was sure, he got even more aggressive towards me.

    Anyhow, apparently passengers aren't allowed in the cockpit



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,102 ✭✭✭✭Strumms


    It’s a comfort thing.

    if I book a seat I expect to sit in it, the actual one I booked.

    if I get to a free un reserved seat I expect to stay in it… first come first served.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 287 ✭✭j2


    If I'm on my own I'd definitely move, I think it's nice for a family to sit together on a flight and it's something I remember enjoying going on holidays as a kid.



  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 13,017 Mod ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    Yes, I would (and have in the past) give up my seat so as a young family could sit together on a flight. If asked nicely and the replacement seat is fine, no problem. But I was brought up to have good manners and be considerate of others.

    Real bang of complete self-centeredness off many on this thread. But that's no real surprise...



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,468 ✭✭✭✭Blazer


    I saw this over the papers all week and what I'd like to know...wtf is Vogue willams and spenny? don't watch that reality rubbish so presume its some z lister from that?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,183 ✭✭✭TheIrishGrover


    I have moved from time to time. But it really depends on the way it is asked, the seat I am being asked to swap to, the journey and the mood I am in. I am not tall but I do have a tendency to get up and take a stroll from time to time on long haul flights (Also, small bladder 😀) so I look for an outside seat so that I am not climbing over somebody. I would not swap my edge seat for an inner seat. However if they want to shift people around so that I would be on an equivalent seat and asked nicely, then yeah. These things happen.

    I would not expect to be DEMANDED to leave my seat for an inferior seat.



  • Registered Users Posts: 830 ✭✭✭Juran


    It was the front seat facing the bulkhead (row 2), not the seats closest to the door. I thought that as well, as I often was told I couldnt have bags or coats on the ground when sitting in row 1 or front row 2.

    The more I look back on it now, the more irrate I am getting and regret not asking they move. But if you make any fuss on a plane these days, you're at risk of being dragged out by the police for endangering lives...



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,688 ✭✭✭newhouse87


    paid 240euro to book emergency exit seats to las vegas in few months for me and girlfriend, not a hope would i move for anybody after paying that.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,738 ✭✭✭Naos




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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,102 ✭✭✭✭Strumms


    I think it’s a little harsh that people who don’t want to give up their comfort and seat and by doing so in addition….will have to start scrambling along the aisle of an aircraft, during boarding , looking for a free seat and to possibly re-stow bags.. get labeled as self centred ?

    self centred I’d say is taking something from and inconveniencing people who did no more then book, show up and sit in the seat they selected and maybe paid extra for.

    if I’m travelling with children I’m simply selecting seats and purchasing seats at the time I purchase the ticket… I won’t be inconveniencing myself or fellow passengers..

    that’s being considerate of others.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,247 ✭✭✭Esse85


    I always pay extra for extra leg room so unless I'm asked to move to a similar or better class of seat then I won't be moving.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,325 ✭✭✭cuttingtimber22




  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 13,017 Mod ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    It’s the attitude of “no way would I give my seat up for anyone” that’s self-centered and inconsiderate. People including young families make errors when booking seats online, perhaps when booking they can’t get the seats they want in order to sit all together.

    I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt and if asked nicely, I would gladly oblige if the alternative seat was not inconveniencing me too much. Generally selecting specific seats online in economy class are about €15 or €20 per seat each way, so I wouldn’t mind forgoing the expense.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,314 ✭✭✭✭the_syco


    I'm a tall dude, so I'll book a window seat that has lots of legroom. Unless the seat that they wanted to swap also had lots of legroom, then nope, won't be moving.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,102 ✭✭✭✭Strumms



    :) It’s really neither self centered or inconsiderate. Self centered is making a bôllocks of your booking and expecting people who just turned up to sit in seats they paid for .. to get up during boarding having got comfortable and secure alternative seats. That’s VERY self centered

    i think looking after one’s needs and comfort having gone to the trouble of booking and paying for a specific seat selection is quite fine and proper :)

    it’s not as if booking a flight and associated aspects like seats, priority boarding, etc. is complicated.. it’s child’s play… ;)



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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Vogue and "Spenny" don't fall into that category though.

    If Vogue just wanted to correct her booking mistake, she would have just offered to swap seats directly, her aisle seat in exchange for his.

    But no, instead they tried to take advantage and asked him to move in to the window seat, thereby presumably gaining both aisle seats.

    Then she called him names to the hostess, when he refused. The she gets online, and tries to shame him?!? Unbelievable.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,480 ✭✭✭Patrick2010




  • Moderators, Politics Moderators Posts: 40,908 Mod ✭✭✭✭Seth Brundle


    Funny how she announced it was a joke after loads of people criticised her! It is almost like she is trying to cover her tracks because she is now realising that people see her as an entitled twat and not the goddess that she though she was!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,013 ✭✭✭chooseusername


    So as I understand it, say its a 737 800 with seats A,B,C left of the aisle and D,E,F to the right.

    If they booked seats C, E and F for the 5 of them I'd say their intention was always to try and blag seat D.

    Nobody is stupid enough to make the mistake of thinking seats C. E and F are together.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,480 ✭✭✭Patrick2010


    But in that question it would have been a straight swap of aisle seats wheras they wanted him to sit at the window?



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  • Registered Users Posts: 160 ✭✭spuddy90


    I have done in the past as a single person. No issue at all.

    Now with family I asked someone would they move and they said no. We were a family of 4 and our 2 kids were small so we were hoping to get the 4 seats in the middle isle. The airline had us window 3 seats and 1 from the middle isle. This was hard as it ment 1 parent with 2 kids. I asked 3 people sitting next to me would they move and 2 said no problem but 1 said no. That person was single. Said person was offered a seat and a gift to move but refused.

    I know it's the person's right and didn't have to move. Just shows how different people are in situations.



  • Moderators, Politics Moderators Posts: 40,908 Mod ✭✭✭✭Seth Brundle




  • Registered Users Posts: 160 ✭✭spuddy90


    Yes I could have but didn't. Back in the early days when kids were small it wasn't the first thing I thought of. I do now. On some of the long haul flights years ago we were often put in the 4 middle seats without reservation. I know it's pot luck. Nowadays we do reserve seats. Only learn from mistakes.

    I was more talking about when I was asked to move a few times in the past to accommodate a family I had no issue and was often given a present from the airline. Really didn't matter to me when I was on my own. Each to their own.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,247 ✭✭✭Esse85




  • Registered Users Posts: 160 ✭✭spuddy90


    It certainly wasn't. 🤣

    It was Qantas airlines traveling from Singapore to Sydney. I was shocked by the gesture at the time. It was a bottle of white and red wine in a lovely wooden box.

    Thinking back now I should have asked for a seat in business or first class instead of the wine.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,913 ✭✭✭munchkin_utd


    the lanky people here can calm down, no child <14 is allowed to sit in an exit row, so you wont ever be asked by a family with infants to move from your beloved seat with leg room.

    https://www.aerlingus.com/prepare/seats/seats-information/#/tab-0-flights-within-europe

    https://www.transportation.gov/individuals/aviation-consumer-protection/family-seating#:~:text=FAA%20regulations%20prohibit%20children%20under,on%20its%20exit%20row%20policy.

    The only place with leg room aside from an exit row then might be row 1, but youd be a fool to sit there with kids as you need to put your bags (with snacks and who knows what) in the locker for take off and landing - and if youre in row 1 you normally would be paying for that yourself anyhow

    To answer the original question, I would move 99 times out of 100 BUT if I had a seat near the exit to get out super quick for a tight connecting flight or bus, the alternative seat would want to be as good or better for getting out quick.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,102 ✭✭✭✭Strumms


    flying these days is often an ordeal, between security screening, long walks to gates, boarding and all associated queuing… so to be expected to get up again by some shower of €#@* and expected to get up and look for another seat ? NO ! 🤪



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,325 ✭✭✭cuttingtimber22




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,251 ✭✭✭Lewis_Benson


    Who is this wan?

    I'd tell her to go teh feck.



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