Short engagements/weddings

What age are we talking?

I’ve found that, generally, once people hit their 30’s they “go out” for 2 years, get engaged, and married, in 2 years. Kids are optional.

Not a hope, you don't know enough about each other after 6 months, not saying it won't work but why risk it, myself and the wife were together 12 years before we got hitched

Yeah, I mean, it can work but I wouldn’t be holding out for it lasting. Especially as they are marrying before they’re 30.

At least they aren’t doing it like Americans, in their early 20’s.

Come on. At that stage you obviously know you are attracted to each other but you're roiding like the clappers!

Wait until that slows down and see.

It does seem very short alright especially if they didn’t know each other as friends or anything before dating. Most of us a definitely figuring ourselves out in our 20’s. For some couples it does work out though so each to their own.

Pedro eh. Do you have his number? Asking for a friend.

Met the wife in August ,married the next January , been together through thick and thin and still going strong 36 years later , and I have her permission to say that 😘

Shite happens, but be a father like.

This sort of stuff gets my gander up.

I'm getting married next year, mid 40s, and we're still confused why we are! I can be impetus on occasions, especially younger, but not that much!

Yes. Both sexes.

I can't understand it. Can't be about sex. Not hard to get.

Is it personality of the people, money, last chance...maybe I'm just thick and can't wrap my head around it.

Concur. I feel your pain.

Repetitive strain injuries are worth it.

Got sorted for a good wrist support. Both left and right hands (I like to think of it as threesome).

Was with a woman for 7 years. Never close to getting married. We were at different stages in life. Broke up

Met a woman, in May, engaged by December, married within 3 year. We are 14 years together and 4 children. Wouldn't change a thing.

I understand. But sure you'll just have to try to get over the disappointment and move on.

Age is just a number. Hair and awesome tans never age.

Its why I married her. I knew she was a laying hen