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  • 14-11-2022 6:19pm
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    Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Morbid enough stuff, but curious all the same.

    In my case it's mainly to find the aul fella. Look everyday. Bastard has nine lives though.

    Am I alone here?



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,724 ✭✭✭✭Jim_Hodge


    I check if I'm on it before I decide to get up in the morning.


    I'll look at the local ones maybe twice a week, as I'll usually not hear of a funeral I should attend otherwise.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 789 ✭✭✭cnoc


    Every day and I check 3 counties!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,808 ✭✭✭Badly Drunk Boy


    I don't really need to because my mother and my younger brother are constantly on it, so they will let me know of our dearly departed.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,232 ✭✭✭TooTired123


    My mothers 88. She’ll go to daily mass but she avoids funerals as they are a bit too long for her so I keep an eye out so she’ll know not to go.

    Apart from that the “guess who’s dead now!” game is a national pastime outside of the cities. I read out some of the condolences to her and she critiques them for grammar and sincerity.

    Families with more then 9 adult children earn comment too “that poor woman peeled a lot of spuds in her day let me tell you!”.

    Likewise funerals with no religious involvement “not much comfort in that crematorium though!”.

    Harmless enough stuff



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,808 ✭✭✭Badly Drunk Boy


    Having said that, if I am on the site, I might do random searches of names through the years (in my area) and see if I 'recognise' anyone, or maybe look up college lecturers from 30 years ago or older people I used to work with.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,138 ✭✭✭✭elperello


    We'll all be there one day.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,420 ✭✭✭corner of hells


    Arguably , one of the better posts round these parts in a while.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,790 ✭✭✭✭BattleCorp


    I'm starting to get long in the tooth so I've taken to checking it an odd time to see if anyone I know has died.

    I've about 20 - 30 years to go before I expect my own name will be up on it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,225 ✭✭✭✭Strumms


    I do, but I can’t find any of you, just myself.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,307 ✭✭✭✭banie01


    Of course! How else would I know who to scribble out of the phone book?



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 261 ✭✭BingCrosbee


    I check it first thing in the morning and about 5 times daily. I check 6 counties as I worked across the midlands.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,242 ✭✭✭xhomelezz


    Never heard of that site. Should I join the club?



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Always check in to see if I've checked out



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,034 ✭✭✭Swaine


    Check it about once a month. There really should be a section on that site where one can leave a review of the departed.

    "Joe was a hard working man, loved a pint but was a bit of a bollox all told".



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,185 ✭✭✭screamer


    Yep it’d be funny alright, because let’s face it, it’s all sweetness and light when even the worst ould fecker checks out, but reading that site you’d swear every single person had a first class ticket to the pearly gates!



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    It's rubbish since they turned the comments off.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,138 ✭✭✭✭elperello


    De mortuis nil nisi bonum.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 973 ✭✭✭Burt Renaults


    Rip.ie should release an app that sends you an alert whenever someone within a predetermined radius dies. Swipe right if you're going to the funeral, left if you're glad they're dead, etc.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,323 ✭✭✭Kalimah


    I use it all the time for work. Don’t ask😀

    Find if quite depressing after a couple of years of using it to be honest.



  • Posts: 266 ✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I avoid obituaries like the plague. They’re too depressing. I lost too many friends and relatives in recent years, several of them way too young. The last thing I need is to be snooping around misery porn, which seems to be a national pastime.

    Once you get outside the Dublin and Cork City radio markets there’s “and that was the weather … (somber music) … and the following people have died …” … “if you’d like to listen back to the death notices, just call 1570 80 DEAD … calls cost 2.50 per min”

    Or, you can go over to the Late Late or some RTE show where they’ll have a horror story about a tragic illness.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,135 ✭✭✭Mundo7976


    My wife does, regularly, it's weird!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,598 ✭✭✭the_pen_turner




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,670 ✭✭✭Gooser14




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,323 ✭✭✭Kalimah




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 39,487 ✭✭✭✭PTH2009


    Yeah for some reason I would check it the odd time and go on the local page. It's a little sad seeing the homepage esp if the picture of the deceased is young

    The comments section were/are odd and would often have randomers commenting. Ending them with the likes 'from a mother', 'a grandmother'



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,225 ✭✭✭✭Strumms


    Had a glance earlier when I saw this thread…The amount of young people dying is weird, maybe it’s just a bad week or two but jeeez.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,546 ✭✭✭An Ri rua


    Memento Mori comrades...



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,546 ✭✭✭An Ri rua




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,546 ✭✭✭An Ri rua


    Yeah, speaking of Memento Mori, f**kin Google autocompletes me into it every time I check it.

    RIP.ie: you autocomplete me...

    Me:



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  • I created a bot to check for specified names of folk whose passing I don’t want to pass by so to speak 💀🪦



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,988 ✭✭✭Andrea B.


    Local radio covers all the aliases nicely.

    "William, also known as Will, Willy, Liam, Wills, Willo Malarkey.....reposing at..."



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    That reminds me of an inscription on a tombstone...

    "Where I am you once were and where you are I will one day be."



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9 Elon Musk



    I agree it is morbid, we don't want to face our own mortality despite the inevitable.


    Journalist Gemma O Doherty spends most her days on it to be frank, it's on her website more than anything!



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Someone at worked pointed out that the deaths featured on the homepage are pretty much the top ten deaths of the day... I can't really look at the site the same way.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18 Maynis


    They should add some filters to make it more fun.

    Like, Age, Marital Status, Disease, Suddenly or Peacefully, Surrounded by Family or All Alone etc............

    😋



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,281 ✭✭✭✭The Nal


    Its a big thing with the anti vax conspiraloons. The younger RIPs the better.

    Then they can go on their binfire social media channel with pics of the dead person and assume it was all the vax



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,421 ✭✭✭Quitelife


    Its one of the most used websites in Ireland by all accounts.

    I myself would check 2 counties twice a week. The front page is interesting where it shows the top viewed funerals, obviously there would be some trajic cases accidents/suicides of young people and some famous people but from looking at it Louth & Cork always have funeral notices in it of deaths so those counties would strike me as top users.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,033 ✭✭✭DoctorEdgeWild


    Forgive my ignorance but what do people use it for? I’ve heard of it but don’t understand why people would check it regularly.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    dInteresting question...Human interest? I look at it less and less these days



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,138 ✭✭✭✭elperello


    They use it to check details of the funeral arrangements mostly.

    Some like to leave messages of condolence also.

    If you just log into it you will get a better idea of the content.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,033 ✭✭✭DoctorEdgeWild


    I will have a look. I’ve heard it mentioned but kind of thought it was a joke!! Not sure if we have the equivalent over here in England but must do.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,138 ✭✭✭Gregor Samsa



    The last thing I need is to be snooping around misery porn, which seems to be a national pastime.

    I think that's what's known as a "challenging w@nk".



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,436 ✭✭✭dartboardio


    Nope, I'm not old enough for that.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,092 ✭✭✭Hyperbollix


    Huge thing in rural Ireland where attending funerals is seen as a duty as much as anything else. Not just for the old either, I know plenty of 30 something's that have RIP.ie notifications set up for the home parish and surrounding areas. They'd be mortified if they missed making even the shortest appearance at a local funeral. It's just not acceptable!



  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 18,701 Mod ✭✭✭✭Leg End Reject




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 827 ✭✭✭farmingquestion


    I don't really browse but when I do go on it to see who has died thoughts go through my head that it's sad all these people are dead.

    When someone in our family dies, we feel sad. We think "did we do enough, what if I did this or that". We think they were too young to die at 60 or 70.

    When I see all the pictures of the people who are dead, I think that everyone has a story, but we just brush over that which is understandable.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,868 ✭✭✭knucklehead6


    I have alerts set up on the site. After my mother passed my dad went off travelling and asked me to let him know of anyone in the area who had died, and to attend the funeral in his stead if necessary.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18 Maynis


    It was Tongue in Cheek?! I'm not immune to knowing people who have died.

    "Everyone has to take their turn sitting in the front row"



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,307 ✭✭✭✭banie01


    Look you've put the FUN in funeral 😉 This is after hours and your post is very much in the tone of the sub-forum and the thread itself.

    If the self anointed fun guard finds issue with that? Maybe AH isn't for her? 🤷‍♀️



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