Where would I live if ?

I don't think that this is really a question for an accommodation board. There is a dedicated forum for these matters that you ought to look at as you'll get better advice:

That said, my own parents broke up after the lockdown after 33 years of marriage, so I can understand the tensions that it caused. I believe that if you leave, you face the possibility of being homeless or, at best, accommodated in a hotel, which may be far worse than your current situation.

I thought exactly the same! Why would he move out? You are living with "his" parents! Why would his parents keep you under their roof without him. You are lucky to have somewhere to live because of his parents.

Even the fact that you think that could be the scenario, it shows you are a bit arrogant.

Women's Aid is not a "I don't fancy my partner as much as I used to , what should I do" organisation. Don't waste the time of valuable support services when there are people with a genuine need of their help.

Cant see someones parents kicking out their son in order for the woman who just booted him to live with them.

The fact their are children involved here makes it complicated too. Im sure they would be happy for them to stay, but likely they will hate the sight of the OP, especially if she suggests their son move out.

What exact behaviour do you think causes someone to feel the way the OP does,?

What kind of man provides for his family by moving them in with his elderly parents, and keeping his partner so ignorant of the world that she's here making posts like this?

If Women's Aid believe that she's not a subject of domestic abuse, they're well able to say so.

Wow boards is gone so nasty.

If the man is still the breadwinner, then shouldn't you be in the kitchen?

@lashofeye. If you were my son's partner, who fell out of love with him and living in my house, I would open wide the front door and help you on your way out with your bags. There would be no doubt.

Him and the kids would be welcome to stay.

Hope this answers your question.

Your living conditions at the moment are difficult, not easy living with elderly people and all the stresses associated with it. 8 years on the Social Housing list is just awful too. Would you consider going on HAP, and try and source your own accommodation. Sounds you both need a break to try rekindle your relationship, theres two little kids involved here. You might both benefit from relationship counselling, its worth a shot. Wishing you well.