online dating

It’s really ironic, when it comes down to it men & women alike are complaining about almost the same negative experiences on dating sites. We’re all just humans, most of us love tactile company, most of us love intimacy with a suitable person; and even more equal in motivation where women are post menopause and the bearing children question doesn’t come into the equation.

We all have feelings & emotions the nature of which are not attributes of any sex, we’re all capable of loving and unintentionally hurting others. The dating sites are commercially motivated pieces of social engineering designed to get repeat business, and we are all the pawns. Yes there are variants among people, some lovely & thoughtful and some totally self-centred as you encounter in any walk of life. But we must bear in mind that the sites want us back looking for more, paying the subscriptions/looking at ads to keep the business thriving. We are all the pawns on the chessboard of dating sites.

I'd like to be a father but it's impossible to find an Irishwoman who is not glued to her mammy/family/friends and basically using the guy as a sperm donor and cash cow. They're on all these dating sites in their 30s and 40s declaring how "family and friends are so important to me" - eh, and could this be why you're still on a dating site? Eh, em? Er? Just what are you giving the guy? Oh, and then the other ones with the pets! All the protective walls they build up emotionally, and they wonder why no guy will go for them. What are they giving him other than emotional walls from the get-go? And what are they getting? The family home.

Only recently I came across a single guy who simply paid the €30,000 for a surrogate mother and got complete control of his own child. It is significantly cheaper (and quicker!) than getting a divorce in Ireland. I'm not being facetious in the slightest. Do the sums. You'l also be a better Dad because you'll be free from an abusive partner who is like the cat that got the cream because she knows that by virtue of her gender she'll destroy the father in Ireland's highly secretive family courts.

Now, if backward pseudoliberal Ireland could only legalise prostitution, it would end a lot of this backward puritanical nonsense which makes otherwise sane men fall for all this romantic nonsense and marry. Marriage is a serious legal contract where a man faces a very real risk of being made homeless/sent to bedsit land and the poverty of eternal renting because his name remains, by court order, on the mortgage for the family home. And the winners are overwhelmingly women, who keep control of the children and the family home. Marriage is not a day out. Any sign of the advertising watchdog coming down on that conjob that romantices the wedding industry on RTÉ and all the rest? Stay single, men, and under no circumstances allow yourself to be in a legal situation where you will lose your home because your wife decides she wants out of the marriage. Don't be so certain that this sort of consequence of marriage only happens to "other men". The "other men" of today were once obviously as confident as you.

By all means use these dating sites to date good women. Just be aware that if you have children, Irish law does not have a concept of 50:50 shared parenting - unlike say the law in Spain and other progressive countries - and for outmoded cultural reasons the judges in Ireland will favour the woman even if she is a full-time worker outside the home. Lose the kids, and lose your home. Your "good woman" will be quickly advised to play the system and engage in the usual "poor me" victimhood. A paltry 15% of marriages in Ireland currently end in divorce. In less anti-men family law systems like Portugal, the divorce rate is over 91%. The Irish legal system and judiciary is very much set up to reward mothers/punish fathers: https://www.statista.com/statistics/612207/divorce-rates-in-european-countries-per-100-marriages/

"I was always a good housekeeper. I was married seven times and each time I always kept the house". Zsa Zsa Gabor.

I know they're shite. But look, it is what it is. I use Skyn Elite. They're the best I've tried. Handy if yourself or the lady have a latex allergy too. I don't, but whatever.