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Clarity on reporting posts and on what defines a racial slur

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  • Registered Users Posts: 30,117 ✭✭✭✭odyssey06


    What if 'Karen' was only used to describe menopausal women who engage in such behaviour?

    Gammon goes a step beyond Karen, or snowflake or boomer imo.

    If gammon is to be allowed then I don't see grounds for treating other race based stereotypes as proscribed either such as banana or coconut as I mentioned.

    "To follow knowledge like a sinking star..." (Tennyson's Ulysses)



  • Registered Users Posts: 40,437 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    it is not white people with red cheeks. it is white people who get themselves so worked up about their bigotry that there face gets flushed.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Play it safe and just refer to them as a **** instead.



  • Registered Users Posts: 30,117 ✭✭✭✭odyssey06


    So you admit it's not just "people", it is white people specifically.

    How does their face get flushed? An involuntary skin colour change towards red.

    Does it only happen when they use bigoted language?

    Are they the only circumstances under which white people's cheeks get flushed???

    Nope.


    Your posts on this are exercises in disingenuousness.

    "To follow knowledge like a sinking star..." (Tennyson's Ulysses)



  • Registered Users Posts: 40,437 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    well it is generally white people that are anti-immigrant bigots in the UK.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 738 ✭✭✭tjhook


    I understood the term to be a little more general - it could be applied to a middle-aged white guy getting worked up about anything, e.g. "the state of today's youth".

    Either way, would you feel the same about pejorative terms applied to black people based on outside perceptions of their group's behaviour?



  • Registered Users Posts: 19,287 ✭✭✭✭Tony EH


    A four star pizza?

    Don't think that'll work as well.



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,130 ✭✭✭Hodors Appletart


    I mean their home secretary is not a white person, has she ever been described as a gammon?



  • Registered Users Posts: 40,437 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail




  • Registered Users Posts: 23,757 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack



    It would be presenting a misleading picture based upon manipulating statistics though as the term doesn’t refer to 90% of white men, it refers only and specifically to a vanishingly small group of affluent white men of a particular social class based upon as you point out - their political views.

    It amounts to not much more than a pithy insult, objected to by people on the basis that it’s hypocritical of their political opponents to argue against discrimination based upon race while deploying what they construe as a racist epithet, attempting to portray the target as the victims of prejudice and discrimination motivated by racial differences.

    The attempt to decry the term as racist has about as much legitimacy as attempting to claim wigger is motivated by racist intent. It’s an insult, used to convey a negative stereotype, but it’s not based upon the fact that the target is white, it’s based upon the idea of their feigned outrage causing a rush of blood to the head, producing the resulting distinct colouration similar to the appearance of gammon.

    It doesn’t apply on the basis of membership of a specific racial group, nor would it make any sense if it were targeted at anyone solely on the basis of their membership of a particular race, age group or sex. It only has any kind of meaning applied in a very specific context to a very specific group of people based upon characteristics they share in common, and like all insults, it only has any power at all if the target understands what it’s meant to convey. Otherwise, it just makes no sense -

    https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/gammon-brexiteers-angry-white-men-middle-age-immigration-a8352141.html?amp



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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Karen is sexist as fk. Particularly hypocritical of "liberal" guys to use it (and lots do) - they're as bad as elements of the right for their disdain towards women who have the audacity not to be young and to have particular opinions. The "uppity" witches.



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,783 ✭✭✭knucklehead6


    Seems to me there’s a little bit of rules lawyering being looked for here


    ”oh, you said a word I don’t like and went to the admins to get banned so you’re in trouble”


    This is why shields response where context is key is totally valid and should be taken as the final word.


    I once almost got in trouble in work once for referring to tinkers hill. My comment was reported to HR. A HR person came to me as part of a preliminary investigation. Admittedly, me laughing in the HR persons face probably wasn’t the best response, but when I told her it was a place name the matter quietly went away



  • Registered Users Posts: 24,080 ✭✭✭✭Larbre34


    Here's some clarity. None of it is sexist, none of it is racist. Its just a way of identifying people by their behaviour. If they don't like the label, change the behaviour.

    Gammon:

    Karen:

    Common-or garden Tory scum:

    Clear enough?



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 38,730 CMod ✭✭✭✭ancapailldorcha


    In fairness, I could just as easily say that "woke" or "Metropolitan elite" are racist terms.

    The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.

    Leviticus 19:34



  • Registered Users Posts: 30,117 ✭✭✭✭odyssey06


    The target is white.

    It specifically references an unflattering natural reaction of their skin tone.

    That is how it originated.

    It is a race based slur (or insult) in origin.

    And, even if don't accept it as a race based one, it is clearly just a weaponised insult, allowing it just moves political 'debate' on boards into the realm of insult throwing.

    The forums where the word is most likely to be used, politics and CA, both stress the need to remain civil in posts.

    And Politics states:

    Keep your language civil, particularly when referring to other posters and people in the public eye.

    Gammon in these terms is clearly not civil imo

    "To follow knowledge like a sinking star..." (Tennyson's Ulysses)



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,108 ✭✭✭CGI_Livia_Soprano
    Holding tyrants to the fire


    "Karen" isn't misogynistic because it refers specifically to a kind of shrill, bossy, entitled, bullying, middle-class woman. Not women in general.

    When I clicked on this thread I was expecting those posts along the lines of "if you can say gammon that means we can use twinkie, choc-ice, the f-slur, the n-word" and so on. So gross. They're clearly foaming at the mouth, hoping to carpet bomb the place with N-bombs.

    That harks back my earlier point about a certain subset of the population (white male bigots) who are fabricating outrage over an invented "racial slur" so they can pretend to be victims themselves and give themselves a licence to spread their bile with impunity. The people defending them need to look at the real world rather than through the filter of the dictionary definition of words.

    Gammon is a word that refers to white males who (this next part is the most important part) have rendered themselves bright pink in outrage at foreigners, people on the dole etc. It is primarily based on a certain type of ugly behaviour, not skin colour. It's not racist.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    No. How is Coffey a Karen but Braverman and Truss aren't? And Coffey isn't common-or-garden Tory scum?

    Inane and meaningless.



  • Registered Users Posts: 19,287 ✭✭✭✭Tony EH


    There are so, so, so many people out there that are just dying to get one up on somebody else. It's kinda sad.

    Sent to HR for referring to a place name.

    Fuck me. 🙄



  • Registered Users Posts: 23,757 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack



    The target is unquestionably pink, if they were white, it wouldn’t make any sense, it would be so off-target that it wouldn’t make any sense outside of that context. ‘Casper the unfriendly host’ is a bit of a mouthful.

    Of course it’s a weaponised insult, as all insults are, but it only becomes uncivil in a discussion when it’s referring specifically to the other poster or posters involved, and even then I would expect the context in which it is used would be of greater importance than the use of the term itself. Otherwise it’s simply a question of inventing yet another creative term to convey the same meaning, and the same people claiming to be offended when their intentions are so obvious as to be not worth entertaining.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    With the amount of hate that has been let fester here you might as well let people call people whatever they want..

    Like, if you're allowed to call someone an orc, you should be able to call someone a (boop)..


    It's actually hilarious odessey06 is here saying calling someone gammon shouldn't be allowed..



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  • Registered Users Posts: 30,117 ✭✭✭✭odyssey06


    Pink \ white, it is clearly referencing the skin tone of a particular group.

    As for uncivil - One of the forum charters states:

    Keep your language civil, particularly when referring to other posters and people in the public eye.

    "To follow knowledge like a sinking star..." (Tennyson's Ulysses)



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,108 ✭✭✭CGI_Livia_Soprano
    Holding tyrants to the fire


    If the other complainant didn't know it was a place name, what would you have them do? Let it slide? Referring to "tinkers" in most contexts isn't appropriate in any workplace, and nobody is expected to confront a suspected bigot at work without going to HR first.



  • Registered Users Posts: 19,287 ✭✭✭✭Tony EH


    If the other complainant didn't know it was a place name, what would you have them do? Let it slide?

    Yeah. Why the hell not?

    Better than making a fool of one's self trying to get one up on someone.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Well obviously they didn't realise it was a place name but the fact that it was raised with HR still... ffs.

    Gammon refers to a certain type for sure (not just male) but it gets used about anyone at all for any questioning of immigration policy.

    Karen is just a woman hating term though - as if the behaviour it purports to refer to is exclusive to women. It just means middle aged women full stop - although it very much gets used about any woman at all if she dares not be a fan of porn, prostitution, the statement that anyone can be a woman, and kids being exposed to highly sexualised content.

    The arrogance and lack of self awareness of middle-class white people complaining about middle-class white people sticks in people's craw too.



  • Moderators, Politics Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 24,269 Mod ✭✭✭✭Chips Lovell


    You know you're getting old when the first you hear of a term is when people are saying it offends them. I have heard of Karen though.

    My rule of thumb about terms such as these, "snowflake", or "triggered" is that they are a sure fire signal that there's better things I could be doing with my time than reading, let along contributing to, discussions containing them.



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,108 ✭✭✭CGI_Livia_Soprano
    Holding tyrants to the fire


    I think most right-minded people would agree that dropping racial or ethnic slurs at work isn’t appropriate, and erring on the side of caution is probably better than risking someone who is actually being a bigot get away with it.

    The person who shared that story said that the complaint ended with a short chat from HR, hardly the end of the world is it? I would prefer that than work in an environment where bigotry is allowed.



  • Registered Users Posts: 18,480 ✭✭✭✭bucketybuck


    Its **** hilarious seeing certain posters tie themselves in knots trying to justify why this slur is allowed when equivalent slurs are not. They don't even have the wit to stay quiet and hope the awkward question goes away.

    I wonder, does "gammon" also apply to busybody white men who have to have an opinion on everything?



  • Registered Users Posts: 23,757 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack



    But it isn’t just referring to the skin tone, of any group. It refers to a group of people based upon their political views and social class. The attempt to construe the concept as racist just doesn’t stand up to any kind of scrutiny. Its use just doesn’t rise to the level where it could reasonably be regarded as uncivil. It’s silly, nothing more, and to attempt to sanction the use of the term would lend it legitimacy that it doesn’t deserve.



  • Registered Users Posts: 30,117 ✭✭✭✭odyssey06


    It references skin tone, it is an essential part of how it came into use. It didn't originate because they met at a particular club sharing their views over a gammon. Therefore it has a race based element. Just as choc-ice, coconut, banana etc does - they don't refer just to skin tone. But an insult directed at a particular group of people with a particular skin tone based upon their cultural views and social class.

    The posts on this thread should give indication some people see it as uncivil \ a weaponised insult. You see it as silly.

    Both views suggest its use in a post will generate more heat than light / and detract from any real constructive posting \ engagement. Its use should not be seen as legitimate political debate \ discourse.

    "To follow knowledge like a sinking star..." (Tennyson's Ulysses)



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  • Registered Users Posts: 40,437 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    probably best to leave that decision to the mods.



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