Are Adult males being victimised in these days?

I was in North Africa in Nov/Dec and was honestly shocked at how friendly the females there were. Just seemed to be genuinely pleasant unlike the angry aggressive ones here in Cork, lol.

If you think that letting a guy know that he isn't a victim for thinking he has a right to have women talk to him when he wants them to prove that he really is the victim then that says a lot more about you than it does about me.

Women don't owe a man a response just because he says "hi". And yes continuing to try and get one makes you creepy.

Lol. You're the one who feels victimised and too uncomfortable to walk in the park because women won't acknowledge your good morning so I really don't think you're in much of a position to be talking about other people's nonsense talk being embarrassing.

I wouldn't go as far as to say I feel victimised but I do agree with your observations. The fact that some posters felt it better to belittle your observations sort of proves where we've gone as a society.

As someone else said also though, I think its also a sign of people being consumed in their own lifes. People definitely aren't as friendly as they used to be and as areas become more built up, the community and friendly spirit tends to lessen imo.

I do, it's just none of them are weird incels.

I'll certainly agree that some of the nonsense talk is absolutely embarrassing. I'd certainly be embarrassed if I publicly admitted I felt like a victim because random women I don't know in a park ignore me when I try and engage them in conversation. They don't owe you anything.

That's a fair point. Men who feel victimised because women don't knowledge their "good morning" greeting are definitely weird. Can't say for definite they are incels but I certainly wouldnt be surprised. That better?

And that's where you're wrong. Women have been assaulted and/or raped after they engaged with a stranger. That "hello" can end up costing them plenty. "She must've been interested, she responded to me". I didn't judge him a creep. I pointed out that it is likely that at least some of the random strangers that he keeps trying to engage in conversation probably think of him like that.

And if you really agree that they "of course" don't owe him anything, then how is he a victim just because they didn't give him something that you admit they don't owe him? If they don't owe him a response, he isn't a victim when they don't respond.

You should restrain a violent woman (by grabbing both of her arms).

You can't punch a woman full-on in the face. Women can be easily killed - they have softer facial bones, thinner skulls and are weaker in general.

This is basic life stuff.

There you go OP, you’d be better off in North Africa as the “females” are more friendly.

just as a note on this gross generalisation post- is not saying hello deemed as aggressive?