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Ways of living you never want to go back to

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,748 ✭✭✭It wasnt me123


    Actually, a lot of disabled can work and want to work and you are just dismissing them. Just because you are in a wheelchair doesn't make you useless. Just because you have Downs Syndrome doesn't mean you dont have a skill that you can use as a worker.

    Everyone, and I mean everyone has some skill that can be utilised if they want to - we are doing our youth a disservice by paying them the dole and leaving them at home, in bed, on their phones, just storing up mental health issues for the coming years. If they wont get a job for themselves. they should be made to do apprenticeships, for the county council / HSE / govn department and learn a skill that they can use going forward. No one at 20 should be at home in bed all the time, its frightening thinking what that young person is going to be like at 30.



  • Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 12,558 Mod ✭✭✭✭iamstop


    I spent close to a year on the dole in my early 30s, after I'd gone back to college to get my degree. It was fun for the summer, going to loads of festivals etc but after about 6 months I was going spare. Couldn't find anything in Ireland and didn't fancy the UK so ended up in Canada. Still here 10 years later.

    TBH, wouldn't mind another few months on welfare as long as I could cover the basics but any more than that and it would really start getting to me.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,700 ✭✭✭Gusser09




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,913 ✭✭✭Charles Babbage


    Outside toilets weren't great on a cold night when you had eaten something dodgy.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,492 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko




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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,492 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    It sounds like you have no idea of the barriers that people with disabilities face when trying to get and keep employment.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,879 ✭✭✭passatman86


    Having to ring 11850 to get a phone number for a place/person you were looking for - the charge of them calls were ridiculous



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,945 ✭✭✭sporina


    not giving a sh*t about what other people think.. now I do my own thing.. as long as I am not hurting anyone - hey ho.. pity I only learnt of this way of thinking at 39...

    wish I hadda learnt that in primary school..





  • I would agree here. In the public service I had a colleague who had MS, very popular with the customers, a great colleague. Most of time no issues, but she had the odd fall, and would be good humoured as colleagues would give her a hand up. However a new local manager had her quickly retired, albeit on full pension, as a result of a health & safety audit. She was devastated as she cherished actually coming to work.



  • Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 12,558 Mod ✭✭✭✭iamstop


    I never want to go back to a bike with 'V' style brakes. Disc brakes ftw!



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,265 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    I changed over to disk brakes for the first time myself 3-4 years ago and can't believe I used V brakes for so many years, they're amazing.

    Just have to figure out how to properly calibrate them, I've been lazy and have been bringing my bike into my local bike repair shop whenever they go skew!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,542 ✭✭✭brokenbad


    Putting your name down on the waiting list in the local video shop for the latest VHS release - remember doing this back in the 90's for "Schindlers List".....



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,492 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,415 ✭✭✭SuperBowserWorld


    And then having to leave the bloody tape/disk back to the shop. Don't miss that.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,568 ✭✭✭Flaneur OBrien


    Getting a 50p fine for not rewinding the tape!



  • Registered Users Posts: 796 ✭✭✭French Toast


    Life before Google Maps and Eircodes.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,415 ✭✭✭SuperBowserWorld




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,415 ✭✭✭SuperBowserWorld


    Queuing for concert tickets.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,415 ✭✭✭SuperBowserWorld


    Windows 3.x



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,051 ✭✭✭appledrop


    Funnily enough this is coming back into vogue.

    People queued outside Bord Gais for Hamilton tickets so they would get best seats but also to avoid crazy ticketmaster fees.



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  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 92,550 Mod ✭✭✭✭Capt'n Midnight


    I never want to go back to the old brake blocks on steel rims in the rain.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,945 ✭✭✭sporina


    gee yeah - I was only thinking the other day while using google maps to get somewhere.. "how did I find anywer before".. but you know what - we did.. maybe my brain was sharper ekk



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,748 ✭✭✭It wasnt me123


    Not true. What I was trying to highlight that just because someone has a disability, doesn’t mean that they can’t work - I’m not saying they have to, I’m not forcing disabled people to work; more if they want to, that employers should be able to be flexible enough to find a space/role for everyone. Maybe change desk heights, add technology to aid communication; that sort of thing. I think everyone has a role in life and by labelling someone disabled if that means they are being labelled that they have nothing to offer anyone ever, then that is wrong. RTE are running a documentary thingy at the moment on the news channel talking about this exact issue.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,502 ✭✭✭kowloonkev


    The disability allowance is an interesting one. Yes it must be harder for them to find work. But should they be receiving more allowance than anyone else who is looking for a job. I don't think automatically they should.

    If they can't work at all then I think they should be getting more than the jobseekers allowance.

    Next Man City manager: You lot may all be internationals and have won all the domestic honours there are to win under Pep. But as far as I'm concerned, the first thing you can do for me is to chuck all your medals and all your caps and all your pots and all your pans into the biggest **** dustbin you can find, because you've never won any of them fairly. You've done it all by bloody cheating.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,325 ✭✭✭✭Grayson


    I used to work with the wheelchair assoc. There are some people I worked with who had jobs but a lot didn't. Simply because their disabilities prevented them. The idea that someone who physically disabled and in chronic pain should find a way to make themselves "useful" to society or else they're just parasites, is quite honestly, disturbing.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,492 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Honestly, if you know absolutely nothing about a particular subject, maybe you'd have the decency to either say nothing, or do some basic research before you do open your mouth.


    Your highlight totally ignores the very substantial additional challenges that face many people with disabilities in completing typical daily tasks.

    Try commuting by buses that allow only one wheelchair user at a time on board, and where the space is often taken up by a child's buggy or airport luggage. Try working in an six story office environment where you're told that you have to wait behind in an emergency, and wait for the fire brigade to evacuate you. Try working in a large organisation where your managers will patronise you and drag you out for every photo opportunity, but not give you any serious consideration when it comes to promotions or developmental opportunities.

    Honestly, do some research on barriers to employment for people with disabilities before you start accusing people of having nothing to offer.

    The RTE documentary is a great example. They're promoting it on Twitter with video clips that don't have subtitles. So they're actively EXCLUDING people with disabilities from engaging on the topic of barriers for people with disabilities, despite having an in-house team dedicated to subtitling. This is a very typical outcome for people with disabilities.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,502 ✭✭✭kowloonkev


    This is after hours on a random thread. Don't expect everyone to be an expert on every subject being discussed before they can comment. If you want to point out flaws or educate then that's fine by me but there's also a way to do that. Why would I bother reading anything you want to bring to my attention when you reply with that attitude?

    Next Man City manager: You lot may all be internationals and have won all the domestic honours there are to win under Pep. But as far as I'm concerned, the first thing you can do for me is to chuck all your medals and all your caps and all your pots and all your pans into the biggest **** dustbin you can find, because you've never won any of them fairly. You've done it all by bloody cheating.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,483 ✭✭✭✭Supercell


    Smoking, the stench, the frequent chest infections. Never ever again. Gave up about 15-20 years ago, don't really remember exactly as its that long. I still occasionally have a nightmare where i'm smoking and i'm so disgusted at myself and then i wake up :)

    Have a weather station?, why not join the Ireland Weather Network - http://irelandweather.eu/



  • Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 12,558 Mod ✭✭✭✭iamstop


    I never smoked in my live but growing up my Ma, my sister and brother did. There was a point when smoking was allowed in the kitchen/dining room area. This was also the room where clothes were hung to dry if it was rainy outside. Going to school with 'clean' but smoke smelling clothes was pretty frustrating. I had to fight to get smoking banned in the gaff. Will never go back to living with someone who smokes in the house.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,147 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    Ahh yes the smoke smelling clothes. They'd be riddled with it after a night out. You had to claw your way through a cloud of smoke to get to the bar. The eyes absolutely burnt out of ya as you tried to chat up some young wan while the electronic dance music deafened ya.





  • What? Disability allowance isn’t a jobseekers payment it’s for people who are heavily restricted from undertaking work.

    ie: most people on DA have been certified as unable to work/can only work small hours so of course it should be higher? There’s no incentivising a disabled person who can’t work from going to work.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,415 ✭✭✭SuperBowserWorld


    Outdoor activities with zero sun protection.

    The pain from sunburn ...

    The ignorance in this country in relation to sun protection.

    The glorification of sunburn.

    God, we were so ignorant.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,502 ✭✭✭kowloonkev


    Okay. Some people were talking about people with disability allowance looking for work, so I got mixed up. So if a person is disabled, but is also able to work certain kind of jobs, can they receive disability allowance plus jobseekers allowance? Or do they have to choose one?

    In my initial comment I was thinking more of someone who can't do physical work but is not in constant pain. For example someone in a wheelchair who can do a 9-5 office job. Yes I mixed up disability allowance as a form of jobseekers allowance and I thought all the extra stuff (eg adapting house and vehicle to their needs, healthcare etc) would be taken care of under other schemes.

    Next Man City manager: You lot may all be internationals and have won all the domestic honours there are to win under Pep. But as far as I'm concerned, the first thing you can do for me is to chuck all your medals and all your caps and all your pots and all your pans into the biggest **** dustbin you can find, because you've never won any of them fairly. You've done it all by bloody cheating.



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,789 ✭✭✭PowerToWait


    I think “travelling” back then was much more interactive. Random people and places, chance encounters, playing it by ear. I also love using a map. Gives you a far better idea of the place and is something we have lost as a skill.

    Post edited by Boards.ie: Paul on


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,337 ✭✭✭CoBo55




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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,748 ✭✭✭It wasnt me123


    You try reading again what I wrote. you’ve picked me up totally wrong. I wasn’’t saying they had nothing to offer, quite the opposite. I said everyone has something to offer. Is there challenges, err doh, of course. What I was saying is that we should make changes so everyone can work, if they want to. So make it totally inclusive. Do whatever it takes with public transport, access etc. I’m agreeing with you, just not so judgy about it. Anyways, we’ll move on.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,748 ✭✭✭It wasnt me123


    Grayson, you clearly. Haven’t read what I wrote properly. I said there are people who want to work, and we shouldn’t just dismiss people. No where did I say they are useless. FFS, what’s wrong with you people, trying to find offence where clearly none was meant



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,051 ✭✭✭appledrop


    Even worse for us girls with long hair you would come home and your hair would be absolutely stinking with the smoke, the smell of it on your pillow as you would be in no fit state to jump in shower at 3am in morning🙄



  • Registered Users Posts: 71 ✭✭Baasterd


    Imagine what your clothes smelt like if you worked behind the bar!

    In my twenty's I never smoked but I must have secondary smoked 20 a day when I worked in a nightclub, guess we will see if thats a thing soon enough.

    I remember as young lad being outside the bar at Mill Street back in the days the show jumping was on, this would be the mid 90s, the bar was just a shed really a continuous bar the length of the indoor arena. I think at the time it was the longest bar in Europe, anyway what I remember is the smoke just rolling out of the entrance, like the place was on fire ha...some kind of fog rolling out into the night, crazy times.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,365 ✭✭✭ceadaoin.


    A few people I knew used to slather on baby oil and lie out in the sun 😱 this was in the early 00s so they really should have known better by then



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    It's the one thing we must give Michael Martin credit for. He managed to drive through the smoking ban despite the naysayers. I always use it as an example of how people don't know what they want or what's good for them. We'd still be secondary smoking if the people then got their way.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,415 ✭✭✭SuperBowserWorld


    This song perfectly reflects map reading as a lost skill ... Rand McNally... and other things from the past. Beautiful song.

    A Rand McNally atlas, cheap coffee stained

    Now, I wouldn't know how to use one with my life at stake

    ...

    With this Rand McNally atlas dog-eared and frayed

    Like Old Testament verses that don't make sense in this decade



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,325 ✭✭✭✭Grayson


    Eating offal.

    I can't the the only one who's parents cooked stuff like liver.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,502 ✭✭✭kowloonkev


    I would say that hasn't changed too much even today. Not with older generations anyway.

    Next Man City manager: You lot may all be internationals and have won all the domestic honours there are to win under Pep. But as far as I'm concerned, the first thing you can do for me is to chuck all your medals and all your caps and all your pots and all your pans into the biggest **** dustbin you can find, because you've never won any of them fairly. You've done it all by bloody cheating.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,568 ✭✭✭Flaneur OBrien


    I love liver and kidneys still. Can't cook it at home as it drives the wife bananas, but have it whenever I see it on a menu.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,325 ✭✭✭✭Grayson




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,294 ✭✭✭✭odyssey06


    And my nan too.

    I see it being mentioned on some foodie programmes, Hairy Bikers etc so it might make a bit of a comeback \ not die out entirely.

    "To follow knowledge like a sinking star..." (Tennyson's Ulysses)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,530 ✭✭✭✭whisky_galore


    The bits that should be in pet food, not human food.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,530 ✭✭✭✭whisky_galore


    Going into bars and clubs with loud music where the staff wear earplugs.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,564 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    Liver is yum and good for you too. Very cheap too.

    Liver, bacon, onions, mash and gravy 😋

    Loved steak and kidney too, haven't seen kidney in a butchers for years. Our local one is increasingly just selling pre-cut / pre-packed stuff so before long there'll be no difference from going into the Dunnes next door...

    My mam would cook tripe once in a blue moon, I wouldn't touch that though. I'd say it's extremely hard to find these days, and for good reason 😁

    Scrap the cap!



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