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Teaching about Gender

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,680 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock



    Yes we did - and it resulted in people begin forced to grow up in shame and secrecy, and now seventy years on you want to make the same mistake of sweeping it under the carpet instead of bringing it out into the open and discussing it thus removing the taboo and denying people access to the information they need.

    Post edited by Princess Consuela Bananahammock on

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Site Banned Posts: 2,799 ✭✭✭Bobtheman


    Look you have no biological test for this so until we have one then stay away from kids.

    There are countless more examples of where psychlogy got it wrong.

    Huge criticism has been made about the psychiatric bible but if you want to zero in on just homosexuality go for it.

    I'm not denying some people feel this way but that doesn't mean public policy should fall over itself because of a feeling.

    I'm open to having my mind changed with verifiable facts not just a feeling.

    But just like the Catholic orthodoxy you have Liberal orthodoxs like you who don't want be critical of the Liberal consensus.

    Sheep basically

    Good luck



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,113 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Your arguments are off the wall bizarre 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    Being trans isn't real because it can't be biologically tested.

    There's no such thing as trans because science (despite the fact reams and reams of scientific acknowledgement that trans people do exist)

    Maybe a few people do "feel" trans

    Some psychologists said homosexuality was a disorder 70 years ago therefore being trans isn't real

    Everyone who thinks trans people exist is a sheep

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,680 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Can you tell me what exactly is a biological test for gender....? As opposed to the done at birth?

    Anyway, not relevant: we're talking about education now actually transitioning, remember?

    Huge criticism has been made about the psychiatric bible but if you want to zero in on just homosexuality go for it.

    Bullshit.

    I'm open to having my mind changed with verifiable facts not just a feeling.

    Bullshit.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Site Banned Posts: 2,799 ✭✭✭Bobtheman


    I think you know the answer. There is no scientific test for this. None

    Do what you want as a adult but I have concluded it should be kept away from kids

    It's too full of contradictions as that article - which you didn't bother to read shows.



  • Site Banned Posts: 2,799 ✭✭✭Bobtheman



    Google Paula kaplam and her criticism of the DSM

    I was not allowed post a link for some strange reason

    Or

    https://www.profolus.com/topics/criticisms-of-psychology-as-a-scientific-discipline/



  • Site Banned Posts: 2,799 ✭✭✭Bobtheman


    I'm sorry to burst your Liberal bubbles. It seems having thrown out God you simply replaced psychology as your new religion.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,680 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    A conservative opinion piece is not science.

    Former head of talent at Nikelodeon - a kid's TV channel, nothing to do with science.

    Not seeing relevancy of the second one.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,680 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    What exactly do you mean by biological test? What is it you want proven?

    That trans exists?

    That it's real in a particular person?

    That it would be a positive change for a person?

    I mean, it's a bit like doing a biological test for vegeatarianism, isn't it? Can you do a biological test to prove someone doesn't like meat? No - it's all in your head, so therefore your logic, there's no such thing as vegetarianism? Or it's a very dangerous thing and should be banned because we don't have enough information?

    Post edited by Princess Consuela Bananahammock on

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,400 ✭✭✭am_zarathustra


    Ah like I literally linked you to info on this, from a peer reviewed journal. Clear and consistent fMRI differences with nice reproducibility across different cohorts. Referenced in those studies are a rake more studies with very nice and clear p values. I'm not sure what exactly you mean when you say "science", it has very little to do with what I spent years in college studying and working in the area. You've no real interest in reading information, you just want to make it sound like you do.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,400 ✭✭✭am_zarathustra


    Bits and pieces at secondary but really you could avoid it completely bar in RSE, but again a little light on detail. I couldn't speak for primary. Mostly it comes up in other subjects, so like during gender roles in Home EC, maybe chromosomes in Science ect. Usually its kids just wanting info, like an open place to just ask. They often have confused ideas about what the words mean so it's helpful for them to be able to clarify. No one is pushing an agenda, I wouldn't wish such a difficult road on anyone, and some of the comments on here make me sad that the lovely trans kids I teach will have to listen to this sort of thing for so much of their lives.



  • Site Banned Posts: 2,799 ✭✭✭Bobtheman


    The source doesn't really matter if the points are true but your knee jerk reaction says it all.

    Becoming a vegetarian is much different from trans.

    We are obviously talking about different Paula's

    As to scans sure that's good evidence and points in the right direction but you can't say yet its definitive but I will acknowledge it.

    There are valid criticisms of psychology and psychiatry out there

    I gave valid links.

    Anyway I'm keeping my 3 kids away from this ideology until more proof



  • Site Banned Posts: 2,799 ✭✭✭Bobtheman




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,680 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    You never made any points - you posted two links (one of which was nothing to do with science) and told me to google a name (of someone who wasn't a scientist), that was IT - so I've no idea if they were true or not, or what they were intended to illustrate. Pretty sure you don't either.

    And I see 13 mins earlier you did the same thing. No source, no point, just something I'm supposed to guess fits a point you might or might not have made and I might ot might not be able to guess. Here who is? And what's her point? And how does it prove yours scientifically?

    If you don't answer those questions, I'm not clicking.

    Post edited by Princess Consuela Bananahammock on

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,605 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,605 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Yes, the old “keeping kids away from” has such a stellar track record in areas like drugs, sexuality, pregnancy, alcohol and more.

    Kids don’t catch being trans from hearing about being trans.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,680 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,113 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    You're clearly not willing to have your mind changed though. You haven't listened at all in any way to people with alternative views to you in this thread.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Site Banned Posts: 2,799 ✭✭✭Bobtheman


    I think I have acknowledged that there is some headway on brain scans acknowledged that

    Acknowledged that people do feel they are in the wrong body and no issue with adults getting an operation

    I think traditional gender Roles are changing all the time but the movement is in a rush to create more gender silos.

    Life can be boring so I suppose declaring yourself a new gender attracts attention. I'm talking adult's here.

    I'd read an article if one presented but then again why should I as valid points were rejected just because of their origin.

    Anyway we shall agree to disagree.

    I shall comment nó more.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,680 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    It was clearly pointed out that links were rejected not the points; because they weren't scientific - and you know this, you're just in denial.

    We don;t know what point you were making, let alone whether or not is was valid - but you're not open minded if you expect random non-scientific links to be entertained by us, while demanding scientific evidence from everyone else, are you?

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Site Banned Posts: 2,799 ✭✭✭Bobtheman


    The heritage article just simply pointed out the inconsistencies in the movement but best to knee jerk reject it incase it causes you upset



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,400 ✭✭✭am_zarathustra


    There's certainly an adjustment period, more for some than others but having open conversation as a staff and getting some training takes the fear out of it. I know it seems strange but it becomes part of the furniture after a while, schools are so busy and there are so many new things it's hard to keep up anyway. I've honestly had more issues with Andrew Tate type hyper masculinity this year than anything to do with trans "ideology" or whatever people think is going on. I have more conversations about shellac nails.

    I love my job I have to say and the variance in the kids is one of the reasons. I worry about when they go out in the world and people who think "science" is research and actual research is not worth reading properly abuse them. Too many are afraid to leave the house as is.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,400 ✭✭✭am_zarathustra


    Not prevalent but certainly there. I find it's just a lack of reliable information generally, most kids when appropriatly challenged or asked to actually think about what their saying do realize it's nonsense but there's a minority where it's really seeped in. I'd worry about the ease of access of violent porn too. These are far more real threats to kids than any supposed "trans ideology"



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,400 ✭✭✭am_zarathustra




  • Registered Users Posts: 342 ✭✭briangriffin


    You both have opinions similar to idelogical zealots, criticism of an ideology is absolutely allowed where it is warranted. I didnt say anything that was transphobic I've countered every single accusation. But again it's fingers in the ears and accusations of transphobia. Can you tell me what was transhobic?? It amazes me how even if someone hasn't raised a child they could still not understand basic child safeguarding. Children believe what you tell them repeatedly, so let's not lie to them and introduce an ideology that didn't exist 10 years ago and is full of many contradictions. All of which you have conveniently ignored by you two. Let's also not introduce experimental treatment with no long term studies.



  • Registered Users Posts: 342 ✭✭briangriffin


    A study of less than 90 people?? Will you please contact all the Trans Right Advocacy groups and explain that a mri can now be used with 100% accuracy to identify trans children and adults because these groups helped stop some ongoing studies last year on the brain. Apparently it was transphobic to try to find a biological connection to being trans.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,680 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock



    If believing in honesty and education makes me an "idealogical zealot" then so be it.

    Posts answering the question "can you tell me what was transpobic?" are here:

    And I've got two friends who transitioned more than ten years ago, so it might be new to you, I've personally got more experience with the issues.

    No one is saying "tell it to a child repeatedly" - strawman argument and hypocritcal lie. One class, an our or two, as part of a social/political/whatever it's called syllabus, and move on.

    Seems to me it's one rule for us (if we say something, it must be backed up with seriously scientific-backed research for our point or we're idealogical zealots) and one rule for you (any lie or wild accusation is automatically fact and may not be challenged no matter how hypocritcal).

    I'm still of the opinoin that you think they're going to be handing out pamphlets and pubery blockers - can you at least assure me you don't think that, or IS that actually what you think...?

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,617 ✭✭✭Yellow_Fern


    Such a reductionist argument. Kids are exposed to drugs, early sexual experience, drink etc. It has various impacts, but generally speaking, the data shows it leads to lower achievement. Taking drugs for example, keeping kids away from drink absolutely has a more stellar record that early exposure.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,605 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    You seem confused about the difference between

    1) Learning about drugs, and

    2) Taking drugs.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,400 ✭✭✭am_zarathustra




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,617 ✭✭✭Yellow_Fern


    The course reforms are not just about learning about trans or gender. It is learning a point of view. Like, I don't believe in gender. Yet the course treats it as fact and not even coherently. A lot of trans people have their own view though strictly speaking, they don't believe in gender too. I was talking to a psychiatrist yesterday and one of the points that mentioned is that we dont see big changes in suicide rates commensurate with the huge increase (often a magnitude) in trans kids. It really doesn't seem to be social contagion and I think schools should not contribute to it.



  • Registered Users Posts: 475 ✭✭delusiondestroyer


    They will find that people wont entertain this bullshit, my child will be thought there are two genders end of. This idea of teaching children to accept stuff that isnt real or scientifically correct is insane and imo is tantamount to abuse. Telling a child there are 57 genders to pander to these peoples feelings is madness , little timmy can identify as a cat all he wants just dont try and force it on a child to reinforce timmys crazy beliefs and punish other children if they dont.

    Its a sick world we are living in these days political correctness and the woke are out of control and it is starting to damage society in a tangible way.

    LGBTQ agendas should be banned from schools along with religion keep school a place of unbiased factual learning.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,680 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    ...we dont see big changes in suicide rates commensurate with the huge increase (often a magnitude) in trans kids.

    Sorry, I may be misunderstanding you here, but are you saying that if a kid is trans, they are less likely to commit suicide if they transition? Surely that's a good thing?

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users Posts: 475 ✭✭delusiondestroyer


    Puberty blockers and people cheering it on, these people should be jailed for that its flat out child abuse.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,113 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Indeed.

    I find it amazing that there's so much controversy over what is taught at school but little or no controversy over what children have access to online.

    Revision of the school curriculum is also about teaching children about what they might come across online so they know how to respond

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,113 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    You are talking about ideas

    I am talking about real people.

    Perhaps you should meet real trans people in real life to discuss how you think they suffer, are all mentally ill and autistic and are all not genuine trans. Maybe you right realise then that yes your views are transphobic because they are all about stereotyping trans people as fake and mentally ill and being trans as shameful and delusional.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users Posts: 342 ✭✭briangriffin


    And I responded to both your accusations here and here you conveniently ignored the response and fingers back in the ears -transphobia everywhere.

    Gender affirmation in children is an ideological position not education as I've linked above Finland and Sweden are no longer following that route because there is not enough long term studies and whatever short term studies they have has led them to believe that it is not in the best interest of children to follow such a route. If you teach or educate a child that they can change gender/sex and socially transition to the opposite gender/sex that is not education if there is no long term studies to say that this is the best outcome for children. If parents are being advised by gender affirming trans charities and gender affirming gender clinics that this is their only route to save their child because they will commit suicide if they don't without any studies to back up this assertion then that is not education its indoctrination. It starts with the lie of social transition that is being taught in our schools today. Gender ideology has no place in our schools until we have the long term data on childhood transition. Again if we had that how could anyone possibly argue with it? The below video is for an approach to gender incogruence that is being now abandoned in many parts of Europe yet we are following the US and UK model of care.

    If a child of 4 who enters school and is consistent and persistent in her belief that she is a boy for the next 3 years she cuts her hair short and insists on playing "boys" games and wearing boys clothes do you think that child should be affirmed in their belief ? Do your trans friends beleive that child's belief should be affirmed?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,605 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    It’s teaching kids that trans people exist. So that if they are trans or when they engage with trans people, they know what the story is.

    We don’t have a huge increase in trans kids. We have an increase in the numbers of trans kids who are able to be open to family and others about this fundamental aspect of their psyche.

    I wish people would be honest about their reasons for not teaching kids about trans people.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,113 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,605 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Hilarious that you think your kids will believe you unquestioningly and won’t make their own minds up based on other influences and what they see in the world around them.



  • Registered Users Posts: 342 ✭✭briangriffin


    Take your fingers out of your ears for five seconds and read what I've said if gender dysphoria persists past puberty in a small minority of cases then social and medical transition has been used to help this gender dysphoria presumably in the adults you know. What competent adults do or decide is up to them and what's best for their well being. We are talking in this discussion about children who are medicalised before puberty when in previous studies puberty resolved the gender dysphoria.

    Again I did not say that all "trans" children were autistic or mentally ill i linked a source for this.



  • Registered Users Posts: 342 ✭✭briangriffin


    Completely false we have a completely different approach to treating these children its the affirmative care model that's change the number of children who are trans not the acceptance of society or the evolution of humanity in the past decade.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,113 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    It's interesting isn't it. You accuse me of having my fingers in my ears but the idea of actually talking to real trans people seems to scare you.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,680 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Because you just confirmed what I said. I'll take the first two:

    Exhibit A

    You: What is a child's reference point for definitely being trans? Is it that a girl likes playing soccer or a boy likes dolls?

    Me: You don't know the difference between something you are and something you do

    You: (asked the same question again)

    Transphobia - you made absolutely no effort to find out...? You just confirmed your own bias.

    (Answer - in some cases yes - they just know - but you wouldn't know that because you've never spoken to any, have you? You've never tried to find out? You just decided that what you believe in is true because it fits your transphobic stance)

    Exhibit B

    You: Explain how brain washing an entire generation of children form the age of 5 into believing men can actually become biological women

    Me: Bias just because you don't like it, it's 'brainwashing' - it's not even on the syllabus how could it be anything to "an entire generation of kids" who are barely able to read? We're not even talking about kindergarten kids, we'r talking teenagers - why are 5 year olds relevant: because it fits your natrrative?

    You: the gender unicorn of the gender bread mans .... completely and utterly baseless in science ... How many genders are there? should we teach children all 80 genders should we teach them all the different pronouns? Its indoctrinating an entire generation

    Transphobia - baseless contextless accusation - I don't believe anyone says that 80 genders all have different - you are lying and making up bullshit to suit your own bias. And if they do, they're idiots and should be dismissed as such, but for some reason you think it's representative of the entire community - why is that? Because you hate the community and are expressing it here.

    You: Explai the increase in referrals to Gender clinics in USA UK and Ireland?

    1 - can you prove this? and 2) can you directly link it to being caused by the gingerbread group? Correlation =/= causality and if you think it does, it proves your bias again.

    You believe that this is what will be taught in the classroom - with NO EVIDENCE - because this is WHAT YOU WANT TO BELIEVE. It suits your transphobic narrative.


    CONCLUSION - You have no interest in finding out anything neutrally. Your have your biases and you are just looking to confirm them with lies. You don't know what will be taught or by whom, so you assume the worst and peddle it as fact. You are transphobic and only looking to prove it.

    Post edited by Princess Consuela Bananahammock on

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,933 ✭✭✭tesla_newbie


    These changes are being drawn up and lobbied for by activists and ideologues ,good luck expecting much common sense



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,680 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Exhibit C:

    if gender dysphoria persists past puberty in a small minority of cases...

    How do you know it's a small minortiy of cases? You made it up because it suits your narrative.


    We are talking in this discussion about children who are medicalised.

    Ditto - what the **** is "medicalised"?


    As for "what adults do" - in a lot of cases, these feelings suface long before the person becomes an adult so they need to be dealt with early. Now - just to be clear - this does not mean automatic transition or puberty blockers - this means ediucation.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,933 ✭✭✭tesla_newbie


    The way things are going the only kind of people who will be inclined- motivated to enter the teaching profession, are radical leftists with a Maos red guards style mission mindset



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,680 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock



    It's be the other side - you need Irish to teach and the radical left see that as a form of oppressive indoctrination.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Site Banned Posts: 2,799 ✭✭✭Bobtheman


    They can't get teachers either left wing or right.

    But I think what will happen is what happens with a lot of teachers forced to teach Religion at primary level it will not be taken seriously because of its contradictions and lack of evidence.

    So will be taught as some people believe this etc not as a fact like the Earth goes around the sun.

    I think religion doctrinaire instruction should be taught outside the school at primary level.

    The same should apply to this ideology



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