Dating Foreigners

A bit of Celtic mystique?

Still very rare you see a white Irish guy dating an African women

Sure "Pal"

I am long off the market but when I look back to my teenage years and then early 20s, I found alot of irish girls to be stuck up. Of course it has to be said that these were all girls and not women. So a young person being stuck up is not unhead of.

Then again I remember when I was 25 and I went out for a friend's birthday. I was like a fly on the wall with her mates at one point (all Irish) All being catty and slagging each other when a person was away from the group. Turned around to the b-day girl in question and asked is this how women are in groups? She slowly nodded yes.

keep the family line pure , like the lads in x files that kept the mother under the bed

In this 21st century dating climate men need to take any pussy they can get. This is why all types of women can get boyfriends, even obese women. It doesn't work the other way around, ugly fat men can't get girlfriends so easily.

Men are more likely to be simps nowadays, being white knights if any one says anything against women or feminism. They think women will respect them more for this but they will still date misogynist Chad over ugly male feminist. Chad can get away with being a misogynist.

I used to about 18/20 years ago lovely girl from South African

Just didn't work out not because she was foreign just because we where both young & relationship then didn't tend to last too long

I'm married now to an Irish girl

But anyone who's single go date anyone you find attractive, id actually try to date as many different nationality's or cultures as you can you learn loads about people & yourself before you settle down ,

Plus loads of beautiful women from all walks of life out there so go explore them all

best of luck.....

There's a radio ad on Q102.2 FM for a dating service aimed at women which says something like "Get away from the average joe at the bar."

The implication is that the average Irish woman is better than, or deserves better than, the average Irish man.

If that is a reflection of people's attitudes then no wonder some ordinary blokes end up marrying Brazilian waitresses.

I can see the logic of it if you look at it from a social class perspective, girls from South America or poorer parts of eastern Europe can come here and reinvent themselves and be a bit more reasonable with their dating choices whereas a guy rocking in from wherever isnt exactly bringing a house from Dalkey with them.

Noticed this too. No white couples allowed in Irish TV anymore

I remember when I was younger I found it easier to talk to foreign women and therefore thought Irish women were too judgmental, hard to talk to etc.

It was basically because I had all these insecurities around them, probably having gone to single sex schools, not having any female friends as a teenager, no sisters, so that they were pretty alien to me. My first proper gf was when I was 19 and she was a Canadian student in Dublin. After her I would always meet foreign women while out in Dublin or when abroad but never really Irish wans.

Once I got to my mid 30s or so, moved back home after years abroad and broke up with an Irish girl who I nearly married, all those shackles and prejudices I had were gone and the dating scene was great in Dublin. It's just so much easier to go on dates etc. with Irish women who get your humour and quirks and the idiosyncrasies of our language.

So it was just down to lack of confidence for me, wasn't anything to do with anyone's nationality. Anyway my current gf was in the same primary as me and grew up down the road, so that's where I'm at now.

Overall I find it way easier with a local gal, my brother got involved with a South American and there's a child involved and the whole thing is an absolute nightmare for him now.

Shop local!

So a woman would rule out a decent honest man just because he hadn't a well paid job?

Thats a ridiculous reason for ruling someone out.

That's life tho. You've got to handle the money thing

I don't want clever conversation. I never want to work that hard.

Hypergamy is real but now you have more women going to college compared to men. A significant amount of women on dating apps seem to have 3rd level education and well paying jobs, and the apps are already super competitive for men as it is.

It's not always a deal breaker though, it does depend on the individual. Some women place a man's earnings very high on the list of priorities. For others its less important.