online dating

Just finished reading this… doesn’t exactly answer your question. But I agree with a lot of it.

(Breezy may have posted this before. He does rather like a linkey)

Ok had a few drinks tbh, but it's been a while since I met someone and we just talked for like that. Helps that she was absolutely stunning and I could not keep my eyes off her.

Look we shall see, maybe in the bright of day Its not to be but I had a bloody good night , so it a win.

It's the small happynesses for me.

Where you from?

Ye all told me to push with the actress last weekend and that flopped so I'm nervous of first post date contact !!!

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It wasn’t because you messaged her too soon that she declined 😊

Id be expecting a message the night of a night out to see if I got home okay and to say he had a great night. If I didn’t get one id be a bit worried but eagerly awaiting one the next morning. If zero they day after id be disappointed and even if I got one the day after that id assume he was playing games and it would put me off, though if I heard nothing myself id text him myself just to put me out of my misery. Don’t wait too long!

Ah no I know...😁,

We messaged each other on our separate ways and when we got home.

Going to drop her a line shortly

Im hoping @[Deleted User] will come along with some moralistic insights to multi dating, he has all the linkage sorted ;-)

I now have two different dates tomorrow, My day in Malahide, then night drinkies,

like buses, and also make hay ? - next week there could be a drought in this tiny pond im in..

hmm - last night D has read my message and no reply.......

I think now you're fighting the illusion of choice now which is a lot to do with apps and maybe in part to social media.

You meet another person and something trivial which would have been overlooked a few years ago is now cause to keep swiping because there is a seeming sea of people there.

I think OD and meeting people can become a bit habitual too particularly if you enjoy meeting new people, it's a means to window shop or browse rather than actually ever having to commit to buying something.

The statistics on single people would also suggest online dating hasn't done anything positive.

Or is this friendzone ?

The double use of the word handy would irk me 😅🤣 and the u.

Fuss arse, me

lol fair on the grammar.

I just don’t know - if it was me and I liked a guy I wouldn't be suggesting ‘a coffee sometime’ that’s for sure. BUT everybody is different and maybe she’s one of those move slow cautious types. Maybe she’s shy?

But my money is on friendzone since she said sometime rather than soon.

The devil on my shoulder was pushed off by another and more evil sexy devil.

Was at an event with my bro today and a fella I spoke to and unmatched on Tinder was there.... talking to my bro.🤣 Turns out he's a mini Connor McGregor type - swagger an all, not in a good way - I died. And he had up he was 6ft but he's about 5'7, like a good head smaller than me. Why do men do this? He said nothing at all and I just avoided looking at him in case it looked like I was checking him out or something. But then he came over to us talking to my bro again, like I genuinely dunno if maybe he just didn't remember me or was ignoring me too, ha. I'd unmatched just cause the chat got boring and the last thing he'd asked me was what I was at for the night at like 11pm on a weekend which usually means looking for hookups. It was before I got full on chatting with the other guy (who's still amazing :) ).

Aw man, what a day. Now my energy quota is done and my body says no so I'm chilling for the night.