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Prime Time Gender Issues (READ OP BEFORE POSTING)

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  • Registered Users Posts: 774 ✭✭✭I.am.Putins.raging.bile.duct


    It will be looked back on like lobotomies in time.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,731 ✭✭✭Montage of Feck


    I just feel like we are medicating people to fit into predefined personality models. We recently had a controversy were kids with ADHD symptoms were getting "doped to their eyeballs" rather than getting appropriate support this was the potential to be much bigger scandal.

    🙈🙉🙊



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,622 ✭✭✭newhouse87


    There was a trans couple on paper last year,trans man with a trans women, guess what, there kid also now recognizes as trans. What are the odds? Obviously the kid was heavily influenced by their parents, hence the argument against gender affirming care as kids are so easily influenced.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,338 ✭✭✭✭Cyrus


    Very few because despite all the talk about them and the virtue signalling there is f all trans people anyway.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,338 ✭✭✭✭Cyrus


    People can be concerned about more than one thing surely ?



  • Registered Users Posts: 45 Sterlingwork


    Just to clarify a non-adult is by definition…a child



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,373 ✭✭✭✭endacl


    If by ‘boomer’ you mean a member of the baby boom generation, you’re off by a good 30 years. If you interpret boomer to mean ‘ older than you and talks sense, yeah. I’ll take that.



  • Registered Users Posts: 53 ✭✭Raysin


    Teenage girls are existing in an increasingly sexualized and pornified world, and Insta models and OnlyFans type sites promote a particular image of what's considered desirable, an image that's unattainable by most young girls in the real world of bodily variation and no filters. Maybe they think they'll be less sexualised and under less pressure to conform to a look they don't feel they can achielve, and all the pressure will disappear. Put some diverse interests in stereotypically male stuff, some internet echo chambers in the mix. possibly a touch of neurodivergence or other issue to clould the clarity and opting out of womanhood might seem like the answer to escaping all the pressure, real and exaggerated by online stuff..

    In the 90's anorexia was working it's way through populations of girls in clusters, in the 00's it was self harm, and in the 10's the tide turned to identity and gender, and the same cluster effect is obvious as girls show up for gender care in record numbers.

    Of course many/most of them will be genuine, but the sheer numbers suggest there are other factors at play in some/many of the cases. There are very good, solid, reasons for the lenthy histories and interviews being undertaken, and anyone advocating for an unquestioning route to irreversible medical treatment is selling kids short in a way that could ruin their lives. There has to be a balanced approach, but it's a very black and white issue to activists, in contrast with how most people actually see the issue. Its a big issue, it needs an equally big investment of thought and care to deal with it ad I don't think unquestioning acceptance and medical affirmation is the ethical or compassionate road to take in the long run.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,784 ✭✭✭donaghs


    Sounds like you are denying it’s possible. So much for having sympathy. Do you know all the percentages on all the topics on this thread?

    it seems like you stuck in an ideological dogma and refusing for even look at arguments from different perspectives.

    “Other people’s children .. none of your business” works lots of ways. Including not trying to push your religion or ideology onto them etc



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,807 ✭✭✭take everything


    This poster gets it.

    This is not a black and white issue.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,463 ✭✭✭plodder



    I've answered a few questions from you. Maybe you'd answer the one I asked in my last post

    Do you think gender dysphoric teenagers should be given whatever they want (by a GP who just signs a prescription), or should they be assessed more rigorously first?

    From what I can see, the extent of "assessment" that activists want, is no more than - do they have informed consent? We should just "believe" kids when they say they are trans, right? But many teenagers go through a period of exploring identity. Even at age 18, our brains are still developing for several more years.

    Even if it were just about consent and particularly with prepubescent kids, how can they possibly consent to a situation where they might be sacrificing future normal sexual function, something they have never experienced, for whatever approximation they might get of their desired gender?



  • Registered Users Posts: 13 MichaelMedik


    Yes. Only one side is claiming there can be "no debate", that if you disagree even slightly you're a "transphobe". Happily this topic is finally being discussed, even on RTE now. The emperor has no clothes, this insane phase almost over.



  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    It would be much more complex, I imagine, the gender dysphoria being part of a more extensive dysphoria in those more extreme cases.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,706 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko




  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 18,228 Mod ✭✭✭✭CatFromHue


    I never said they were and that was the point of the show last night. That an increasing number of countries are moving away from the WPATH standards of care.

    The show last night wasn't about stopping all care to teenagers in distress. It was about coming up with the best way to help them as the distress is real.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,706 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Though they often seem to be overwhelmingly concerned about the trans thing which has zero impact on their lives, and barely concerned at all about issues which affect very significant numbers of children and adults.

    It smells a bit off.



  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,706 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    It would be a very good idea for you to clarify specifically where you've come across arguments here for surgery on children.

    No one owes you a denial for something that didn't happen.

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  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    theres tons of issues affecting lots of children and people and focussing only on one is also slightly off if you want to put it that way. But here we are talking about the transgender affirmation issue on foot of Primetime



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  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    I didn’t speak about here specifically, but we do have it in principle for under 18s, not that we actually afford people healthcare that is theoretically on offer. We are very good at putting things on paper but don’t afford the resources. There are plenty of people who do believe it should be offered to children, everywhere. One only has to take a look at social media, unless of course such posters are making such statements purely for a response.

    But I’m sure people who are not for children having life-changing surgeries would not be afraid to state it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,706 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    They deliberately chose a very niche issue, and ignored the role of the two clinicians in withholding services to substantial numbers of trans people.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,706 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Are you, and the three people who liked this, suggestion that gender reassignment surgery shouldn't be happening?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,706 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    If I wanted to deny something is possible, I'd say something like "I don't think that's possible". Maybe you'd focus on arguing with what I actually say instead of putting different words into my mouth so you can argue with them?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,706 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    You specifically said ; "Arguments elsewhere and here for this among other treatments".

    What did you mean by the "here" in "Arguments......here" please?

    And what do you mean by "we have it in principle" given that multiple posters have explained to you that we don't have it at all?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,464 ✭✭✭Tork


    Earlier in this thread, cgcsb (and perhaps others who I didn't spot) touched on the point - where are today's goths/skaters/emos? The kids who don't quite fit in now seem to be the ones identifying as "they".

    I was quite taken with the interview with "Sinead", the girl who thought she was a trans boy for a while. It ticked a lot of the boxes when it comes to digging deeper before making any life-changing decisions. She had a few things going on when she decided to identify as trans: undiagnosed autism, being sexually touched by another young person and having few friends. She hated her body and being a girl and thought life would be easier if she were a boy. The psychologist she was seeing also decided that she was a boy with a family which didn't understand. This she interpreted as a stamp of approval. Once she began openly identifying as trans, she became part of a supportive group of new friends at school. 10-12 fellow students who also identified as trans would have lunch together and held meetings. That's pretty seductive in itself if you've never been popular. Luckily for her, her mother connected with her and began to ask questions which sowed the seeds of doubt in her mind.

    I don't believe anybody on the program said that nobody should transition. They're raising legitimate concerns about the potential for people to undergo life-changing treatments without adequate safeguards. It was ridiculous to compare that to getting your appendix out - that's a straightforward life-saving procedure which doesn't change who you are.



  • Registered Users Posts: 13 MichaelMedik


    Are you, and whoever likes your post, suggesting that teenagers who been led to believe they are "born in the wrong body', a majority of whom according to Dr. Karl Neff of the Irish State’s National Gender Service have a clinical diagnosis of autism, should have their request for surgery, in other words castrating them, simply affirmed?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,706 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    You're answering a different question to the one I asked. That provides details of the minimum age to request surgery. It doesn't clarify the minimum age for surgery to actually happen.

    It also doesn't show people arguing for surgery to be available to people under 18 as you claimed.

    You seem to be finding it very difficult to give examples of those arguing for surgery for people under 18, which you indicated was happening all over the place.

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  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    I restate my own opinion, it shouldn’t be happening to non-adults



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,706 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Has anyone ever suggested this? Like anyone? Ever?



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  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    I already posted a link where we theoretically have it. “Here” means on this forum, but I thought that was self-explanatory. If somebody posts about children having treatment that doesn’t involve surgery, that should be stated, because we are talking here on foot of issues mentioned in Prime Time that very much included surgeries that some individuals will suffer mental torture from for the rest of their lives. As for hormone treatments, these have less permanent effects and can be appropriate after a full medical and psychological evaluation by qualified experienced professionals.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,706 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    So are you withdrawing your unsubstantiated claim of people here and elsewhere arguing for surgery for non adults?

    Post edited by Boards.ie: Paul on


  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    I’m not feeding further into your particular arguments because you are pulling at every last straw you can to cancel any other posters’ nuanced observations. You can always posted links and stuff that might convince me of an argument you might express. I do like to listen and learn about science, psychology, sociology and all sorts, being quite neurodiverse myself.



  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    As an aside I do wish I had been a more interesting teenager! 1970s was quite a limited era, I think the most controversial thing I did was buy a few patches for a pair of jeans. I’ve become more radical in my old age though 😁



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,706 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Why would I post links to convince you of something that didn't happen?

    Prime Time told you that surgery doesn't happen for non-adults. I told you that Prime Time told you that surgery doesn't happen for non-adults. Several other posters told you that surgery doesn't happen for non-adults.

    You made up something about people here on this forum arguing for surgery for non-adults, yet you haven't produced a single example of anyone actually arguing for this. You really should withdraw this false claim.

    It's fascinating to see you and others making up this big scary bogeyman of surgery happening for non-adults, when it doesn't actually happen here in Ireland.

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  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    I might respectfully suggest to answer some questions yourself before asking any further ones of anyone.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,496 ✭✭✭AllForIt


    I don't know what you're referring to there but I don't see how clinicians can withhold services when what services are provided are decided and prescribed by them in the first place. Unless you're alluding to the idea that patients should now be able to prescribe their own treatment? I wanted my GP to give me something for a bout of rosacea recently but she refused saying it wasn't bad enough. She was right, turns out I didn't need anything as it diminished on it's own soon after.

    So niche issues are not up for debate then? Who knew.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,706 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    So false allegations are your currency then, good to know.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,706 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    I'm referring to the experiences of people going through the National Gender Service, and the kind of intense, intrusive questioning about their sexual activities and sexual fantasies, and the refusal of services if they don't meet other people's ideas of what a model trans person is supposed to look like and supposed to act.

    And no, I'm not suggesting that anyone should be able to prescribe their own treatment. That seems to be another one of the makey-uppey bogeymen scenarios in this debate.



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  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    So you object to medical & psychiatric investigations ahead of treatment. “Good to know” as you might say yourself in the midst of accusing me of false accusations 🙄🙄

    What type of investigations would you consider appropriate considering you seem to have a genuine lot of knowledge in this area?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,706 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Interesting again to see how far you have to twist my words to find something to argue with.

    Try listening to people who have actually gone through this service.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,965 ✭✭✭✭gormdubhgorm


    I think there is a lot of underlying issues with people who has gender dysmorphia, studies have shown that Autism is the common thread. It seems to me to people looking for an 'answer'. But the problem is not as if people can flick a switch and go 'back' if they change their mind and want to detransistion. It seems like a gruelling experience, which can leave irreparable damage.

    Guff about stuff, and stuff about guff.



  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    But you just did express objection to such investigations, quite clearly saying they were intrusive and inappropriate. Now I have no expertise, but I’m wondering then why would they go down that route of questioning it it had no relevance to potential treatment to be offered. What kind of examination would you believe is appropriate?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,496 ✭✭✭AllForIt


    Oh right so this is to do with evaluating the patient by interview before prescribing treatment. I think this is unavoidable especially when it has been show that so many of today's patients are autistic etc. The clinicians are psychiatrists, that's what they do, talk to their patients. It may very well be that some of the questioning is inappropriate, but that does not mean there should be none at all or very little.



  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    I once watched gender reassignment surgery on an adult, US based. A biological man was reassigning to be a female, the surgeon a trans woman. The surgery was amazing to watch, very painstaking, extremely skilled in trying to preserve sexual nerve function, bladder & bowel function etc which could go absolutely pear shaped at the slip of the scalpel. It was a long procedure, very delicate, and fascinating to watch the immense skill with which it was carried out. The penile skin is literally turned inside out with great precision as to blood supply.

    These surgeries are extremely major ones in male transitioning to approximate female. A mastectomy in a female is a considerable surgery too of course, but there are more surgeons with expertise in the technicalities of it.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,784 ✭✭✭donaghs


    He’s getting a bit personal and intense with that multipost “cross examination”.

    i found your earlier comments very interesting about being a girl and not being interested in “traditional” non-girl stuff. When I was young the “progressive” response was to say there are different types of boys and girls, you don’t have to be a stereotype.

    it seems like a new dogma in the guise of “liberal” values has set in where if someone questions their biological identity, it’s a direct route to identity politics and “gender affirming healthcare”.

    and if you dare to question this, see the responses above

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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 18,228 Mod ✭✭✭✭CatFromHue


    Andrew have you read Time to Think by Hannah Barnes? If not it might be something to check out as it's about the history of the Gender Identity Service in the Tavistock in the UK.

    Not everyone, historically it's actually been the minority, of young people who go through gender distress grow up to be trans. It's been shown that for some the distress is because they're still figuring out their sexuality. This is a complex situation and as mentioned in the show last night there is a process you should go through before transitioning, going too quickly can make things worse for the person. As was the case with Ritchie who was struggling with his sexuality.



  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    A lot of that questioning is indeed intrusive, and seems rather lengthy. Some questioning is appropriate if future surgery is to be contemplated, like which is preferred route of sexual activity, simply for technical reasons that would be related to surgery.

    Establishing if there was past sexual abuse would be relevant to a psychiatric assessment as such issues would have to be addressed. But I don’t see good reason for the more intrusive questioning. A psychiatric nurse present is appropriate as a chaperone/witness who also has the appropriate training. But a lot of that questioning certainly does need to be examined as to its rationale.



  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    I get that for somebody very vested in the subject from a personal perspective would naturally get quite argumentative, the way I do when it comes to giving out about how disability is poorly catered for in the interests of the majority. I go on a complete hobby horse, but that’s what happens, we all fight our corner.



  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    It is always difficult going through puberty, especially as a woman coping with menstruation, the idea of possible future pregnancies etc. I for one never in my life wanted to get pregnant, I absolutely dreaded the idea of it, both physically and especially that I wouldn’t have made a fit mother physically or psychologically. I just never went down the route of marriage, which was the thing for the vast majority of girls in my day. Had I any excuse to avoid it I would have. I don’t know how I would cope nowadays, there are pressures of all kinds all around, put in place by the IT giants with vested interests.



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