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Prime Time Gender Issues (READ OP BEFORE POSTING)

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,798 ✭✭✭✭kippy


    Oh I do yeah.

    But what did these hundred of undiagnosied trans people do before diagnosis was so readily available? Could they identify as trans without the diagnosis?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,104 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


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    Disgusting Nasty Comments about Frankenstein Monsters reported

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,277 ✭✭✭✭Cyrus


    whether its a fad or not will become apparent over time, i believe i am correct in that assertion but lets see,

    as for selectively listening to experts all that will get you is confirmation bias.



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,841 ✭✭✭TomTomTim


    I've just reported all the hate speech in this thread too. I hope it gets shut down in the name of protecting trans kids.

    “The man who lies to himself can be more easily offended than anyone else. You know it is sometimes very pleasant to take offense, isn't it? A man may know that nobody has insulted him, but that he has invented the insult for himself, has lied and exaggerated to make it picturesque, has caught at a word and made a mountain out of a molehill--he knows that himself, yet he will be the first to take offense, and will revel in his resentment till he feels great pleasure in it.”- ― Fyodor Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov




  • Registered Users Posts: 3,287 ✭✭✭Hamsterchops


    Or maybe they'll read #545 and amend their speech - hopefully, as all too often anythread involving Trans issues gets out of hand and shut down!

    This thread has lasted rather well, so maybe everyone can adjust & vet their words more carefully so that we can keep this thread alive 👍


    PS: How do we protect Trans kids, actually come to think of it, can kids really be Trans, or is it something they're being invited to consider, that they otherwise wouldn't, because they're kids.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,002 ✭✭✭Theboinkmaster


    I didn’t see hate speech just a lot of posts encouraging the protection of women and children.



  • Registered Users Posts: 968 ✭✭✭Str8outtaWuhan




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,500 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,500 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Where does it say ' no questions asked' in that definition?

    You just invented the ' no questions asked' from your own imagination.



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,063 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords




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  • Registered Users Posts: 968 ✭✭✭Str8outtaWuhan




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,500 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Is it "an attention seeking fad" or is it that when you create a safe space for young people to be open and honest, they start being open and honest instead of trying to lock their innermost feelings away in the closet?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,500 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Just to be clear and for the umpteenth time, children from Ireland are not having life changing surgery.



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,063 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    Mod - This thread has been reasonably civil up until the last 48 hours however it has started to turn toxic and abusive so moderator action is now going to be needed.

    Abusive or dehumanising posts are not acceptable and will be actioned.

    Thread will be reviewed later today so more mod actions will likely follow.


    Added to op,

    Mod note - discuss the topic civilly and in good faith or don't post.

    Referring to trans people as mentally ill or men in dresses will mean a threadban at the very least



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,500 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Can you identify any of the powerful trans activists please?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,500 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Tell me you know nothing about the diagnosis process for trans people without telling me that you know nothing about the diagnosis process for trans people.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,500 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    You don't need to engage, just follow people and hear what they are seeing. Look out for media articles, books, documentaries, movies,dramas.

    There's a whole world out there, and you won't have to make up fictional claims.

    Post edited by Boards.ie: Paul on


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,798 ✭✭✭✭kippy




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,798 ✭✭✭✭kippy



    For the past 2000 years up until recently, what effect did "locking their innermost feelings away in the closet" have on these younger people?



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  • Registered Users Posts: 378 ✭✭PaoloGotti


    I dunno, it could be good for trans kids to read the logical and factual opinions that are presented without malice.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,104 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,277 ✭✭✭✭Cyrus


    id imagine i know about as much about it as you do unless you have been diagnosed?



  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    I understood though that (at least in the Irish context) that there is such a huge dearth of doctors specialising in this area that people, moreover young people, are not actually getting to the stage of being diagnosed in sufficient numbers and that to date much of what we know about being trans in this country comes from people’s own assertions? And that more young people, for whatever reason we don’t understand yet, are presenting with gender dysphoria / desire for affirmation &/ treatment than ever before.,



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,508 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    Well, no.

    As the link above shows, all an over-18 in Ireland needs is for a solicitor or other officer of the state to witness their declaration that they are transgender. No need for doctors at all.

    For under-18s, a doctor is required at present, but the law that was in the process of being passed until people started objecting was intended to similarly simplify the procedure for over-16 year-olds as well.

    "Note: In November 2019, the Department of Social Protection published a report proposing a simplified path to legal gender recognition for people aged 16 to 17. The report was published after a review of the Gender Recognition Act 2015 (pdf). Its recommendations have not yet been passed into law."

    So why are people saying that doctors are required in Ireland? Do they all live in the UK or something?

    Reem Alsalem UNSR Violence Against Women and Girls: "Very concerned about statements by the IOC at Paris2024 (M)ultiple international treaties and national constitutions specifically refer to women & their fundamental rights, so the world (understands) what women -and men- are. (H)ow can one assess fairness and justice if we do not know who we are being fair and just to?"



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  • Registered Users Posts: 378 ✭✭PaoloGotti


    It is. But the overall thread shouldn’t be closed. Its overall a net positive in terms of discussion and sense.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,798 ✭✭✭✭kippy


    So the poster that responded to me was incorrect?



  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    Well i will avoid the majority on Twitter/X anyway as often I don’t know what the full agenda is of people posting some absurd and extreme stuff on that particular platform. Other media would certainly be likely better.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,220 ✭✭✭Sudden Valley


    That is for legal recognition, not for treatment. I live in Ireland. We were talking abut diagnoses so not sure why you are even bringing legal recognition into the conversation.

    I'm not even sure what the original OP was related to but you have posters here claiming that being trans is a fad, that listening to the majority medical advice is" selectively listening" and invoking the term Frankenstein into the trans debate. But yet the anti-trans side of the debate claim they are trying to be respectful. I don't think this thread is long for the world as it has quickly gone the route of every other thread related to the topic that has been closed down.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,277 ✭✭✭✭Cyrus




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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,798 ✭✭✭✭kippy


    Just to be clear, I am not "anti-trans" nor have I invoked "frankenstein" into the debate - I think only one poster has done that and I don't condone that phrasology in these types of conversations.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,220 ✭✭✭Sudden Valley


    That is fine but we have niw a poster invoking conspiracy theories we have multiple posters with the claim being trans is a fad and a number of posters not condemning the use of the phrase frankenstein. How does this produce a respectful debate? If this was covid related this thread would have been shut down.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,798 ✭✭✭✭kippy


    To be fair, they haven't said being trans is a fad and I think you should clarify that.

    There's plenty silliness "on the other side" from a poster or two as well - which is very plain to see.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,508 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    The point is that if someone wants drug treatment "because they are trans", there is no need for a medical diagnosis. Self diagnosis is enough for the "affirmation" model.

    In fact a doctor wanting to "test" whether the person's claims were exact by querying them may well be at risk of being accused of being transphobic or even of wanting to carry out conversion treatment on the person.

    Reem Alsalem UNSR Violence Against Women and Girls: "Very concerned about statements by the IOC at Paris2024 (M)ultiple international treaties and national constitutions specifically refer to women & their fundamental rights, so the world (understands) what women -and men- are. (H)ow can one assess fairness and justice if we do not know who we are being fair and just to?"



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,220 ✭✭✭Sudden Valley


    I am fair enough to posters that claim they are being respectful to trans people and then claiming without evidence, that it is obvious the increase in case is due to becoming trans being a fad. If you make grand claims without any evidence i think that is definition of unfair.

    These threads tend to be shut down due to the level of silliness of those against the majority current thinking on gender dysphoria becomes too cruel or too wacky like the conspiracy theory just referred to by hamsterchops.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,798 ✭✭✭✭kippy


    The biggest issues in these types of debates is, in my opinion, the extremes that exist.

    Transgender, were most people to think of the phrase, is a person who has been assigned a sex at birth (man/woman male/female) who does not feel like their assigned sex but feels like the opposite sex at some point in their lives - they call themselves transgender.

    That's a very straightforward way of looking at it - thee are edge cases of people born with the organs of both sexes etc etc but for the sake of clarity lets leave that side of it out for the minute.

    The above is not something that directly impacts my life currently but I do have opinions on it as it could very easily have an impact on my life and the lives of hundres of thousands/millions/billions of people if it is not managed properly.

    The issues that "annoy" most people are those that have started up over the past decade or maybe a bit more that introduces this "Gender Spectrum" where people can say they are a gender that has literally no meaning or definition and act out based on their feelings. I appreciate this thread probably hasn't slipped into that realm but I do think that certain posters have it at the back of their minds. Some portion of this has all the markings of a social contagion, whether magnified by social media or otherwise.

    There's also the issue of some of the extreme social media influencers out there who have really done damage to the genuine trans people out there. Some of these people mock women and appear to be on a journey for like and clicks and ultimately money.

    Then you have a large number of high profile trans sports people who are competing in womens sports - which is completely wrong on every level but a lot of people get ostrachised or sidelined for saying it. I don't believe it's happening here but again these things worry people.

    The above are all legitmate concerns that are damaging women (usually), that large portions of women themselves are worried about, yet when they are discussed people from all sides try to shut down the debate.



  • Registered Users Posts: 3,287 ✭✭✭Hamsterchops


    In reply to the above ... but the current clammer amongst young people to "transition" is akin to a fad, with a shockingly exponential rise in cases in just a few years, an epidemic unheard of in recent times, Trans and "Non binary" kids appearing by the bucket load, > this is the case put forward by several well known author's including Andrew Doyle & Helen Joyce, also spoken about by Jordan Peterson & Stephen Fry not forgetting Richard Dawkins, all with a similar take on the current mass Trans hysteria and indoctrination of our culture, specially in the Anglosphere!

    Canada & New Zealand totally captured, certain States in the US too ....

    I've said my piece about protecting Trans people & trans rights in a previous post #545, so this post is in relation to the current crazy explosion of adults & kids who claim to be Trans, most definitely a social contagion spread rapidly by social media. Nothing against Trans people, just the ideology, the dogma, and the social indoctrination of children > in school <



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,621 ✭✭✭✭Boggles


    but the current clammer amongst young people to "transition" is akin to a fad, with a shockingly exponential rise in cases in just a few years, an epidemic unheard of in recent times

    Could you provide stats to back up this up please? Irish statistics, numbers please, thank you.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,220 ✭✭✭Sudden Valley


    I'm not trying to attack you but I would note that a number of people you reference as making those claims are not psychologists and they are propagating a theory of a conspiracy of a group of bad actors not acting in the best interests of their patients. It is the literal definition of a conspiracy theory and needs to be supported by more evidence then one reference to a book by a media personality.

    Jordan Peterson I think is the worst person to qoute regarding this theory as he has posted videos calling doctors performing sex changes "criminal". He is not level headed on this topic.



  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    I wouldn’t use the label “fad”, It’s demoralising to young people, but there does seem to be a reported increase, especially in the number of young girls, from what I have read, expressing the feeling they are transgender. The reasons are not quite understood.

    What would you consider to be the majority mainstream thinking that you mention? I’m not certain myself.

    As for the Shelley novel character, I would not condone its use in this context.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,220 ✭✭✭Sudden Valley


    I wouldn't call it indicative of anything as I haven't seen anyone provide any surveys or papers on why there has been this increase. I would be shooting blind and just making a fool of myself.

    I would believe that what we have now, the structures in place for those suffering from gender dysphoria is the mainstream medical opinion on that matter. Doctors can only perform sex change operations and diagnose patients based on the legal structures that exist.

    Post edited by Boards.ie: Paul on


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,256 ✭✭✭✭GreeBo


    "their feelings as facts"

    Isn't that the crux of the whole trans debate?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,220 ✭✭✭Sudden Valley


    Not according to medical professionals. Gender dysphoria is a recognised medical diagnose. Would you refer to other recognised medical diagnoses say related to medical health as feelings too?



  • Posts: 0 Kylan Nice Salami


    What I’m referring to in the apparent increase relate to US stats. I don’t think we have any good stats on this subject in Ireland, as least not yet.



  • Registered Users Posts: 3,287 ✭✭✭Hamsterchops


    Great News hot off the press from Australia . . . .

    Regarding psychiatric gender disphoria / gender affirming care for kids https://youtu.be/RAHB-Ak4r_s?si=oWjBnAqTNDkvJ_KP



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,220 ✭✭✭Sudden Valley


    Anyone can have a theory for why there is an increase. We could probably come up with a dozen theories for this between us. But they are all equally invalid if they have no supporting evidence behind them such as surveys or medical papers. I have no idea why there would be an increase as I haven't read any opinion polls or medical papers on the subject of the increase.

    Post edited by Boards.ie: Paul on


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,256 ✭✭✭✭GreeBo



    How much of that is due to societal pressure though? Its not that long ago being trans was recognized as a disorder. Arguably it was redefined due to the stigma that can be associated with the term "disorder" rather than any new discoveries in the area.

    Medical professionals also define man and woman in a definite, scientific manner, yet no one on this thread who supports the idea of trans men and trans women can define them, because it clearly flies in the face of what it means to be transgender.

    So which is it? as they can't coexist unless you don't require logic in your definitions and arguments.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,220 ✭✭✭Sudden Valley


    Anything related to the mind can only be communicated verbally from the patient to the doctor. For any mind related medical conditions no physical evidence exists to tell if the patient is telling the truth. I don't believe GD is a disorder and the medical profession agrees with me. I don't believe in conspiracy theories that medical professions are conspiring to increase the amount of trans people or that there is deliberate misdiagnosis on people of suffering from GD

    I support trans people being able to have sex changes and would refer to them by their preferred pronouns. Do I believe they physically change sex/gender, no. I believe they are transmen or transwomen.



  • Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 7,265 Mod ✭✭✭✭cdeb


    One of the findings of the Tavistock scandal which saw the NHS' GIDS unit shut down was that medical/psychologist staff were subject to bullying from other staff if they disagreed with a diagnosis of gender dysphoria. Called transphobic and the usual sort of stuff we've seen on here many times. A significant number - one-third of staff I think - reported this.

    So I'm not quite sure you're correct when you say you don't believe "medical professions are conspiring to increase the amount of trans people or that there is deliberate misdiagnosis on people of suffering from GD". It's not word for word what you describe, but it's similar enough to be very relevant



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,798 ✭✭✭✭kippy


    Do you believe trans women/transmen should be able to compete in sports with biological men/women when there is a physical aspect invovled?

    Do you believe a transwoman/transman should be permitted in traditionally women/mens spaces?


    What is your own opinion on why, in the US at least, the percentages of trans people are increasing significantly?



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