Abusive postman

Mother of gawwwwd.

Don't forget to contact your solicitor, first thing Monday morning and get a claim in.

At least he leaves a notice. My postman just leaves everything outside the front door ("signature required" or not). He couldn't care less whether there's anyone at home.

If a tree falls in the forest and there's nobody to hear it, does it make a sound?

Similarly, if someone mouths frustration into thin air, and there's nobody to hear it, is it abuse?

What a bizarre thing to get wound up about!

No.

OP, could he have been taking about ring doorbell itself? It's hard to tell from what you typed out. Maybe he rang it expecting to get a reply from you and wss frustrated when he didn't.

What exactly are you complaining about? The postman did not abuse you: how could he, when he never even saw you?

He said rude words on your property, for sure. But he was talking to himself. Most jobs wouldn't have a problem with that.

Youll get no sympathy here OP.

That's not proof of anything except that he was frustrated. It's human nature and I often call myself a useless **** or unlucky ***** if things are not going right or if I make a mistake. Human nature.

I've actually noticed this lately as people get doorbell cams and phone app they go full paranoid apparently more people knock then they ever knew previously

You might not have seen the postman before, but he certainly knows you.

Honestly, get another interest, people curse to themselves all the time,, don't be petty and try to ruin someone's lives, affect their children possibly by following this,, it's a real case of tmi, you would be stressed less without that doorbell.

"so if I'm wrong accept my apology" I was wrong so, but look up the meaning of "bed bound". If you are recovering from a stroke this is hardly going to help you recover.

It's likely more about him and his problems, than it is about you. You were probably just the momentary scapegoat for their frustrations. Try not take it (or anything said in haste) to heart.

Was probably a bit ignorant by the postman. But For your own sake It would just forget about it and move on. life is too short!

He swore at the doorbell not at a person. No big deal.

Some people….

I don't know about your own self-talk, but please tell me you don't call yourself a useless cnut?

Perhaps he is parenting on his own. Perhaps he placed a stupid bet on the horses the day before.

So, he's either talking to his kid (!) or himself in these scenarios, which you obviously think as reasonable enough, hence my question to you. That's not hard to understand is it?