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What is a woman? **Mod Note In Post #294**

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,631 ✭✭✭✭Akrasia


    Demanding?

    Most trans people don't demand anything. They just would like it if people treated them nicely and respected their choices.

    In the real world most people just want to live their lives in peace. If someone looks and acts like a woman, and wants to be referred to as a woman. Just call her a woman.

    If someone is being unreasonable or has a personality that you find really grating, you're still entitled to not like them. There are loads of people I don't like, I find them annoying to deal with, but I still treat them with respect when I meet them and don't call them by some nickname that I know will annoy them because that would be a scummy thing to do as an adult dealing with other adults in the real world.

    The kinds of people who spend their lives seeking offense and 'feel' that the trans community are making excessive demands of them, are just as obnoxious to me, as the small number of very outspoken 'activists' who are trying to monetise their sexual and gender identity by being as edgy and extreme as they can get away with.

    In reality, you might walk past several trans people every time you go anywhere in public, and not even know that they were born a different gender to the one they are displaying in public.

    Some of the people who choose to be easily recognised in public as trans, are doing so for their own reasons and if they annoy you, that's ok, but they're not representative of all trans people, just like you shouldn't see a drag queen on television and decide that's what all gay people are like.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,383 ✭✭✭Jaffa3000


    Referring to any man as a woman is not only demanding, it’s delusional. Feel like a man or a woman all you want, but unless you’re male or female, you aren’t one. If you get annoyed by that you’ve got deeply rooted issues.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,710 ✭✭✭TokTik


    How do you transition scientifically? What scientific test can determine your gender? How do I find out what gender I am??



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,711 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    There is no science thatvsays god exists either, but plenty of people dtill believe it.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,711 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Didn't you ask the scientists when you told them all they were wrong and you were right?

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,383 ✭✭✭Jaffa3000


    Good to know you agree with me then and have acknowledged it for what it is



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,711 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    That your stance is one if faith and not science, yes.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,710 ✭✭✭TokTik


    You are stating something as fact, “transitioning gender is scientifically possible”. I am asking you to back that up. That’s how debates/discussions work.

    If you can’t back it up, that’s fine. We can move on.

    If you can back it up, I’d be very interested in reading up on it.



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,066 ✭✭✭gym_imposter


    Not everyone is content to passively participate in a fraud



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 303 ✭✭89897


    This is fantasy land stuff. How many people have ever demanded that of you? The trans community is so small you'll likely never encounter this issue and if you did whats wrong with treating someone with respect. In fact if you ever have had dealings with a trans person you'd likely not even have known.

    This is social media hysterics thats got people twisted and made alot other into full blown assholes.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 303 ✭✭89897


    Have you ever been defrauded by a trans person?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,711 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Back what up? Are you trying to say gender reassignment therapy doesn't actually exist?

    Because that's the only claim I've made.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭PoisonIvyBelle


    Here's the thing. If someone asks you to do this, and it helps them feel better in themselves and makes their life easier (which is often the case with gender dysphoria), then why not just be kind and do so regardless of your personal belief? You don't have to. And I don't believe in the hate speech law thing. But honestly, there is no harm to you in doing so and it can help the other person a lot.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭PoisonIvyBelle


    I get what they're saying but it's a bit of a trap.

    Yes it exists. The question is whether someone who undergoes this is the same as someone who was born that way. I believe they are different: one is trans and one is not. But a trans woman who wants me to view them as a woman is not something I have an issue with. I have lines, for example someone who hasn't fully transitioned using women's changing rooms etc., but generally I don't see the problem. It's nuanced, but that's how people end up trying to catch each other out and it's silly.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,711 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Same here, but again this is not something I argued.

    The initial point I made was: "Science, though, has developed procedures for transition." (Post #230 and again in post #244) - and it's this point that Tiktok is challenging.

    The issues of cis men pretending to be transwomen or even transitioning for the purposes of entering women-only safe spaces - or women's sports events - are serious issues, but not issues I've commented on.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,885 ✭✭✭✭yourdeadwright


    Its not possible ,

    Gender reassignment does not change your gender ,It helps your pretend your another gender,

    There is no therapy , surgery that can change change your full bone density & bone structure from what your born with to what your pretending you are ,Its simply impossible the bone structure is completely different from hip , to head, to fingers,to arms, to elbows ,Even your to eye sight & hearing,

    For Example if a Trans women who had ever single surgery & therapy available & a real women both die tomorrow and get dug up in 800 years time, instantly it would be obvious who is the REAL women & who is the Trans-women ,

    You may not like that but its factual ,

    People can pretend to be whatever they like but eventually reality catches up



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,711 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Again, you need to take this up with the scientists who developed the procedures and tell them they're wrong and you're right.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,885 ✭✭✭✭yourdeadwright


    I no i don't, The issues is you misinterpreting things .

    Can you point to one single scientist clamming a person can change everything about there gender ,

    Your whole argument is based on a massive misunderstanding on your part,

    Iv just explained to you exactly why it can't t be done & your only response is that i need to speak to a fictional scientist you've made up in your head ,



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,354 ✭✭✭Vote4Squirrels


    "Scientifically" is doing a LOT of heavy lifting there.

    Care to name a scientist who has demonstrated that humans "scientifically" change their gender ?



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,711 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    No, this is down to YOU misinterpeting things.

    All I said was that science has developed procedures for transition.

    Now whether or not you believe that the someone who's gone through these procedures is or is not a different gender is up to you. I never commented. All I said was that the procedures exist.

    EDIT - @Vote4Squirrels - this applies to you too: read the claim I made, no the claim you think I made.

    I believe Dr Robert Winston said it was possible in a link a page or two back, but I can't remember his exact words. Makes no difference because I never claimed that scientists claim that "a person can change everything about their gender".

    As to why it can't be done - call the scientist who developed the procedure and tell them. I'm sure they'd love to know how you can persuade them in the errors of their ways.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 14,157 Mod ✭✭✭✭pc7


    Until it is your business, if there are trans women in dressing rooms in shops, in toilets, I don't want to share toilets or dressing room with a trans woman. They are taking scholarships and sponsorship places from women in sports were they were just average men but yet taking part as 'women' they are excelling. I used to be of your opinion but now with my daughter I don't want her in shared spaces. Have a trans woman toilet, dressing room and sports category, it shouldn't be wrong or illegal not to consider them women. If a trans man wanted to date me as a straight woman I just wouldn't be attracted to them, I cannot change that instinct in myself the same way I cannot change sex.

    For example - I can tell someone I don't believe in God and they can say they do and we can respect that viewpoint, but I can't tell a trans woman they aren't a woman or that I believe a woman is an adult human female or I'm a terf, bigot or worse



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,885 ✭✭✭✭yourdeadwright


    We all know science have developed procedure but can you show us one just one which , "Transitions your gender "

    Your being very careful with your wording because you know yourself what you are claiming is impossible ,

    ohh the same Dr Robert Winston who claims Transgender surgery is mutilation,

    “becomes a problem because of course occasionally you end up with somebody who is born a male but then wants to become a female, so you can have that mutilating operation”



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,711 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Are you doing this delierately? I've just told you - literally in the post you replied to - that I only claimed they existed, not that they worked, nor that they were possible or impossible.

    Either you've misread my claim AGAIN or you're asking me to prove something "we all know"?

    If you're just looking for info, sure - https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/gender-dysphoria/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20475262

    not sure it matches your criteria because I'm still not completely sure you've actually accepted and understood what I've written.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 303 ✭✭89897


    More social media hysterics, when is this ever going to affect you??



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,710 ✭✭✭TokTik


    I’ve quoted exactly what you said

    “My point is: transitioning gender is scientifically possible.”

    What are the quantifiable scientific parameters of this gender transition, what actually changes?

    Doctors cut off a part of you and leave a hole where that part formerly was. That’s it. It hasn’t changed the bone density, hasn’t increased the chances of getting cervical cancer or lessened the chances of getting prostate cancer. It doesn’t widen the hips or birth canal or allow you to carry children or naturally lactate or menstruate.

    For example we know that ice can transition to water, or vapour. When it becomes water, it transitions from a solid state to a liquid state, and to vapour it becomes a gas form. Quantifiable changes from its former form. Solid state ice can’t just stay frozen and believe it’s water.

    As you said above, belief in sky fairies or gods doesn’t make it real, the same as believing you are a different gender. It’s the exact same principle.



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  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 14,157 Mod ✭✭✭✭pc7


    Its affecting women in lots of places currently, especially in sports, you have no idea if its affected me or not. Anyway as I say in my post I know what a woman is and social media has nothing to do with it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 303 ✭✭89897


    Again no its not, the percentage of trans people in any community is so small the risk of anything you mentioned happening is miniscule.

    Of all the huge issues in this world effecting women, why this one? Why discriminate against trans people? Why do you think all trans women pose a threat to you?

    By the way, there are absoluetly people that will cry heresy if you tell them your religious beliefs dont match theirs, the same way there are people that wont call you a bigot based on your belief. They may call out bigoted behaviour however.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,711 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    You might have quoted, but you didn't read. Again.

    Before we go ANY further, answer a question for ME: are you saying that gender reassignment procedures do not exist - yes or no?

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,400 ✭✭✭Man Vs ManUre


    Is Barbie a woman if she has no foofph??



  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 14,157 Mod ✭✭✭✭pc7


    how am I discriminating against them?I just don’t believe a trans woman is a woman and I don’t want to share toilets/dressing rooms or a sporting field with them. As for women and issues affecting them this was a discussion on what is a woman and I gave my view, why would I fill you in on other causes or opinions I have on women in this country or world.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 303 ✭✭89897


    "I dont want to share toilet/dressing rooms or a sporting field with them" That there literally is discrimination, its also bigotry.



  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 14,157 Mod ✭✭✭✭pc7


    I don’t want to derail the thread as I’ve posted on the sports one on this but going through male puberty leads to physiological changes that give an advantage in most sports. In the toilets why not just have single toilets and cubicles, why the need to share? Why the want to be in there? Anyway going to leave it there 89897 as we could go in circles for pages and both still believe our own views.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,559 ✭✭✭RoboRat


    A woman is someone who doesn't have a Y chromosome unless they have Swyer syndrome.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,710 ✭✭✭TokTik


    No I don’t believe so. You cannot reassign gender no more than you can reassign species. Like lizard man I posted earlier today. It may be called that, but some people will say anything to make money.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,711 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Well in that case, Mayo Clinic link I posted earlier.

    https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/gender-dysphoria/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20475262

    Proves you wrong, they do exist.

    This is the ONLY claim I made and this is the evidence of proof that the therapies exist you asked for.

    The answer to all other questions you asked or are likely to ask is, "I didn't claim that." That or you need to call the Mayo Clinic an pick and tell that you know more about reassigning gender than they do.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,939 ✭✭✭Quantum Erasure


    Earlier you said "we're not talking about surgery", so what are we talking about?

    I think most people when they hear 'gender reassignment' would think we're talking about surgery



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,711 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Click on the Mayo Clinic link in the previous post for answers to that one.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,711 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Mayo Clinic link in the previous post will answer that one for you, section "therapies".

    And please don't ask me to comment on them or how successful they are - I don't know, I never claimed to know and I only just got Tiktok off my back - all I'm doing is politely answering your question with a more knowledable source :)

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,065 ✭✭✭Vic_08


    There is no such thing as "Fully transitioned" as it is not possible to transition, only to partially appropriate some characteristics that look like the opposite sex.

    Biological males, no matter what they think of themselves or have done to their bodies through medication or surgery have no business being in any spaces that are reserved for women and girls.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,885 ✭✭✭✭yourdeadwright


    Your posting something that is giving you treatment in your believe of the the social construct that you want to your gender ,

    You science has " surgery" so that indicates you mean changing yourself physically form a Male to a Female,

    Can you clear up what you mean,

    As the Dr you quoted doesn't believe you can change physically he claims Transgender surgery is mutilation,

    “becomes a problem because of course occasionally you end up with somebody who is born a male but then wants to become a female, so you can have that mutilating operation”



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,759 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    Prof Winston did not say it was possible to scientifically change gender. What he is saying that "gender identity" is merely appearance, not an inherent characteristic in the way that sex is. That's why he has agreed with Kathleen Stock, who also says this, and why TRAs have called him transphobic.

    https://www.christian.org.uk/news/professor-winston-abused-online-raising-evidence-transsexualism/

    I mean, if you're going to claim he agrees with you, then perhaps you're just more "transphobic" than you realise?

    Reem Alsalem UNSR Violence Against Women and Girls: "Very concerned about statements by the IOC at Paris2024 (M)ultiple international treaties and national constitutions specifically refer to women & their fundamental rights, so the world (understands) what women -and men- are. (H)ow can one assess fairness and justice if we do not know who we are being fair and just to?"



  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 12,955 Mod ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    Mod:-

    Please refrain from engaging in a tit-for-tat, circular argument on the issue of transgender identity and culture war politics.

    There is more than enough discussion on this issue on other threads and especially in the Current Affairs forum.

    Anyone engaging in personal abuse will be threadbanned.

    JK

    Post edited by JupiterKid on


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,711 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Again: I've answered all these questions or never made the claim you think I made.

    I made ONE claim. It exists. I backed it up. To a clinic offering the exact thing I said existed. I really can NOT make this any clearer!!! End of disucssion.

    If you want to argue this further, talk about surgery, dispute the results of it, dispute the validty of results, talk about lizards or anything else - then either phone the clinic and take it up with them, or someone else who made the claim you think I made - because I did NOT make or comment on ANY of these topics.

    I'm done here.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users Posts: 461 ✭✭Kingslayer




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,118 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    This toilet obsession is bizarre. Just over 600 trans women legally exist in Ireland. Have you nothing else is life to worry about other than endless obsessing about which toilet that 0.001% of the population use.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,939 ✭✭✭Quantum Erasure


    I presume that post was in relation to toilets / changing rooms in regard to sports



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭PoisonIvyBelle


    You'll see a further post I made where there is a line in specific instances re: changing rooms etc.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭PoisonIvyBelle


    I don't get what you're responding to. I never made any comment on "fully transitioned" or transitioning in my post. I referred to women and trans women being different but both deserving of respect and kindness.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,411 ✭✭✭Jack Daw


    Trans women are not women.

    If they want to live their lives as women , wear whatever they want and be addressed Ms/Miss etc then fair enough, I'm happy to play along just to be nice to keep them happy within reason like if they don;t get all huffy if you make an innocent mistake and use the wrong pronoun.

    However they are not actually women simple as that and if women believe that there should be women only spaces like rape crisis centres, women's refuges, womens sports then that is perfectly reasonable and if trans women want their rights respected they should respect the beliefs of actual women and let them have their own spaces.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,276 ✭✭✭✭GreeBo


    Do bogey men exist if I call myself a bogey man?



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