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Universal Free School meals

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,125 ✭✭✭✭Mrs OBumble


    The Irish state took a model that the British were phasing out cos they knew it didn't work, and enthusiastically implemented it.

    No surprise that it didn't work.

    State models that remove the focus from individual families rarely do. That includes factory-style feeding programs.

    Post edited by Mrs OBumble on


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,659 ✭✭✭✭mariaalice


    What is flca? I take the pragmatic view, who will make parents feed their children correctly another layer of social workers and family support workers it would cost a fortune.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,125 ✭✭✭✭Mrs OBumble


    Typo, should have read focus.

    And yes, family support workers. Because school meals for everyone is going to cost a fortune anyway.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,085 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    To me its a symptom of a dysfunctional society if schools are providing free meals etc

    Eh?

    Many advanced Western Democracies provide school meals to children.

    Canada, USA, UK, Germany, Norway, Japan, France, Italy, Finland, Sweden…

    Are societies in these countries all dysfunctional?

    Seems to me the more advanced countries do this, so we are catching up.

    As to your point what is the problem and what is a realistic solution to it?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,085 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    TUSLA should then investigate to see if the child is being neglected. They do this by meeting with the child and its parent/s. If there are more signs of neglect, they may be forced to take action. That is up to them.

    So you want TUSLA to investigate approximately 1 in 8 families/couples/parents in the country?

    Have you ever had experience with TUSLA? They are notoriously bad at their job. Also to do the above would require hiring thousands more people, which would cost much more than some free school meals.

    Say Tusla find out half of these parents are just 'bad' parents… then what? Take the kids off them I am guessing ala Mother and Baby homes?

    It seems to me people want to go back to the 1950's with their puritan conservative views on how families and people run their lives.

    Babies and Children were taken off parents under to guidance of child poverty and neglect as well, that was the reason we locked up so many people. How did that work out in the end?

    Also, you are wrong about the interpretation of reporting a child who is hungry to Tusla.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,085 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    A parent who sends their child to school hungry is not fit to be a parent.


    So you do agree with the concept of taking approx 16% of kids away from their parents…



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,085 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    State models that remove the focus from individual families rarely do. That includes factory-style feeding programs.

    You are all over the shop.

    What 'model' do your propose instead?

    You do realise Tusla is a state organisation? They are not fit for purpose, yet some propose to give it more to do and more powers?

    Your last bit is also wrong. There is a mountain of evidence to support that school meals work. The links have been posted, but ignored. You are entitled to your puritan opinion, but you are not entitled to your own facts.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,085 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    And yes, family support workers. Because school meals for everyone is going to cost a fortune anyway.

    School meals is a drop in the ocean if you are proposing to hire an army of social worker to observe and oversea all parents in the state and determine if they are parenting the 'correct' way according to you.

    And in the last post you give out about State apparatus but in the same vein you support more costly state intervention ala Orewells 1984.

    Make up your mind.




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,316 ✭✭✭Deeec


    I dont know why you believe a sandwich for lunch isnt proper food. Do you think for example a basic chicken curry with no veg and a few random pieces of chicken or some other low quality school lunch is superior to a chicken sandwich on brown bread, salad, cheese and some fruit packed in a lunch box. - thats crazy.

    A high proportion of the Irish population will have a healthy sandwich for lunch today ( including myself) - nothing wrong with it at all.

    School lunchs are a great idea in deprived areas but there is no need whatsoever for every primary school to have the same. In my own childrens school I dont think it is necessary as there are no families that are in poverty - no child turns up to school having no breakfast or no lunch in their bag. Im not even sure whether my kids would even like the meals provided even if it was introduced. I would rather see the money spent elsewhere in education. My friend teaches in a school where it has been introduced and she said there is huge waste - alot of kids are not eating the meals.



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    You're content that those children should be left with parents who are incapable of feeding them?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,149 ✭✭✭amacca


    I always saw schools as places where kids go to receive an education

    Not places where hungry children go to get food...

    The dysfunction for me isnt the school providing the meals out of necessity, its the fact there is a group of studrnts turning up at schools hungry/not fed

    Thats dysfunction in my book, regardless of what country it occurs in

    Your point that it happens in other advanced westetn democracies may mean they arent as advanced as we think....theres something going wrong with the way we organise our societies/distribution of wealth/resources if schools have to feed kids not because they are providing a service but because they may be the main source of nutrition (never mind anything else) in a certain cohort of students lives...

    Tbh I think if thats primarily the case education will out of necessity take a back seat and the school is esentially a soup kitchen...

    The "advancements" arent evident across all parts of society etc

    As to what to do about it, well its no short term fix thats for sure, in the immediate term, provide the meals, in the long term look to reduce the need to provide meals out of necessity because so many hungry undernourished kids are showing up at school...

    Maybe a certain cohort of parents should have to take responsibility for their kids to some degree?

    Maybe both parents shouldnt have to work fulltime just to provide a semi d and feck all else for their family?....maybe if money went to provide more work flexiblity for parents during their kids childhood so they could be more present in their kids lives....some people just dont have that luxury...and its not about them being willing to make sacrifices...if they both dont work the show which is already teetering on the brink loses its wheels entirely..

    Maybe the small cohort of wasters lifetime social welfareites that see it as a lifestyle choice shouldnt be incentivised and some moves towards winding that down over 20/30 years could be made? If that money isnt going to provide food and is ending up in the bookies or the pub maybe that should be disincentivised/discouraged etc

    I dont know all the solutions and perhaps the above would be disastrous but I stand by my point if large amounts of kids are showing up hungry to school theres something dysfunctional about that society ...no matter how advanced it is.



  • Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 27,465 Mod ✭✭✭✭Podge_irl


    What if the place the children spend all their day just provided for their needs while they were there? That seems like a simple solution.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,230 ✭✭✭witchgirl26


    I genuinely don't understand the massive issue with this.

    My dad was a principal in the 1980s/1990s in a primary school in a disadvantaged area. He helped set up a breakfast club for kids because kids work better (I don't just mean academically but also play etc) when they have a full belly. The breakfast club was basic - cereal & toast was offered but it meant that all kids had an equal opportunity. A lot of the kids coming there wouldn't have bad parents by any stretch but they had parents who were struggling financially or maybe didn't understand the connection between food & behaviour etc.

    As for the current school lunches, I know people whose kids are in schools where its been in operation for a while & they think it's great. 1 in particular has been running for over a year now. The parents are asked to pay a subsidy of about €10 a week to get a better choice etc (this was voted on by the BOM). There's hot options that are really good as well as some salads/sandwiches. The kids eat in their classrooms like they would have done if they had a packed lunch. They pick a week in advance. The school has dictated to a level the menu so things like burgers, chicken goujons and the like are only available on a Friday. All allergens are catered for as it's an outside company delivering so they have the proper segregated kitchens & allergy meals are delivered in separate boxes.

    My son's school isn't part of it at the moment but I have no problem with some of my tax money going to ensure that every child in this country has a proper meal in the middle of the day. I mean, seriously how can that even be a question?! We can all spout on about how kids going hungry at school is wrong and something should be done to the parents blah blah blah but why should the children continue to suffer when they don't have to? To prove a point? To make their parents learn something? In the history of the world, when has that been ok? Feed the kids, sort the other problems separately. You don't have to stop one to solve another. And school location doesn't always indicate that there are disadvantaged kids there. My primary school was in a "posh" location but kids came from other places that were decidedly less so.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,149 ✭✭✭amacca


    Perhaps it "seems" that way....but perhaps its not really a solution at all.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,085 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    A few things.

    a) Are we saying that they are incapable or unable, as they are different things

    b) It is not a situation I would be happy with so mitigation attempts like a hot meal at school is a good outcome.

    c) Ill repeat, what is your end game here? Take away kids from their parents? That is a lot of kids for the state to look after and the outcome for children in state care is often and usually way way worse.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,085 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    Thats dysfunction in my book, regardless of what country it occurs in

    Your post is a rant on 'why of why dont we have Utopia with perfect people and perfect parents.."

    There is no Utopia, all countries and societies have problems because humans are imperfect.

    What matters is how the state attempts to mitigate and help those who can't help themselves. Having a hot meal at school is one way to help.




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,125 ✭✭✭✭Mrs OBumble


    Kids are in a school for six hours a day.

    That's 25%.

    Even if you think about their waking hours it's a maximum 50%. And that's if you assume they are getting adequate sleep - which they won't be.



  • Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 27,465 Mod ✭✭✭✭Podge_irl




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,149 ✭✭✭amacca


    Exactly...its one way…perhaps not much of a solution on its own..it could just be a sticking plaster...but youll notice I did say perhaps it should be done but perhaps the state should mitigate in other ways too and maybe just maybe there are drawbacks to this in that it masks more serious issues etc etc

    Have school meals been a rip roaring success in these developed countries you speak of? are less children showing up at the point of entry hungry because their parents cant or wont feed them? Are the meals being provided nutritionally balanced or tendered out to the lowest bidder? Are more kids now receiving worse nutrition because the school is tasked with providing their food with a totally inadequate budget (and given the govts inability to manage a piss up in a brewery here that wouldnt be an outcome beyond the realms of posdibility) Is it possible there may be other measures or a suite of actions that would have better outcomes could be considered. Is someone allowed voice an opinion without yourself taking them on like a govt press/pr spokesperson.

    Tbh you are the one on a bit of a rant, im stating my opinion calmly. You seem determined to aggressively shut down anyone with the temerity to voice another opinion .....on a discussion forum no less.



  • Registered Users Posts: 408 ✭✭Starfire20


    theres a sentiment, usually on the right, where they dont care how many children are hungry, not my problem pal.

    they just dont want a single cent of "their" taxes going towards school meals for children.

    bootstraps, something something, shur didnt i have it hard and i turned out grand etc.

    pure begrudgery and "im alright, jack" politics.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,080 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    turned out just fine, im not so sure about that!

    you ll find many with all sorts of psychological issues, some engaging in all sorts of dysfunctional behaviors from excessive alcohol consumption, drug use, gambling etc etc etc, some showing signs of narcissistic behaviors etc etc

    just fine, i dont think so….



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,085 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    Have school meals been a rip roaring success in these developed countries you speak of?

    Yes, yes they have.

    https://frac.org/programs/national-school-lunch-program/benefits-school-lunch



  • Registered Users Posts: 218 ✭✭Soc_Alt


    All schools should have free lunches to all attending children.

    Shouldn't be based on poverty.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,149 ✭✭✭amacca


    Thats more like it, its nice not to be dismissed brusquely just because one expresses an opinion.

    Good, and I see they have measures in place to try make the meals nutritionally balanced too....so it doesnt degenerate into nuggets and wedges.

    Id hope the same would occur here and it doesnt require fund raising to provide poor quality food, tonnes of which get wasted or quangos wasting millions.

    And tbh to use an analogy I still think theres an element of treating the symptoms and not doing anything to work towards addressing causes....its not like Im necessarily against the symptoms being treated as I made clear throughout (despite some jumping the gun and assuming rather than fully reading what I posted) however there are reasons so many students turn up hungry to school that should be tackled too imho



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,085 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    And tbh to use an analogy I still think theres an element of treating the symptoms and not doing anything to work towards addressing causes....its not like Im necessarily against the symptoms being treated as I made clear throughout (despite some jumping the gun and assuming rather than fully reading what I posted) however there are reasons so many students turn up hungry to school that should be tackled too imho

    That is fine, but the sentiments and opinions echoed here by some clearly state that and allude to the fact that kids should be taken off their parents who don't or can't feed them in the mornings.

    That is much more damaging and harmful to children in the long run.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,695 ✭✭✭TokTik


    So you’re happy for 1 in 16 families to neglect their kids?? Yet your on your high horse about homes that were around decades ago?!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,085 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    Am I happy about it? No.

    But I dont want to turn back the clock 80 years and reopen the industrial schools either, which is what you are suggesting we should do. The latter is more harmful to children.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,695 ✭✭✭TokTik


    I never once mentioned industrial schools.

    Ban surrogacy and offer adoption.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,741 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    Jaysus

    Scrap the cap!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,661 ✭✭✭drury..


    School meals feed kids a hot meal

    How is that not working?



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,125 ✭✭✭✭Mrs OBumble


    It's ignoring/hiding all the other problems that kids who need free meals have, while spending truckloads of resources on kids who don't need free meals.

    Hugely wasteful and enabling neglect at the same time.

    That's without even thinking about the social benefits of having families eat together, and the cultural issues of institutional feeding: how does a parent know that their kid is only eating vegan / halal / pork-free / beef-free / whatever food?

    People seem determined to say that I'm advocating industrial schools. I'm not. I'm advocating family resource centres, neighbourhood programmes, in-home family support workers, extended family support workers - and foster parents as a last resort. Anything which gives support and autonomy to individual families - not large institutions.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,238 ✭✭✭Cordell


    The parent knows because it's the parent who orders what the kid gets, at least this is how it works at our school.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,661 ✭✭✭drury..


    You're arguing different points but neglecting the major point

    Frees school meals provide children a hot meal



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,080 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    ….so you re advocating for taxes to be raised in order to try to offer such services? id have to agree, but heres the reality, taxes arent gonna be raised in any great way, so….



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,741 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    They won't be eating a meal with their family in the middle of the day because they're in school

    Some of the things people come up with are just off the wall ridiculous.

    Scrap the cap!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,125 ✭✭✭✭Mrs OBumble


    Where did the middle of the day idea come from? None of us are living Dev's dream any more. Dinner is an evening meal.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 631 ✭✭✭Gary_dunne


    You had mentioned That's without even thinking about the social benefits of having families eat together

    This aspect wouldn't be removed as the free school meals is a lunchtime thing. They get a hot meal in school at lunch, doesn't mean they don't have dinner in the evening with their families.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,085 ✭✭✭✭markodaly




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,085 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    One one hand you give out about this being a waste of money and is an enabler, but then advocate massive increases in the budget to offer all the extra services you mention, which will cost a lot more and will probably just do the same thing anyway, that is offer a hungry child a hot meal.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,125 ✭✭✭✭Mrs OBumble


    If a kid has had a hot dinner in school, they don't need and shouldn't have another dinner at night ('cos you know, obesity etc). They just need a light supper, which is a lot quicker, and has less time for family interaction.

    In-depth family services will increase the adults capacity and willingness to parent their kids. That involves a lot more than just feeding them, and it improves the capacity of the kids to become functional adults who don't need the services. Just feeding the kids does none of that. (It's "give a man a fish vs give him a fishing rod".)

    It's kinda scary the number of people who can't see that a parent who is not feeding their kid is almost certainly not doing other equally important things like adequate sleep, clothing and emotional support. Maybe it's some weird famine hangover in the psyche that sees being hungry as The Worst Possible Thing.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,808 ✭✭✭irelandrover




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,230 ✭✭✭witchgirl26


    Ok firstly, kids need more energy/calorie intake than you might think. It doesn't lead to obseity. Also depends on how much they eat - my son technically has a hot meal in afterschool every day but he doesn't always eat it all so depending on that, he might get another one in the evening. Or if he's hungry.

    And I get your point on the "give a man a fish" but I ask again, is dealing with a potential symptom (i.e. a hot meal in the middle of the day to ensure proper nutrition) at possibly the same time as dealing with the potential underlying issue, not a good thing? Otherwise you too are punishing the child in the scenario and not helping them.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 631 ✭✭✭Gary_dunne


    So you think if a child has a hot meal in school at 12:30 (primary lunch time) all they need for the rest of the day roughly 7/8 hours is a light supper? Can you define what a "light supper" even would be? Those kids would be absolutely starving if you're not providing them with a dinner after school.

    It's an Irish mentality to think a ham and cheese sandwich is enough and a good "healthy lunch" not realising that the bread is mostly sugar, the ham is plastic and with the cheese and butter or mayonnaise the calories are usually roughly equal to a proper nutritious hot meal with is far more satiant.



  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,914 Mod ✭✭✭✭shesty


    There is nothing wrong with hot meals in school. It's the socially mature thing for a society to do. One of the biggest obstacles in this country to any form of change that might move us on a few decades is the idea that somebody's sensibilities might be offended, or that "we were all fine", or that it's "notions". It's not. It's normal, basic practice in many countries, where nobody is quibbling about how much time parents spend at dinner tables, or whether 2 hot meals a day is the norm. There is no rule stating that everybody must eat a hot meal at school. You pay for it yourself, you don't have to get it and there is nothing stopping you serving (or not) a hot dinner in the evening or spending time at the table en famille.

    Deis schools have had meals at schools for quite a while now. While parents everywhere all need support at some stage, the assumption is that parents in Deis schools may have a higher percentage of people needing more support. That ship has sailed. The kids in those schools have been fed at school for years now, sandwiches, scones, milk/water, fruit, and now hot meals.

    I think this is a non-issue to be honest. Having recently spent time in a deis school myself, the bigger issue is the number of primary school kids wilting over the table every single day - absolutely exhausted, pale, rubbing their eyes, unable to concentrate and clearly struggling to engage. We'd be far better putting our energies into looking at screens, devices, bedtimes and debating issues like whether phones are really necessary for primary school kids, and whether they should be allowed past the gates of primary schools (they just shouldn't be, outright, in my opinion), than quibbling over hot meals.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,795 ✭✭✭✭Boggles


    Certain individuals on this thread over dipping into the well of farce to try and justify not giving a kid food at school.

    Are they just cranky members of the against everything brigade or is there something else at play here?



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,437 ✭✭✭KaneToad


    They are probably childless people. Or people with children who are too old to benefit from this.

    "Waste of my taxes...etc…etc"



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,795 ✭✭✭✭Boggles


    The same kids who will be paying for their pensions and health service when they need free meals?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,085 ✭✭✭✭markodaly


    In-depth family services will increase the adults capacity and willingness to parent their kids. That involves a lot more than just feeding them, and it improves the capacity of the kids to become functional adults who don't need the services. Just feeding the kids does none of that. (It's "give a man a fish vs give him a fishing rod".)

    It's kinda scary the number of people who can't see that a parent who is not feeding their kid is almost certainly not doing other equally important things like adequate sleep, clothing and emotional support. Maybe it's some weird famine hangover in the psyche that sees being hungry as The Worst Possible Thing.

    This is just another way of advocating a Puritan look on the family, like what the Nuns and Priests did in their time.

    You would rather a child go hungry and starve but moralise and lecture parents to 'do better'.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,125 ✭✭✭✭Mrs OBumble


    No, I would rather teach parents to parent, and so act to break the intergenerational welfare cycle.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,230 ✭✭✭witchgirl26


    But not deal with the potentially hungry children in the meantime? Ok.

    Like I said before in this thread, my dad was a principal in a school in a very disadvantaged area of Dublin. It wasn't from lack of wanting to do the best for the kids that some kids were hungry in school. It was lack of means to provide for them. A lot of the parents in those cases were going hungry themselves just to try to ensure the child would have something but at times it wasn't enough.

    And this isn't always in classically deprived areas. With the massive hike in interest rates and cost of living crisis, there are more and more people who look well off from the outside who are struggling with the day-to-day. SVdeP even noted it last year how more people were accessing food banks than previously and how a lot were the working poor. I.e. they look like they have a good life with a house, car & job but the reality is that their wages are primarily going on paying the mortgage, moving is not necessarily an option because of the fact there are so few houses available let alone cheaper ones, and while they might appear rich, they are asset rich but cash poor & not able to provide fully for food and clothes.

    So maybe this is less about the parents needing to be taught something and more about just feeding children. Break it down to that basic and do you really have a problem with children getting fed?



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