online dating

Bahaha. Last year I went on nice and casual drinks date a day or two after matching. Turns out it wasn't a pub but a restaurant and she had booked the table in advance and the whole thing was going to be my treat.

It honestly blew my mind she thought this would work. I shook my head she chased me outside as I headed back to the car literally screaming at me.

Tinder has a report poor offline behaviour button, but you cant press it after they unmatch. I pity the next poor bastard she tries to get a free meal from.

Aha yep. But its completely normalized.

I saw an episode of First Dates where a 21year old Irish girl gave a permanently wheelchair bound virgin the privilege of a date. Which consisted of half an hour out of her day for a polite chat with the "just friends" ending and the kindness of handing him the bill. And afterward he gets to wheel himself out to the taxi and wave her off, out of his life forever and about €150 lighter. What a great friend she is!

You know back when Irish men weren't completely pussy whipped he would have been brought to a whorehouse and she would have been shamed for taking a cripples money.

If you think thats funny I had a very jealous friend who was absolutely desperate back in my student comp sci days.

Unlike the rest of the virgins this guy wasnt content playing Magic, but he wouldnt step a foot inside the gym either. He was convinced he was to pull via his personality and how nice he was to women. This got him a few female "friends" who he waited on. He was literally a walking drinks and bag holder for one, and an emotional tampon for the other.

Anyway dating apps were suddenly a thing and lo and behold he got a match and she found him funny and attractive. She was also 6000 miles away in New York and wasn't coming over here.

Whaddya think he did? And do you think it worked out?

Cue a call to me from himself sobbing his eyes out in a hostel in the Big and very lonely Apple.

As the kids say "what no pussy does to a MF"

Not my experience at all irl. They seem to love bossy women like they absolutely love it. They love women pining and whinging and crying about them and messaging them multiple times and lowering themselves.

In general I've not been bossy enough, I just can't like I'm not gonna make a guy to go somewhere he doesn't want to go or behave in ways that go against his integrity or even with choosing places Im too laid back because I just think it's fun to be with each other and not the place ...Im like "eh whatever you want to do'....but don't take a non bossy woman as being stupid or naive...it doesn't mean they don't see **** going on.

'not to hate on women here, loads of them are great' lol why wouldn't loads of them be great? So yea I think it's you 😁😅

I say mam now but I was sat down by my older brother when I was around 8 and told that I can't be saying mammy anymore that it's ma now and I did call her that for a long time but now it's mam ☺️

I posted about it on the first dates thread a few years back. I watched it on the player I think in 2020 so I've no idea if it's still there.

In fact it was one of the reasons I stopped watching it. The exact opposite date happened too. A very pretty young girl in a wheel chair was basically on TV to talk about her tragic accident that left her paralyzed and they paired her with a youngfella her own age who she wouldn't have touched with a bargepole before it. But due to this terrible accident she was forced to lower her standards, which for a woman is just unthinkably bad. The show edited the two to show him in the most unflattering light despite the fact that he paid in the end and didn't give her the "let's be friends" treatment.

It was not subtle. The difference between the disabled dates was basically men should shut up about it, while women can spend the entire date going on about it. It's not that I don't have sympathy for her, but just imagine for a second her date leaving her with the bill and expecting her to escort him to the taxi!