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Soldier beats a woman unconscious, gets a great reference from his commanding officer, avoids jail.

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  • Registered Users Posts: 6,618 ✭✭✭Tombo2001


    Speaking of which = we did have a celebrity trial recently in Limerick which also involved an absolutely brutal beating handed out, where guilty party was also supported by a character reference from a 'commanding officer', and where suspended sentence was the decision.

    On the one hand, there is a grave inconsistency if society thinks this crime is worth jail time only where the victims are women.

    On the other hand, I think the woman in this particular case would be doing all of society a massive favour if there was an appeal that saw Cathal Crotty do jail time. And I wonder if that did happen, would it open the door for male victims to look for appeals in their cases too.



  • Registered Users Posts: 261 ✭✭Frumy


    I've read the media reports. All they mention is unconscious and broken nose so do enlighten us to what the media is NOT reporting on as that's all they mention; what are these other injuries you alone are only privy too (I'm talking physical now I can't comment on any psychological damage and neither can you)

    I didn't use the word 'just' by the way you did I said only but as I said anyone with any knowledge at all knows

    a) Never accost a drunk unhinged person leave them be

    b) Several punches to the face can do way way more permanent damage than a broken nose



  • Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 80,246 Mod ✭✭✭✭Sephiroth_dude


    Oscar Madison thread banned, don't want to see anymore victim blaming.



  • Registered Users Posts: 55,427 ✭✭✭✭walshb


    You said she “only” had a broken nose. Btw, I am not admonishing you here. I’m just correcting. Natasha was badly beaten

    Severe concussion and severe bruising and swelling and observed for bleeds on brain.

    “The physical injuries I sustained were devastating; a severe concussion, a broken nose, severe swelling, and bruising on both arms, shoulders, head, right upper thigh, left eye, cheek and jaw.”

    “I spent the following weeks and months attending hospital and doctor appointments, and due to persistent concussion symptoms I was deemed ‘high–risk’ for a brain bleed, and I received a battery of tests including a head CT scan.”



  • Registered Users Posts: 7,329 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    Not true though: I grew up in Northern Ireland, and was a teenager at a time when there was starting to be a lot of random violence as well as the sectarian stuff - as girls we intervened several times to help some unknown lad who was in the process of being targeted by a bunch of drunken lads. One of us would pretend to be his girlfriend, we'd go over and "gently" help him away, relatively sure that they wouldn't attack a girl. Because back then in the 80s, it wasn't the done thing to beat up random women in the street, even among thugs. I don't know when that changed.

    TBF, this was only ever in our own areas, we probably wouldn't have dared get involved if we'd thought it was sectarian, as we'd have been targets then too. But as we only socialised in our own areas that wasn't an issue.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 6,618 ✭✭✭Tombo2001


    This conversation is a taking a really weird turn …. so if only she had kept her head down and said nothing when she saw other people being abused….then what…..

    what exactly are you saying?

    That she should have known better?

    'Well I'd know myself not do that, and I'd be far better able to handle Crotty than she would'



  • Registered Users Posts: 55,427 ✭✭✭✭walshb


    Weird turn alright. But some posts and posters make valid and sensible and “caring” points around this issue. Others seem to be of an attitude that reads “wtf did she expect.”



  • Registered Users Posts: 34,799 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    It's a sad state of affairs alright.

    Basically if you're in any way not a 'big hard tough man' like some of the martial arts experts on this thread, you shout just shut the **** up if you see someone being abused.

    Otherwise, you know, it's your 'own fault' whatever happens. 'Should have known better'.



  • Registered Users Posts: 5,656 ✭✭✭Oscar_Madison


    And just in case of confusion or if my posts start to become reported , I’ve also been contributing to this thread but I’m not the poster referred to above- Thanks.



  • Registered Users Posts: 20,977 ✭✭✭✭Ash.J.Williams


    It wasn't a reference. The commanding officer is compelled by law to attend court and read out the scumbags military record. Like a normal persons annual review. He's going to.be court marshelled and fired and where does that leave the judge ?



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  • Registered Users Posts: 18,428 ✭✭✭✭bucketybuck


    He didn't just read out the scumbags military record.

    And he was not compelled by law, it is not the law of the land that an officer has to attend court and read out anything.



  • Registered Users Posts: 55,427 ✭✭✭✭walshb


    Is he also compelled to talk about it being "totally out of character" of the man? The CO and DF were there for support. Folks can hide behind laws and rules and guidelines all they want. They were there to support their man. I am not saying they saw noting wrong with what he did, but if they weren't there to admonish and show nothing but disgust, then they were there in a supporting capacity.

    Courteous, polite, professional "out of character." All before a judge delivers his verdict….



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,618 ✭✭✭Tombo2001


    Yeah - to be honest, reading what he said, he didnt seem to be advocating for him at all - unlike the other case I referenced above, where a 'show of support' was shown for the lad who handed out a brutal beating.

    Commandant Togher said he was shocked at hearing what Crotty had done to Ms O’Brien.

    He said he was “exceptionally disappointed” in Crotty, and “surprised” by his “very out of character” behaviour.

    He said he was most disappointed in Crotty because members of the Defence Forces are “expected to keep people safe”.

    When asked by Crotty’s barrister, Donal Cronin, if he had been asked by Crotty to come to court on his behalf, Commandant Togher replied that, as a senior army officer, he was officially required as a matter of protocol to attend civilian courts involving members of the Defence Forces.

    He explained that this role required him to monitor any legal proceedings and to report back to superior officers on any legal matters that may have “implications” for the future careers of members of the Defence Forces.

    In fairly sharp contrast to that other case.

    “I think my presence, I wouldn’t have gone there unless I wanted to show him that I was there to support him but also that it doesn’t mean I’m condoning what happened at all, quite the contrary. Listen, it’s over, it has been dealt with by the courts, we move on.”



  • Registered Users Posts: 261 ✭✭Frumy


    That's fair enough but can you send me the link to where you are getting this information from? I didn't see any of that in the media reports I read. This is now my second time of asking. thank you.

    This further illustrates my point though. You avoid drunk unhinged people like the plague because things like this can happen.

    If people do want to intervene to prevent others feelings being hurt that's fine, but they must go in with the attitude it could cost them their life or their health because it could. That's just reality.



  • Registered Users Posts: 55,427 ✭✭✭✭walshb




  • Registered Users Posts: 6,618 ✭✭✭Tombo2001


    Ok you've made your point, lets move on please.



  • Registered Users Posts: 20,977 ✭✭✭✭Ash.J.Williams


    His father on the other hand says its a media witchhunt



  • Registered Users Posts: 8,968 ✭✭✭Red Silurian


    https://www.limerickleader.ie/news/home/1536921/judge-who-handed-down-controversial-crotty-sentence-set-to-retire-this-week.html

    Some good news today. The judge is set to retire. Unconnected to the case apparently but hopefully it's some comfort to his victims that his actions are less likely to be repeated



  • Registered Users Posts: 261 ✭✭Frumy


    Nobody is saying it's their 'own fault' except you and only you.

    Big hard tough man? Again your words no one else's. The irony is most of the martial arts I do it's about 60% women in the classes. In fact it's you putting women in extreme danger. You are of the opinion if anyone is being abusive or insulting they have to be 'confronted' or 'exposed' which puts them in extreme danger. It's us that's of the opinion women can be protected by not putting them in danger and harm's way, you want them in harms way for some bizarre reason that's not clear to me.

    What people are saying is incredibly simple but you don't seem to grasp it.

    If someone is very very drunk and insulting (but not violent BTW) and you confront this person there is a very good chance that person will turn on you. It's really that simple. These situations can EASILY be avoided and every single martial art instructor on planet Earth will tell you the same thing. If you can avoid confrontation you do. Easiest way to stay out of trouble is to avoid it.

    Of course women can listen to nonsense from yourself and they should intervene with anyone being abusive and insulting and sure to hell with what happens to them right sure if they die they at least weren't being 'cowards' right?

    She died defending some gay fella's honour sure that would be a fantastic epitaph on her headstone eh?



  • Registered Users Posts: 55,427 ✭✭✭✭walshb


    What a "parting gift" to the state he gave!!!!!



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  • Registered Users Posts: 36 Needmoretea


    That is good news. I hope he has many sleepless nights. What that poor lady suffered was horrific.



  • Registered Users Posts: 257 ✭✭boardlady


    I have to say - as a woman - I agree with this. This woman, and Ireland as a whole, have every right to be outraged. But the outrage should be focused on our flawed justice system. Nobody should be randomly beaten almost to death on a street - male, female, black, white, gay, etc … and not face the prescribed repercussions.



  • Registered Users Posts: 261 ✭✭Frumy


    Thanks for that, I didn't know the injuries were as extensive but it illustrates my point.

    You see a highly drunk abusive person roaring and shouting you avoid them otherwise things like this can happen. I know guy's with umpteen black belts in various disciplines that have lighting fast hands won't confront a drunk aggressive person; the second you engage anyone like this you are putting you life in danger. The vast majority of people don't seem to get this but it is the reality.



  • Registered Users Posts: 55,427 ✭✭✭✭walshb


    Yup….years a public servant, and any good he has done will not at all be remembered. He will be remembered as the man who had 5 years at his disposal, and instead of doing the RIGHT thing and jailing an absolute bowsy (who viscously assaulted a defenceless woman), he chose to patronize her, hurt her and allow this bowsy walk free. And shur wasn't he doing Natasha a favor n all…..!!!



  • Registered Users Posts: 7,342 ✭✭✭MrMusician18


    ..



  • Registered Users Posts: 20,719 ✭✭✭✭yourdeadwright


    He should have been done for attempted murder not assault,

    If you have a argument & punch someone that is assault, If you knock someone over & continue to beat them till your pulled off that should be attempted murder ,



  • Registered Users Posts: 55,427 ✭✭✭✭walshb


    We do get it. I get it. But the reality is that a woman being attacked for politely asking for someone to stop doing something is far less likely than if a man asks. That is also to be factored in.

    But yes, of course it's dangerous and ill-advisable to intervene in any way when there is an aggressive individual involved in a hostile situation.

    In this case, it was a young woman who made a very innocuous remark (in a kind way) and she suffered an awful beating from this toerag.



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,618 ✭✭✭Tombo2001


    Again - you have made the same point over and over and over - can we move on from 'Frumy holding court on the issue'.



  • Registered Users Posts: 8,968 ✭✭✭Red Silurian


    He's been giving this 'gift' for a number of years, Limerick and Ireland will be glad to see the back of him



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