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You ever been left heartbroken?

  • 21-07-2006 11:52AM
    #1
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    I have, twice?
    Generally I'm like most women and i fall for the wrong men!
    But you learn as you get older I find!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,589 ✭✭✭Hail 2 Da Chimp


    Anything you wanna talk about CSG?


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Computer Games Moderators Posts: 52,971 CMod ✭✭✭✭Retr0gamer


    Hold on, where's my violin?

    Happens to everybody and like every other hardship in life the only thing you can do is just to learn to deal with it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,374 ✭✭✭Gone West


    lulz @ TGC


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Anything you wanna talk about CSG?
    Nah!! its not like that just a general wondering question tbh!


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 47,830 CMod ✭✭✭✭Black Swan


    Sure. It's called life.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,400 ✭✭✭✭r3nu4l


    Yes, it happened to me once, a long time ago and then I was the person who did the heart-breaking another time so I know what it's like form both sides. Not easy.

    Wish I was more of a b*stard at times, that way I could break a heart and then ask if a final roide was out of the question :D

    But I'm not :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,007 ✭✭✭✭Nalz


    Yep 4yr relationship last year bla bla bla....bigger drama than home and away and cornation street put together -took a month of sulkin, another of drinkin and when last year of college came around was rite as reign. women!;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    You ever been left heartbroken?

    More times than I care to remember......occupational hazard when you fall in love :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,203 ✭✭✭Heyes


    Yup most certainly have but as said above you become a stronger person for it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,382 ✭✭✭petes


    Yep.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,252 ✭✭✭deisedevil


    Feck the heart break. Just go out and have one night stands or meet up with someone and give em a call every so often for a bit a fun. Sick a seein my friends fightin with their gf's every wknd and actin like married couples. Can't go places cause the woman won't let em, can't so much as have a drink without em. It's all a load a rubbish, no point going out with someone when your young and acting like your already married. Have a laugh and wait till your older before settling down with someone. I gave up on the going out with somone bull few years ago and am having a great time ever since!!:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,589 ✭✭✭Hail 2 Da Chimp


    The only time really was when i was a teen and my first girlfriend dumped me.... Oh how sad i was :(


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,113 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    Once, I really rather that had not happened, guess I'm paying the price for my mistakes...
    Anyway, hope it doesn't last forever++.
    The only time really was when i was a teen and my first girlfriend dumped me.... Oh how sad i was :(
    Hehe, I miss young teen 'love'.
    No, not in a I want teen sex way.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Once, I really rather that had not happened, guess I'm paying the price for my mistakes...
    Anyway, hope it doesn't last forever++.
    and she got married tar aww bless u, u little sweetie
    dont worry i heard rumours of divorce already!!


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,113 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    and she got married tar aww bless u, u little sweetie
    Haha, not her.
    dont worry i heard rumours of divorce already!!
    That would make my day.
    She will be my future ex wife dammit.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I have my hope's up for you!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    This is like asking people “have you ever took a breath”. Stupid topic!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,099 ✭✭✭✭WhiteWashMan


    Nah!! its not like that just a general wondering question tbh!

    oh, in that case, feel free to continue to open random threads to up your post count.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,122 ✭✭✭LadyJ


    Heyes wrote:
    you become a stronger person for it.

    God I dunno if I agree.

    In a way,maybe this is true,but I think,in a lot of ways,getting my heart broken took away a lot of the things I used to like about myself.

    However,I do think that there is some beauty in the whole thing. IMO,when a person is born,they are like an untouched ball of clay. Each hardship they encounter moulds them into a different shape and can chip away parts of them. But then in the end,there is something a lot more beautiful and interesting to look at.

    So,as much as I have been hurt in the past,and will be hurt in the future,I know that it will all contribute to shaping and moulding me into a unique person.

    So....anyway..... :o


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 837 ✭✭✭Beetlebum


    LadyJ wrote:
    God I dunno if I agree.

    In a way,maybe this is true,but I think,in a lot of ways,getting my heart broken took away a lot of the things I used to like about myself.

    However,I do think that there is some beauty in the whole thing. IMO,when a person is born,they are like an untouched ball of clay. Each hardship they encounter moulds them into a different shape and can chip away parts of them. But then in the,there is something a lot more beautiful and interesting to look at.

    So,as much as I have been hurt in the past,and will be hurt in the future,I know that it will all contribute to shaping and moulding me into a unique person.

    So....anyway..... :o

    Aawwwww....well said LadyJ.....I'm heartbroken at the moment...*weep*....c'mon world, mould me into Jackie Chan so I can kick his ass!!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 36,634 ✭✭✭✭Ruu_Old


    Heartbroken, yes of course and I'm sure everyone has.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I know what you mean some of my experince have sometimes left me with a men are bastards attitude but I was thinking i way too young to have such a pessimistic attitude towards towards love and men and the rest!

    postive attitude is the way to go!
    but for now i'll be single I still need a break from the drama:p

    LadyJ wrote:
    God I dunno if I agree.

    In a way,maybe this is true,but I think,in a lot of ways,getting my heart broken took away a lot of the things I used to like about myself.

    However,I do think that there is some beauty in the whole thing. IMO,when a person is born,they are like an untouched ball of clay. Each hardship they encounter moulds them into a different shape and can chip away parts of them. But then in the,there is something a lot more beautiful and interesting to look at.

    So,as much as I have been hurt in the past,and will be hurt in the future,I know that it will all contribute to shaping and moulding me into a unique person.

    So....anyway..... :o


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,424 ✭✭✭joejoem


    ffs, another cool coolsmileygirl thread


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,203 ✭✭✭Heyes


    LadyJ wrote:
    God I dunno if I agree.

    In a way,maybe this is true,but I think,in a lot of ways,getting my heart broken took away a lot of the things I used to like about myself.

    However,I do think that there is some beauty in the whole thing. IMO,when a person is born,they are like an untouched ball of clay. Each hardship they encounter moulds them into a different shape and can chip away parts of them. But then in the end,there is something a lot more beautiful and interesting to look at.

    So,as much as I have been hurt in the past,and will be hurt in the future,I know that it will all contribute to shaping and moulding me into a unique person.

    So....anyway..... :o

    How lovely put. I think your absolutaly right in everything you have said. I do agree that there is a sense that when your get heartbroken, confidence and opinions you may have had of yourself are knocked for six, but then again i do believe that you will regain those comforts and opinions of yourself over time. Its not the nicest, but things happen for a reason, its only over time when you find out the real reasons.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,256 ✭✭✭metaoblivia


    Yeah, I've had my heartbroken. I think everyone has, as some have said. You have a good cry (or two), learn from your mistakes, pick yourself and move on to the next.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    "gray would be the colour if I had a heart!"


    ...anyone?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,488 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    NIN Zulu?

    Everyone's been heartbroken at some stage. It's a pretty dumb question in fairness CSG.

    And to those whining about heartbreak: get out your lego, build a bridge and get over it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,082 ✭✭✭Tobias Greeshman


    In all fairness everyone that's been in more than one relationship has been heartbroken. Maybe not in the case where someone's in a relationship with their first love, but then again it's rare for these relationships to last too long.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,766 ✭✭✭Reku


    It is the nature of love that it always ends in heartbreak, whether through rejection, breaking up or the death of the one you love, but then if being in love wasn't leaving yourself open to such would the words "I love you" be such a meaningful thing?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    Gold star for Sleepy. Good man!


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,113 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    LadyJ wrote:
    God I dunno if I agree.

    In a way,maybe this is true,but I think,in a lot of ways,getting my heart broken took away a lot of the things I used to like about myself.

    However,I do think that there is some beauty in the whole thing. IMO,when a person is born,they are like an untouched ball of clay. Each hardship they encounter moulds them into a different shape and can chip away parts of them. But then in the end,there is something a lot more beautiful and interesting to look at.

    So,as much as I have been hurt in the past,and will be hurt in the future,I know that it will all contribute to shaping and moulding me into a unique person.

    So....anyway..... :o
    Nicely put w00t.
    I do feel like this, first time, has changed me a lot and I view things quite differently. It has changed me a lot. Suppose I could thank her for that if nothing else...
    Incidentally boardsie J, you briefly met this girl.

    I view things somewhat differently now, I appreciate some things that I did not before etc. Very small compensation but, at least there is something.
    /me tries to build a lego bridge.
    Don't be defined or confined by love.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,099 ✭✭✭✭WhiteWashMan


    NIN - even more teenage angsty than the smashing pumpkins

    hey pig piggy pig


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    hey pig piggy pig
    ??:confused: ??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,122 ✭✭✭LadyJ


    Incidentally boardsie J, you briefly met this girl.
    I figured I had alright.


    Tbh,I think (as I've said before in PI threads) that really having your heart broken is a lot like bereavement. In some ways worse,imo,because there can be other things like jealousy thrown into the emotional mix.

    It is something that a person may never really "get over" but something that they can learn to deal with moreso.

    I don't think there can be a time limit put on the grieving process because everyone is different. IMO,if you lose someone that you actually loved then a part of you will probably always miss them and love them but the show must go on.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,099 ✭✭✭✭WhiteWashMan


    ??:confused: ??

    its from a nine inch nails song dear.
    dont worry.


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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    its from a nine inch nails song dear.
    dont worry.
    :D:D
    I see i thought you were calling pighead


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,099 ✭✭✭✭WhiteWashMan


    no, if that was the case id shout something else.

    why,do you want pighead about?

    would you two have coolsmileypiglets if you managed to compulate?





















    *shudder*


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    *shudders even more*

    ah but all piglets are smiley anyway and they r cool too!!!

    ^^^^^ off topic comment! :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    WWM, in second almost 11 mins later. A life time on a friday thread in AH!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    Zulu wrote:
    WWM, in second almost 11 mins later. A life time on a friday thread in AH!
    ...he says about 10 posts later.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 981 ✭✭✭tj-music.com


    Please don´t remind me :mad:


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