You ever been left heartbroken?

21-07-2006 11:52AM #1

I have, twice?
Generally I'm like most women and i fall for the wrong men!
But you learn as you get older I find!

Hail 2 Da Chimp · 21-07-2006 11:53AM

Anything you wanna talk about CSG?

Retr0gamer · 21-07-2006 11:54AM

Hold on, where's my violin?

Happens to everybody and like every other hardship in life the only thing you can do is just to learn to deal with it.

Gone West · 21-07-2006 11:55AM

lulz @ TGC

21-07-2006 11:56AM

Hail 2 Da Chimp wrote:

Anything you wanna talk about CSG?

Nah!! its not like that just a general wondering question tbh!

Black Swan · 21-07-2006 11:58AM

Sure. It's called life.

r3nu4l · 21-07-2006 11:59AM

Yes, it happened to me once, a long time ago and then I was the person who did the heart-breaking another time so I know what it's like form both sides. Not easy.

Wish I was more of a b*stard at times, that way I could break a heart and then ask if a final roide was out of the question

But I'm not

Nalz · 21-07-2006 12:00PM

Yep 4yr relationship last year bla bla bla....bigger drama than home and away and cornation street put together -took a month of sulkin, another of drinkin and when last year of college came around was rite as reign. women!;)

Ickle Magoo · 21-07-2006 12:01PM

You ever been left heartbroken?

More times than I care to remember......occupational hazard when you fall in love

Heyes · 21-07-2006 12:04PM

Yup most certainly have but as said above you become a stronger person for it.

petes · 21-07-2006 12:06PM

Yep.

deisedevil · 21-07-2006 12:11PM

Feck the heart break. Just go out and have one night stands or meet up with someone and give em a call every so often for a bit a fun. Sick a seein my friends fightin with their gf's every wknd and actin like married couples. Can't go places cause the woman won't let em, can't so much as have a drink without em. It's all a load a rubbish, no point going out with someone when your young and acting like your already married. Have a laugh and wait till your older before settling down with someone. I gave up on the going out with somone bull few years ago and am having a great time ever since!!:D

Hail 2 Da Chimp · 21-07-2006 12:13PM

The only time really was when i was a teen and my first girlfriend dumped me.... Oh how sad i was

Tar.Aldarion · 21-07-2006 12:20PM

Once, I really rather that had not happened, guess I'm paying the price for my mistakes...
Anyway, hope it doesn't last forever++.

The only time really was when i was a teen and my first girlfriend dumped me.... Oh how sad i was

Hehe, I miss young teen 'love'.
No, not in a I want teen sex way.

21-07-2006 12:22PM

Tar.Aldarion wrote:

Once, I really rather that had not happened, guess I'm paying the price for my mistakes...
Anyway, hope it doesn't last forever++.

and she got married tar aww bless u, u little sweetie
dont worry i heard rumours of divorce already!!

Tar.Aldarion · 21-07-2006 12:23PM

coolsmileygirl wrote:

and she got married tar aww bless u, u little sweetie

Haha, not her.

dont worry i heard rumours of divorce already!!

That would make my day.
She will be my future ex wife dammit.

21-07-2006 12:34PM

I have my hope's up for you!

Kiera · 21-07-2006 12:38PM

This is like asking people “have you ever took a breath”. Stupid topic!

WhiteWashMan · 21-07-2006 12:39PM

coolsmileygirl wrote:

Nah!! its not like that just a general wondering question tbh!

oh, in that case, feel free to continue to open random threads to up your post count.

LadyJ · 21-07-2006 12:40PM

Heyes wrote:

you become a stronger person for it.

God I dunno if I agree.

In a way,maybe this is true,but I think,in a lot of ways,getting my heart broken took away a lot of the things I used to like about myself.

However,I do think that there is some beauty in the whole thing. IMO,when a person is born,they are like an untouched ball of clay. Each hardship they encounter moulds them into a different shape and can chip away parts of them. But then in the end,there is something a lot more beautiful and interesting to look at.

So,as much as I have been hurt in the past,and will be hurt in the future,I know that it will all contribute to shaping and moulding me into a unique person.

So....anyway.....

Beetlebum · 21-07-2006 01:05PM

LadyJ wrote:

God I dunno if I agree.

In a way,maybe this is true,but I think,in a lot of ways,getting my heart broken took away a lot of the things I used to like about myself.

However,I do think that there is some beauty in the whole thing. IMO,when a person is born,they are like an untouched ball of clay. Each hardship they encounter moulds them into a different shape and can chip away parts of them. But then in the,there is something a lot more beautiful and interesting to look at.

So,as much as I have been hurt in the past,and will be hurt in the future,I know that it will all contribute to shaping and moulding me into a unique person.

So....anyway.....

Aawwwww....well said LadyJ.....I'm heartbroken at the moment...*weep*....c'mon world, mould me into Jackie Chan so I can kick his ass!!

Ruu_Old · 21-07-2006 01:07PM

Heartbroken, yes of course and I'm sure everyone has.

21-07-2006 01:10PM

I know what you mean some of my experince have sometimes left me with a men are bastards attitude but I was thinking i way too young to have such a pessimistic attitude towards towards love and men and the rest!

postive attitude is the way to go!
but for now i'll be single I still need a break from the drama:p

LadyJ wrote:

God I dunno if I agree.

In a way,maybe this is true,but I think,in a lot of ways,getting my heart broken took away a lot of the things I used to like about myself.

However,I do think that there is some beauty in the whole thing. IMO,when a person is born,they are like an untouched ball of clay. Each hardship they encounter moulds them into a different shape and can chip away parts of them. But then in the,there is something a lot more beautiful and interesting to look at.

So,as much as I have been hurt in the past,and will be hurt in the future,I know that it will all contribute to shaping and moulding me into a unique person.

So....anyway.....

joejoem · 21-07-2006 01:17PM

ffs, another cool coolsmileygirl thread

Heyes · 21-07-2006 01:23PM

LadyJ wrote:

God I dunno if I agree.

In a way,maybe this is true,but I think,in a lot of ways,getting my heart broken took away a lot of the things I used to like about myself.

However,I do think that there is some beauty in the whole thing. IMO,when a person is born,they are like an untouched ball of clay. Each hardship they encounter moulds them into a different shape and can chip away parts of them. But then in the end,there is something a lot more beautiful and interesting to look at.

So,as much as I have been hurt in the past,and will be hurt in the future,I know that it will all contribute to shaping and moulding me into a unique person.

So....anyway.....

How lovely put. I think your absolutaly right in everything you have said. I do agree that there is a sense that when your get heartbroken, confidence and opinions you may have had of yourself are knocked for six, but then again i do believe that you will regain those comforts and opinions of yourself over time. Its not the nicest, but things happen for a reason, its only over time when you find out the real reasons.

metaoblivia · 21-07-2006 01:25PM

Yeah, I've had my heartbroken. I think everyone has, as some have said. You have a good cry (or two), learn from your mistakes, pick yourself and move on to the next.

Zulu · 21-07-2006 01:26PM

"gray would be the colour if I had a heart!"

...anyone?

Sleepy · 21-07-2006 01:29PM

NIN Zulu?

Everyone's been heartbroken at some stage. It's a pretty dumb question in fairness CSG.

And to those whining about heartbreak: get out your lego, build a bridge and get over it.

Tobias Greeshman · 21-07-2006 01:30PM

In all fairness everyone that's been in more than one relationship has been heartbroken. Maybe not in the case where someone's in a relationship with their first love, but then again it's rare for these relationships to last too long.

Reku · 21-07-2006 01:31PM

It is the nature of love that it always ends in heartbreak, whether through rejection, breaking up or the death of the one you love, but then if being in love wasn't leaving yourself open to such would the words "I love you" be such a meaningful thing?

Zulu · 21-07-2006 01:33PM

Gold star for Sleepy. Good man!

Tar.Aldarion · 21-07-2006 01:36PM

LadyJ wrote:

God I dunno if I agree.

In a way,maybe this is true,but I think,in a lot of ways,getting my heart broken took away a lot of the things I used to like about myself.

However,I do think that there is some beauty in the whole thing. IMO,when a person is born,they are like an untouched ball of clay. Each hardship they encounter moulds them into a different shape and can chip away parts of them. But then in the end,there is something a lot more beautiful and interesting to look at.

So,as much as I have been hurt in the past,and will be hurt in the future,I know that it will all contribute to shaping and moulding me into a unique person.

So....anyway.....

Nicely put w00t.
I do feel like this, first time, has changed me a lot and I view things quite differently. It has changed me a lot. Suppose I could thank her for that if nothing else...
Incidentally boardsie J, you briefly met this girl.

I view things somewhat differently now, I appreciate some things that I did not before etc. Very small compensation but, at least there is something.
/me tries to build a lego bridge.
Don't be defined or confined by love.

WhiteWashMan · 21-07-2006 01:40PM

NIN - even more teenage angsty than the smashing pumpkins

hey pig piggy pig

21-07-2006 01:42PM

WhiteWashMan wrote:

hey pig piggy pig

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LadyJ · 21-07-2006 01:44PM

Tar.Aldarion wrote:

Incidentally boardsie J, you briefly met this girl.

I figured I had alright.

Tbh,I think (as I've said before in PI threads) that really having your heart broken is a lot like bereavement. In some ways worse,imo,because there can be other things like jealousy thrown into the emotional mix.

It is something that a person may never really "get over" but something that they can learn to deal with moreso.

I don't think there can be a time limit put on the grieving process because everyone is different. IMO,if you lose someone that you actually loved then a part of you will probably always miss them and love them but the show must go on.

WhiteWashMan · 21-07-2006 01:44PM

coolsmileygirl wrote:

?? ??

its from a nine inch nails song dear.
dont worry.

21-07-2006 01:47PM

WhiteWashMan wrote:

its from a nine inch nails song dear.
dont worry.

I see i thought you were calling pighead

WhiteWashMan · 21-07-2006 01:49PM

no, if that was the case id shout something else.

why,do you want pighead about?

would you two have coolsmileypiglets if you managed to compulate?

*shudder*

21-07-2006 01:54PM

*shudders even more*

ah but all piglets are smiley anyway and they r cool too!!!

^^^^^ off topic comment!

Zulu · 21-07-2006 01:54PM

WWM, in second almost 11 mins later. A life time on a friday thread in AH!

Zulu · 21-07-2006 02:05PM

Zulu wrote:

WWM, in second almost 11 mins later. A life time on a friday thread in AH!

...he says about 10 posts later.

tj-music.com · 21-07-2006 03:07PM

Please don´t remind me :mad:

You ever been left heartbroken?

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