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Are you from a non-drinking background?

  • 25-03-2010 01:28AM
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,547 ✭✭✭


    Just want to know if the non-drinkers here are mostly from non-drinking backgrounds. Would alot of people here have parents or close family members who didnt drink while you were growing up or did most people decide at some point to just to quit.

    A friend of mine is from a staunch pioneer family. While he does drink at social occasions, he openly admits it was just a habit he got into when he was a teenager and has kept it up. He only ever drinks the same drink, (he detests all beers, and can only tolerate 2 kinds of spirits!) and he has said he would never take a drink at home for pleasure, or at a family get together. His opinion on it is that drink is just a means to an end. When hes out with the lads, it loosens him up and he has a laugh. Other than that he wouldnt touch the stuff, and is fairly stringent on the idea that buying it is a total waste of money unless your going on the lash.

    Would many share this point of view or did you have a similar view before you fully committed to staying off drink?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,893 ✭✭✭Davidius


    I never was a drinker to start with but if anything the odd drink now and then to relax sounds like it has a lot more of a point to it.

    My parents aren't big drinkers. My dad might drink 2 cans at home on a Saturday or go to the pub with a friend the odd week. Mother does it even less; she drinks wine the odd time.

    That said, a few of my siblings aren't really anywhere near the level of "non-drinker". :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 453 ✭✭gonnaplayrugby


    dad never drinks and my mum drinks wine. but defo not from a pub culture/drink culture family


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Regional South Moderators Posts: 15,247 Mod ✭✭✭✭rebel girl 15


    not from a pub culture/drink culture family, parents might drink at special occasions, brothers do as well. Personally never touched alcohol, no interest in it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,364 ✭✭✭✭cantdecide


    The folks may only drink once or maybe twice a year for special events. There is some alcoholism elsewhere in our large extended family but that doesn't affect my attitiude to alcohol in the slightest.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,492 ✭✭✭Thomas828


    Well, my dad isn't much of a drinker. My mum is more of a pub person, but she enjoys her drink and she knows when to stop. My uncle - my dad's brother - can't stand booze. My granny never took drink except on special occasions. Hot whiskey was her tipple. And me? I only take a small sip of wine on Sunday mornings at Holy Communion.


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  • Moderators, Education Moderators Posts: 7,441 Mod ✭✭✭✭XxMCRxBabyxX


    I'm not strictly a 'non-drinker' rather I will just never drink enough to let it affect me.

    My reason for this is the opposite though. Grew up dealing with alcoholism in the family and it's given me an uncomfortability with alcohol. I don't want to ever put someone through what I did. It's a control thing too. I don't like feeling out of control with myself.

    Also despite all my friends around me I've never seen or felt the need to drink. It's just there as far as I'm concerned. I would be just as happy with a soft drink


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,917 ✭✭✭✭iguana


    I'm not a full non-drinker, I was for several years in my 20s, but now I do drink on occasion, maybe 10 times a year. My parents are very similar, they hardly ever drank when I was a child, just on rare special occasions but not most. When I was a teenager my dad developed Meniere's disorder, which affects his balance, so he pretty much never drinks now. My mother probably drinks about the same amount as I do.

    I have two younger brothers in their 20s and neither of them are big drinkers either. I know my family's attitude to alcohol has definitely influenced how I drink and I suspect the same goes for my brothers. Alcohol was always just something that existed and could be drank if you wanted but it was never needed. Social events and special occasions were fun in and of themselves because of the event and the people there. And I've grown up with the same attitude.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 485 ✭✭Elenxor


    Nobody in my family is bothered wheather they take a drink or not.
    Then I came along and made up for them all!

    Go figure?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 852 ✭✭✭moonpurple


    my dad never drank,
    his dad drank too much
    I dont drink.. sunny all the time instead of in bursts!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,953 ✭✭✭Floppybits


    Everyone in my family drinks. My dad would have his few pints each night, my mum would be more a sunday night drinker and special occasions. My brothers and sisters drink. I am the only one in my family and also in my extended family that doesn't drink.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,835 ✭✭✭unreggd


    Mixed house of drinkers

    My mam is an alcoholic, the main reason I never wanted to drink. Also, my brother, who's only 2 years older than me, but looks 10 years older, has been goin to clubs since he was about 15. Left school after the JC and was workin since, so was always out drinkin. I shared a room with him and he'd come home and puke all over the place, wake me up fallin around etc... Just never wanted to end up like that

    Da doesnt drink cos of religion

    I only started knacker-drinkin a bit a few months before I was 18, then drank regularly, but didnt binge since. I never felt the want to be drunk, or the need to drink to make myself more interesting. I've only been a bit drunk abt 2 times, never had a hangover ever.

    Now, I dont drink at all, havent drank in abt 2 years. Not sayin I never will again, but its likely I wont

    I never liked the taste of beer, and drinkin somethin you dont like til you like it is just retarded!

    The only drink I miss is Pernod + Blackcurrant, cos it tastes like blackjacks :D
    [Runs off to buy some blackjacks]

    I still love clubs and some pubs, but I think not drinkin opens your eyes to SO many stuff to do you never noticed when all you did was go out drinkin

    :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 126 ✭✭Theponylady


    My parents rarely drink. Maybe a glass of wine at Christmas. And once my mom and I were on holidays, and she had a beer, and decided it was so good, she'd have another one. I was shocked I tell you, shocked! That's the most I'd ever seen one of my parents drink, ever lol

    I don't drink myself. Maybe because I'm a control freak, I don't know. It just never appealed to me. My sisters both drink, but in moderation. They don't have any drunken stupid stories to tell.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,397 ✭✭✭✭azezil


    Nope, I had to give it up cause it interferes with my meds.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19 undergroundeye


    Both parents are non drinkers, however both of them are ok with the fact that I go out for afew beers with my friends or even if i'm back at all hours.
    However the few times (and very few they are)that I have had too much, they are are not impressed.
    Basicly what i'm saying is, having the few drinks is good to relax and have a chat/ night on the town but as my folks say "remember the night" :cool:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,903 ✭✭✭✭Ash.J.Williams


    Neither of my parents are non-drinkers but they never drank at home and never habitually went to the pub either. I am the same. I find it very strange how people "have" to drink as opposed to "want" to.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 675 ✭✭✭Dr.Sanchez


    Grandfather never took a drink, either did my father, and either will I...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 36,634 ✭✭✭✭Ruu_Old


    My Dad is fairly sociable and goes out a few times a week, my Mam does not bother with it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 436 ✭✭booksale


    my dad did not drink much. just beer, that's where i started drinking beer, but i dont now.

    my mam does not drink.

    no people in my family really feel the need of alcohol. yet my brother goes to pub weekends. there was a period of time he got very drunk (i guess he had problems in his relationship with his gf at the time). and he once fell in the bathroom and needed to be taken to the hospital but he was still not very consicous.

    i like the taste of red wine and a can of beer sometimes, never lost control of myself because of the alcohol.

    but i stopped taking any alcohol last year.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Nick Dolan


    The parents never drank or were pub goers but you cant avoid pub culture in Ireland so eventually you start drinking. I know for me the idea of deciding to deliberatly avoid alcohol (as opposed to, damn ive work in morning cant get pissed.But Friday! ) never even entered my head . But eventually it did and the fact the auld lad didnt drink helped me realise i didnt have to go drinking just cos id nothing else to do. And I know it sounds a little Oprah-ish but if they had been regular drinkers like every single other person I know then I might never even have considered stopping.


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