So, I think my friend is in love with me

Dean820 · 02-10-2010 5:29pm #1

Well I don't think because I know. She told me last week and I reacted in a neutral manner, I wasn't against getting together or for it. But tonight I'm heading out to a party and she's gonna be there...so my question to AH is: Should I ride her and possibly ruin things or leave it the way it is? I think I'm gonna be screwed either way. (pun totally intended :cool:)

Edit: My apologies on anyone who read the title thinking it would be a male friend.

Logical Fallacy · 02-10-2010 5:30pm

Dean820 wrote: »

Well I don't think because I know. She told me last week and I reacted in a neutral manner, I wasn't against getting together or for it. But tonight I'm heading out to a party and she's gonna be there...so my question to AH is: Should I ride her and possibly ruin things or leave it the way it is? I think I'm gonna be screwed either way. (pun totally intended :cool:)

Leave it as is, casual sex is fine when both are cool with the casual nature of it but the social comeback of her loving you wouldn't be worth the price.

I await the floods of "ride her" responses from dudes who never get any.

Sugar Free · 02-10-2010 5:32pm

/Insert gimpy PI response here/

AH Response: Do it

Gummy Panda · 02-10-2010 5:32pm

Ride her.

EDIT: Dragon you sunk my battleship!

Vanbis · 02-10-2010 5:32pm

Dean820 wrote: »

Well I don't think because I know. She told me last week and I reacted in a neutral manner, I wasn't against getting together or for it. But tonight I'm heading out to a party and she's gonna be there...so my question to AH is: Should I ride her and possibly ruin things or leave it the way it is? I think I'm gonna be screwed either way. (pun totally intended :cool:)

Edit: My apologies on anyone who read the title thinking it would be a male friend.

I would advise you to bring a rain coat, the forecast isn't looking to good tonight but sure stranger things have happened.

Ian Beale · 02-10-2010 5:33pm

Oh how Brummytom wishes he was you right now

Dean820 · 02-10-2010 5:33pm

One of the main things holding me back is she's obviously good friends with most of my friends so imagine if she let slip I shagged like [insert something that rides like ****e] and made me a laughing stock.

Tender Hoop · 02-10-2010 5:34pm

kick her back door in.

mikom · 02-10-2010 5:35pm

What would Jesus Tiger do?

Nodin · 02-10-2010 5:35pm

Dean820 wrote: »

One of the main things holding me back is she's obviously good friends with most of my friends so imagine if she let slip I shagged like [insert something that rides like ****e] and made me a laughing stock.

She probably won't, as its her idea really and nobody likes to be associated with failure. Go on ye good thing.

Logical Fallacy · 02-10-2010 5:35pm

Gummy Panda wrote: »

Ride her.

EDIT: Dragon you sunk my battleship!

Preemptively as well.

I am the Nostradamus of board games.

bleg · 02-10-2010 5:36pm

Dean820 wrote: »

One of the main things holding me back is she's obviously good friends with most of my friends so imagine if she let slip I shagged like [insert something that rides like ****e] and made me a laughing stock.

Laugh it off and call her a cockgobbler.

Dean820 · 02-10-2010 5:37pm

bleg wrote: »

Laugh it off and call her a cockgobbler.

Obviously. :cool:

coffeenut · 02-10-2010 5:38pm

dont do it, if you don't feel the same way she does she'll be more in love with you afterwards and you'll feel like a complete b*stard for doing that to her.

unless of course you don't give a sh*t in the first place in which case what's the difference to you?

Fittle · 02-10-2010 5:38pm

Very lucky girl to have told you she LOVES you last week and here you are on boards, wondering should you ride her tonight.

Leave the girl alone.

She deserves better:rolleyes:

Redzer7 · 02-10-2010 5:38pm

Whack her outta it OP.

Not with a shovel or any other object

Dean820 · 02-10-2010 5:41pm

Fittle wrote: »

Very lucky girl to have told you she LOVES you last week and here you are on boards, wondering should you ride her tonight.

Leave the girl alone.

She deserves better:rolleyes:

Ah come on. A bit harsh? She's up for the ride too like. She made that clear.

Fittle · 02-10-2010 5:42pm

Dean820 wrote: »

Ah come on. A bit harsh? She's up for the ride too like. She made that clear.

She also told you she LOVES you.

Are you 12?

Agricola · 02-10-2010 5:43pm

Horse it into her OP. You know it makes sense!

Swampy · 02-10-2010 5:44pm

Ride the bejasus out of her.

Dean820 · 02-10-2010 5:45pm

Fittle wrote: »

She also told you she LOVES you.

Are you 12?

No I'm not. Stop hijacking my fun thread ya lesbian.

Dacelonid · 02-10-2010 5:46pm

Obviously go to the party and try hook up with someone else. If that doesn't work you always have someone else to go home with

Fittle · 02-10-2010 5:47pm

Dean820 wrote: »

No I'm not. Stop hijacking my fun thread ya lesbian.

13 so.

02-10-2010 5:47pm

Lob it into her

Scuid Mhór · 02-10-2010 5:47pm

Dean820 wrote: »

Well I don't think because I know. She told me last week and I reacted in a neutral manner, I wasn't against getting together or for it. But tonight I'm heading out to a party and she's gonna be there...so my question to AH is: Should I ride her and possibly ruin things or leave it the way it is? I think I'm gonna be screwed either way. (pun totally intended :cool:)

Edit: My apologies on anyone who read the title thinking it would be a male friend.

it really depends on one thing: is she hot?

thee glitz · 02-10-2010 5:47pm

Ride her.

She won't let anything slip to your friends, why would they trust her again if she did that to you?

She did say 'love' so be nice to her and all that. At least if you mess her round,
she'll know what she's not missing out on.

Fittle · 02-10-2010 5:48pm

Dean820 wrote: »

No I'm not. Stop hijacking my fun thread ya lesbian.

yeah, u wish.

13 so.

Redzer7 · 02-10-2010 5:48pm

Fittle wrote: »

13 so.

13 and a half fyi

.

Scuid Mhór · 02-10-2010 5:48pm

Fittle wrote: »

Very lucky girl to have told you she LOVES you last week and here you are on boards, wondering should you ride her tonight.

Leave the girl alone.

She deserves better:rolleyes:

fittle just wants dean820 all to herself guys.

Juwwi · 02-10-2010 5:51pm

Fittle wrote: »

yeah, u wish.

13 so.

He heard you the 1st time.

Pauleta · 02-10-2010 5:51pm

Just ride her. You will be kicking yourself in the distant future when your stuck with some loser kids and a tramp of a wife thats probably being lamped by the postman.

02-10-2010 5:54pm

Pauleta wrote: »

Just ride her. You will be kicking yourself in the distant future when your stuck with some loser kids and a tramp of a wife thats probably being lamped by the postman.

speaking from experience?

Super-Rush · 02-10-2010 5:55pm

Is she any good with Powerpoint??

Gummy Panda · 02-10-2010 5:58pm

Just think OP, will you look back in future regretting not riding her and seeing what developed?

JeanClaude · 02-10-2010 6:01pm

Dean820 wrote: »

No I'm not. Stop hijacking my fun thread ya lesbian.

PMSL...:D

MagicMarker · 02-10-2010 6:02pm

I can't believe I'm going to post a serious response on AH, but you'd be a serious cúnt to do that, and not much of a friend at all.

Wibbs · 02-10-2010 6:20pm

PI response. No it would be morally dubious and cruel to hurt someone like that.

AH response. No, pull one of her friends, dry hump her on the sofa in full view of this woman. Then an hour later ring her and ask her out.

dr.bollocko · 02-10-2010 6:24pm

Too late Dawson. You'll been navel gazing and asking for advice online. Somebody else is already balls deep.

FlutterinBantam · 02-10-2010 7:16pm

Dean820 wrote: »

Well I don't think because I know. She told me last week and I reacted in a neutral manner, I wasn't against getting together or for it. But tonight I'm heading out to a party and she's gonna be there...so my question to AH is: Should I ride her and possibly ruin things or leave it the way it is? I think I'm gonna be screwed either way. (pun totally intended :cool:)

Edit: My apologies on anyone who read the title thinking it would be a male friend.

Look son, give her a good vigorous dunting up the nipsy and stop farting about.

You will know for sure in the morning.

Ok..... neeeeeeext

Dean820 · 02-10-2010 7:21pm

Alright lads, I'm leaving soon. I'm sure I'll do the right thing. Cya.

thee glitz · 02-10-2010 7:22pm

Don't forget to take pics.

Son Of A Vidic · 02-10-2010 7:55pm

Surely to God you know better than to come here and ask us for advice. But since you did, well you have two options (1) follow you balls (2) follow your brains. Now if your brain is in your balls, then you'll have to follow your instincts.

alwaysadub · 02-10-2010 7:57pm

Dean820 wrote: »

Alright lads, I'm leaving soon. I'm sure I'll do the right thing. Cya.

Don't forget to come back and let us know how you got on... I could do with a good laugh.

opinion guy · 02-10-2010 11:48pm

alwaysadub wrote: »

Don't forget to come back and let us know how you got on... I could do with a good laugh.

mink_man · 03-10-2010 12:05am

he's gonna drop his shopping off at her back door, i can sense it...

digme · 03-10-2010 12:08am

Pauleta wrote: »

Just ride her. You will be kicking yourself in the distant future when your stuck with some loser kids and a tramp of a wife thats probably being lamped by the postman.

ya poor fcker

Amazotheamazing · 03-10-2010 12:19am

Just for future reference, ride her. She's an adult, she can take care of herself.

Many years ago I had the same issue (presumably with a different girl), I didn't ride her, I regret it now, after all it's just two adults having fun.

03-10-2010 12:22am

Aw come on, the girl told him she's in love with him before they've even shagged. I know this is a bit of an assumption, but it's highly likely she's the type of girl who'll take a ride as a marriage proposal. They'll do the deed, he'll be all "grand so", and while he's doing the walk of shame home, thinking about the big dirty fry he needs to cure his hangover, she'll be online looking at wedding rings. He'll never get rid of her, and if he does manage to, she'll probably act like he "took advantage" and make out like he's the root of all evil even though she'd probably still let him have another poke because she hopes it will make him love her. Ugh.

But yeah, just an assumption...

Mr Benevolent · 03-10-2010 12:26am

No-one falls in love before doing the nasty. Except a 15-18 year old girl, that is.

Sticky_Fingers · 03-10-2010 12:27am

So OP did you drop the hand?

03-10-2010 12:42am

You *really* should have posted in PI.

PI Answer: If you're not sure how you feel to her, date & find out.

AH response: it's a free sex ticket. Allow her to bask in your glory and you'll have sex on tap for months, if not years before she realises.

So, I think my friend is in love with me

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