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So, I think my friend is in love with me

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  • 02-10-2010 6:29pm
    #1
    Dean820
    Registered Users Posts: 2,099 ✭✭✭


    Well I don't think because I know. She told me last week and I reacted in a neutral manner, I wasn't against getting together or for it. But tonight I'm heading out to a party and she's gonna be there...so my question to AH is: Should I ride her and possibly ruin things or leave it the way it is? I think I'm gonna be screwed either way. (pun totally intended :cool:)

    Edit: My apologies on anyone who read the title thinking it would be a male friend.


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    Logical Fallacy
    Registered Users Posts: 5,933 ✭✭✭Logical Fallacy


    Dean820 wrote: »
    Well I don't think because I know. She told me last week and I reacted in a neutral manner, I wasn't against getting together or for it. But tonight I'm heading out to a party and she's gonna be there...so my question to AH is: Should I ride her and possibly ruin things or leave it the way it is? I think I'm gonna be screwed either way. (pun totally intended :cool:)

    Leave it as is, casual sex is fine when both are cool with the casual nature of it but the social comeback of her loving you wouldn't be worth the price.

    I await the floods of "ride her" responses from dudes who never get any.


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    Sugar Free
    Registered Users Posts: 1,639 ✭✭✭Sugar Free


    /Insert gimpy PI response here/

    AH Response: Do it


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    Gummy Panda
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    Ride her.

    EDIT: Dragon you sunk my battleship!


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    Vanbis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,724 ✭✭✭Vanbis


    Dean820 wrote: »
    Well I don't think because I know. She told me last week and I reacted in a neutral manner, I wasn't against getting together or for it. But tonight I'm heading out to a party and she's gonna be there...so my question to AH is: Should I ride her and possibly ruin things or leave it the way it is? I think I'm gonna be screwed either way. (pun totally intended :cool:)

    Edit: My apologies on anyone who read the title thinking it would be a male friend.

    I would advise you to bring a rain coat, the forecast isn't looking to good tonight but sure stranger things have happened.


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    Ian Beale
    Registered Users Posts: 768 ✭✭✭Ian Beale


    Oh how Brummytom wishes he was you right now


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    Dean820
    Registered Users Posts: 2,099 ✭✭✭Dean820


    One of the main things holding me back is she's obviously good friends with most of my friends so imagine if she let slip I shagged like [insert something that rides like ****e] and made me a laughing stock.


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    Tender Hoop
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    kick her back door in.


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    mikom
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    What would Jesus Tiger do?


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    Nodin
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    Dean820 wrote: »
    One of the main things holding me back is she's obviously good friends with most of my friends so imagine if she let slip I shagged like [insert something that rides like ****e] and made me a laughing stock.

    She probably won't, as its her idea really and nobody likes to be associated with failure. Go on ye good thing.


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    Logical Fallacy
    Registered Users Posts: 5,933 ✭✭✭Logical Fallacy


    Gummy Panda wrote: »
    Ride her.

    EDIT: Dragon you sunk my battleship!

    Preemptively as well.

    I am the Nostradamus of board games.


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    bleg
    Registered Users Posts: 5,848 ✭✭✭bleg


    Dean820 wrote: »
    One of the main things holding me back is she's obviously good friends with most of my friends so imagine if she let slip I shagged like [insert something that rides like ****e] and made me a laughing stock.


    Laugh it off and call her a cockgobbler.


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    Dean820
    Registered Users Posts: 2,099 ✭✭✭Dean820


    bleg wrote: »
    Laugh it off and call her a cockgobbler.

    Obviously. :cool:


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    coffeenut
    Registered Users Posts: 38 ✭coffeenut


    dont do it, if you don't feel the same way she does she'll be more in love with you afterwards and you'll feel like a complete b*stard for doing that to her.

    unless of course you don't give a sh*t in the first place in which case what's the difference to you?


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    Fittle
    Registered Users Posts: 2,775 ✭✭✭Fittle


    Very lucky girl to have told you she LOVES you last week and here you are on boards, wondering should you ride her tonight.

    Leave the girl alone.

    She deserves better:rolleyes:


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    Redzer7
    Registered Users Posts: 5,209 ✭✭✭Redzer7


    Whack her outta it OP.




    Not with a shovel or any other object


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    Dean820
    Registered Users Posts: 2,099 ✭✭✭Dean820


    Fittle wrote: »
    Very lucky girl to have told you she LOVES you last week and here you are on boards, wondering should you ride her tonight.

    Leave the girl alone.

    She deserves better:rolleyes:

    Ah come on. A bit harsh? She's up for the ride too like. She made that clear.


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    Fittle
    Registered Users Posts: 2,775 ✭✭✭Fittle


    Dean820 wrote: »
    Ah come on. A bit harsh? She's up for the ride too like. She made that clear.

    She also told you she LOVES you.

    Are you 12?


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    Agricola
    Registered Users Posts: 6,547 ✭✭✭Agricola


    Horse it into her OP. You know it makes sense!


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    Swampy
    Registered Users Posts: 2,104 ✭✭✭Swampy


    Ride the bejasus out of her.


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    #21
    Dean820
    Registered Users Posts: 2,099 ✭✭✭Dean820


    Fittle wrote: »
    She also told you she LOVES you.

    Are you 12?

    No I'm not. Stop hijacking my fun thread ya lesbian. :(


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    Dacelonid
    Registered Users Posts: 1,112 ✭✭✭Dacelonid


    Obviously go to the party and try hook up with someone else. If that doesn't work you always have someone else to go home with


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    #23
    Fittle
    Registered Users Posts: 2,775 ✭✭✭Fittle


    Dean820 wrote: »
    No I'm not. Stop hijacking my fun thread ya lesbian. :(

    13 so.


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    Bobeagleburger
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    Lob it into her


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    Scuid Mhór
    Registered Users Posts: 2,326 ✭✭✭Scuid Mhór


    Dean820 wrote: »
    Well I don't think because I know. She told me last week and I reacted in a neutral manner, I wasn't against getting together or for it. But tonight I'm heading out to a party and she's gonna be there...so my question to AH is: Should I ride her and possibly ruin things or leave it the way it is? I think I'm gonna be screwed either way. (pun totally intended :cool:)

    Edit: My apologies on anyone who read the title thinking it would be a male friend.

    it really depends on one thing: is she hot?


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    thee glitz
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    Ride her.

    She won't let anything slip to your friends, why would they trust her again if she did that to you?

    She did say 'love' so be nice to her and all that. At least if you mess her round,
    she'll know what she's not missing out on.


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    #27
    Fittle
    Registered Users Posts: 2,775 ✭✭✭Fittle


    Dean820 wrote: »
    No I'm not. Stop hijacking my fun thread ya lesbian. :(

    yeah, u wish.

    13 so.


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    #28
    Redzer7
    Registered Users Posts: 5,209 ✭✭✭Redzer7


    Fittle wrote: »
    13 so.

    13 and a half fyi :p.


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    Scuid Mhór
    Registered Users Posts: 2,326 ✭✭✭Scuid Mhór


    Fittle wrote: »
    Very lucky girl to have told you she LOVES you last week and here you are on boards, wondering should you ride her tonight.

    Leave the girl alone.

    She deserves better:rolleyes:

    fittle just wants dean820 all to herself guys.


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    Juwwi
    Registered Users Posts: 4,248 ✭✭✭Juwwi


    Fittle wrote: »
    yeah, u wish.

    13 so.

    He heard you the 1st time.


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    Pauleta
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,778 ✭✭✭Pauleta


    Just ride her. You will be kicking yourself in the distant future when your stuck with some loser kids and a tramp of a wife thats probably being lamped by the postman.


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