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Reviews on Delorean, 80's wedding band

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 982 ✭✭✭VincePP


    According to a statement on independent.ie there was an issue with the wedding party that was "not resolved" and they didn't attend.

    Seems the wedding party knew they wouldn't be turning up, but decided to "punish" them on social media.

    Band won't say anymore, but it very much seems it was the fault of the wedding couple.

    Remember, the truth always comes out in the end.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 746 ✭✭✭Thegalwayman


    Any link to their statement?


  • Administrators, Business & Finance Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,978 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Toots


    Here is the link to the article http://www.independent.ie/irish-news/we-are-not-deliberate-saboteurs-wedding-band-apologise-after-missing-the-big-day-34865961.html
    A Dublin band has apologised after they failed to show up to a wedding last Friday.

    Delorean, a 1980s tribute band, were booked to play at a wedding in Galway, and the couple were shocked when the hours passed with no sign of them and no notice of their cancellation.
    The groom wrote online: “It was only when the hotel wedding planner came to our table at 8:30pm to say that the band hadn't set up and had we a contact number for them that we realised something very bad was up.”

    Luckily, the couple had booked a wedding DJ separately, but the groom said the band’s absence caused “a huge amount of panic and stress” for him and his wife.
    “I feel so sorry for my wife. She is still so upset that her big day was ruined,” he added.

    Since the wedding, Delorean’s Facebook page has been flooded with comments from disgruntled guests.
    “In absolute disbelief of the unprofessionalism and complete disregard that this band had for a couple, last weekend, when they didn’t show up for their wedding,” wrote one user.

    Another described the move as “heartbreaking”.
    “It was such a beautiful fairy tale wedding until the band did not show up. How could human beings be so cruel as to do this to a couple on their special day?”

    The bride’s mother also took to Facebook to write: “What a disgrace, we her mother, father, family and friends who travelled from Australia, California, Canada, Switzerland, Amsterdam, Wales and England were so disappointed.
    “I would not like any other couple to feel the way our daughter and her husband felt on that night, supposed to be the most important day of the start of their new life together, their wedding day.

    “I can’t express the way I felt and will never forget the disappointment for such a lovely young couple.”
    Speaking to Independent.ie, the band’s lead guitarist Thomas Brunkard said they had apologised to the clients.

    “Delorean have been in the wedding business for six years and we know and value the importance of each of our clients' big day. It was with much regret that we had to cancel last Friday's performance at late notice and we extend publicly the apology we gave our clients privately,” he said.
    “Any wedding supplier would concur that this is a professional's worst nightmare. There's always a risk that something can go wrong and after nearly four hundred shows the probabilities fell against us.

    “Nobody can prepare for every outcome and in this case we truly had no alternative despite preparing processes for nearly every worst case scenario.”
    Mr Brunkard said the reasons behind the cancellation were “between the band and the client”, but he expressed his regret that they couldn’t perform.

    “Some of the comments online suggest we were deliberate saboteurs though in our business reputation is everything so any supplier cancelling can only occur in an extreme situation.

    “We deeply regret that despite our best efforts circumstances prevented us from performing.”
    He added: “Now that we have seen the worst possible crisis in this regard, this will make us better prepared in future and in time we hope to share the lessons of this unfortunate series of events with our fellow wedding suppliers.”

    Am I missing something, but I don't see anything to suggest that the couple were at fault?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 746 ✭✭✭Thegalwayman




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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,451 ✭✭✭actuallylike


    Yeah, very odd. The fact the groom is still going on about it tells me that there's been no dialogue between them at all (assuming that facebook link above is the groom). If it was something like a deposit hadn't been paid or something, the groom would probably be keeping quiet but he's not. If it was a family emergency or something else unavoidable, I would think the band would say but they're the ones keeping quiet. I'll always give the benefit of the doubt but this isn't over yet, very strange.

    Some of the comments from family members are horrible. Sound like some really manky people


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,662 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    Yeah, very odd. The fact the groom is still going on about it tells me that there's been no dialogue between them at all (assuming that facebook link above is the groom). If it was something like a deposit hadn't been paid or something, the groom would probably be keeping quiet but he's not. If it was a family emergency or something else unavoidable, I would think the band would say but they're the ones keeping quiet. I'll always give the benefit of the doubt but this isn't over yet, very strange.

    Some of the comments from family members are horrible. Sound like some really manky people

    It's not the groom's facebook page. The couple are named in a comment on the band's facebook page. It's odd that the Indo didn't get a comment from either the bride or groom directly; all quotes are taken from Facebook comments.

    There's always a force majeure clause in contracts with decent suppliers. If the band couldn't perform because of an issue on their end, they should have had arrangements made for that eventuality (e.g. a replacement band, or a DJ). The fact that that didn't occur either means they're a very unprofessional band, or the issue was on the side of the couple. It's impossible to say which it was from our perspective.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 746 ✭✭✭Thegalwayman


    Very Odd. The band mention unforeseen circumstances in which case communicating these would seem to defuse this situation quickly even if on the day. Stuff happens. But wedding party/planner adament that no contact was made at least not on the day/night of wedding and grooms father says no contact whatsoever has been made? Very strange. the band may also be hit be the amplification ban on buskers in Temple Bar.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 838 ✭✭✭qm1bv4p8i92aoj


    Are you a member of the band Vince cus what you have said has been shown to be factually incorrect! Care to link to your imaginary statement??;-)

    It seems going by the grooms thread on weddings online they were badly let down:

    https://www.weddingsonline.ie/discussion/delorean-wedding-band-no-show-t422551.html

    So going by that they didn't contact the couple till 11:10pm, wtf like? They gave them an excuse that a band member was in hospital with a mystery illness, this seems to be the same band member who has had a miraculous recovery to give a newspaper interview a few days later!!
    And as a previous poster alluded to earlier it's very strange the the paper never got any actual comments from the unhappy couple. Very strange indeed.

    There has been no mention of any issue with the couple or a deposit/money issue online or in the newspaper interview anywhere.
    Wonder could a check be done to see if he was actually in hospital or even if he could provide the proof himself?
    Really does seem they have been messed around here with no valid excuse.

    Seems like the band are on a damage limitation exercise now and it ain't working!
    Wonder did they have a heavy night the night before or something!;-)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    Poor form on the band for not contacting early, and not saying it's a good situation but those comments on Facebook are super dramatic.

    Ruined their whole day, a day they won't forget but not for the right reasons. They got married with 200 friends and family attending, should be delighted with themselves. Fair enough it wasn't exactly how they wanted, but did they not just get on with the night and have fun, sure they had a dj there no? I kinda just get the picture that they spent about 2 hours on the phone while the guests were sitting around waiting.

    These wedding stories really make me wonder how some people cope with anything in life....


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 501 ✭✭✭ChampagnePop


    Something fishy about this story....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 838 ✭✭✭qm1bv4p8i92aoj


    The press statement is not helping the band at all! I see Vincep is commenting on the independent article as well! Must have some affiliation to the band me thinks;-)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,923 ✭✭✭Playboy


    A significant deposit had been paid and the bride confirmed with the band the day before the wedding. The first contact with the band was at 11pm at night when a text was sent. The bride, groom, best man and hotel all tried to contact the band multiple times but no one answered. An excuse was given that one band member was in hospital which is why they couldn't travel. This is the same band member who gave the interview to the independent a few days later. Even if there was an emergency with a single band member then surely another could have called to update the couple. But given that the band member in question seems healthy enough to give an interview you would have to assume that the hospital execuse was a fabrication. Another band member texted a couple of days later to apologise profusely and promised to return the deposit. No explanation has still been given to the couple.

    The band do not have a leg to stand on here and they probably did not foresee the consequences of their actions in terms of the backlash on social media. In all likelihood they probably got a better paying gig closer to home and no one had the balls to call the couple to cancel at the last minute.

    If you are thinking of booking them then just consider the potential anxiety you will have about a no-show on the day when that is the last thing you should worry about. I think the way the band have handled the fallout from this tells people everything they need to know about the type of characters they are. They might be good musicians but they should just fess up and apologise appropriately if they actually cared about how they wronged the couple in question


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 420 ✭✭grind gremlin


    Playboy wrote: »
    The band do not have a leg to stand on here and they probably did not foresee the consequences of their actions in terms of the backlash on social media. In all likelihood they probably got a better paying gig closer to home and no one had the balls to call the couple to cancel at the last minute.

    I sincerely doubt that the band would sabotage their reputation by not showing up at one venue to play at another.
    Judging by some of the angry messages on Facebook, any attempt at a public discussion with the band will ultimately result in a torrent of abuse that will only escalate the issue.
    I'm sure the bride and groom are heartbroken (I'm certain I would be). Thankfully they had a DJ organised that stepped in.
    I'm guessing the band have learned a serious lesson and will ensure they have a serious back-up plan in case of any future sudden emergencies. (Pretty sure a lot of other bands are probably looking into their own contingency plans in light of this).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,375 ✭✭✭✭kunst nugget


    Poor form on the band for not contacting early, and not saying it's a good situation but those comments on Facebook are super dramatic.

    Ruined their whole day, a day they won't forget but not for the right reasons. They got married with 200 friends and family attending, should be delighted with themselves. Fair enough it wasn't exactly how they wanted, but did they not just get on with the night and have fun, sure they had a dj there no? I kinda just get the picture that they spent about 2 hours on the phone while the guests were sitting around waiting.

    These wedding stories really make me wonder how some people cope with anything in life....

    I think you're being unfair. The wedding was only last week so the disappointment is going to be very fresh in their minds. I'm sure they'll mellow in time but when you're paying a premium for a band to play at your wedding and you have to be informed by your wedding planner that your band hasn't shown up and only receive a call after 11 from the band then you are going to be plenty pissed off. People spend a long time planning their weddings and pay a premium for services so that they'll go without a hitch on the day. It sounds like pretty inexcusable behaviour on the part of the band and I can see why the bride would be upset at the no show. I'm sure if there was a problem with the wedding party and non-payment or non-confirmation of the date that would have been made implicit in the indo article but nothing like that is mentioned in the article.

    Thankfully, they had booked their own DJ or they really would have been up the Swanee. I'm sure if they had received a phone call earlier in the day, their wedding planner would have been able to sort something out. To get the call long after they were meant to play kind of beggars belief.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,923 ✭✭✭Playboy


    Playboy wrote: »
    The band do not have a leg to stand on here and they probably did not foresee the consequences of their actions in terms of the backlash on social media. In all likelihood they probably got a better paying gig closer to home and no one had the balls to call the couple to cancel at the last minute.

    I sincerely doubt that the band would sabotage their reputation by not showing up at one venue to play at another.
    Judging by some of the angry messages on Facebook, any attempt at a public discussion with the band will ultimately result in a torrent of abuse that will only escalate the issue.
    I'm sure the bride and groom are heartbroken (I'm certain I would be). Thankfully they had a DJ organised that stepped in.
    I'm guessing the band have learned a serious lesson and will ensure they have a serious back-up plan in case of any future sudden emergencies. (Pretty sure a lot of other bands are probably looking into their own contingency plans in light of this).

    To be fair I don't think anyone 'abused' he band until a few days later when no explanation was still forthcoming. It was a big wedding with lots of extra guests at the afters and people felt outraged on behalf of the couple. The couple cannot control that and they have been very restrained with their criticism. The only people to blame here are the band themselves for handling the whole thing really poorly.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,517 ✭✭✭Sunny Dayz


    Wow! Something like that happening would certainly put a huge dampener on the rest of the wedding celebrations and in fairness it would ruin the rest of the night. If the wedding party got word from the wedding planner at 8.30pm, I'm guessing they were probably at dessert stage, perhaps the speeches and toasts hadn't even been made. Assuming then after a while panic sets in with members of the wedding party are trying to contact the band to no avail. Word probably gets out amongst the guests. Nobody knows what to do then. It is probably talked about for the rest of the night. Yup a pretty big upset in my books.


    Extremely poor form of the band not to contact the wedding party about the cancellation. No excuse to be honest. Even if it is a case that a band member took seriously and/or suddenly ill, there's however many other band members in it and it just takes only one of them to even ring the hotel to let them know what's going on.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,080 ✭✭✭✭Big Nasty


    I'm gonna guess this was a plain and simple mistake of a double booking and the wedding booking wasn't put in their diary for some reason - innocent enough. However some bright spark probably thought they'd soften the blow when contacted by saying one of them was taken ill, a white lie they can't back down from now, hence the evasive 'apology'. I feel sorry for the wedding party but equally sorry for the band who have most likely just lost the rest of the years bookings from one silly mistake. As an earlier poster said you have to judge on all reviews not just this unfortunate incident.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 501 ✭✭✭ChampagnePop


    Its perfectly believable that someone would be in hospital one day and be able to hold a conversation 3 days later, I don't think speculation on the illness really gets you anywhere.
    The problem is, why did the band not tell the wedding planner sooner that they wouldn't make it - that's odd, and there's no excuse really in my opinion, even if there was a death, there would be one person surely who could drop a text/call.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,080 ✭✭✭✭Big Nasty


    Either they're extremely unprofessional which previous reviews seem to contradict or they didn't realise they were supposed to be there on the night.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,375 ✭✭✭✭kunst nugget


    Big Nasty wrote: »
    I'm gonna guess this was a plain and simple mistake of a double booking and the wedding booking wasn't put in their diary for some reason - innocent enough. However some bright spark probably thought they'd soften the blow when contacted by saying one of them was taken ill, a white lie they can't back down from now, hence the evasive 'apology'. I feel sorry for the wedding party but equally sorry for the band who have most likely just lost the rest of the years bookings from one silly mistake. As an earlier poster said you have to judge on all reviews not just this unfortunate incident.

    Assuming a deposit was paid, my sympathy wouldn't be with the band if this was the case. Wedding bands charge a premium for the services and not putting a wedding booking into their diary after taking a deposit is not an innocent mistake - it's professional suicide. Surely they had some clue as to the gargantuan fúck up to their reputation not turning up to wedding you'd been booked to play would be?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,375 ✭✭✭✭kunst nugget


    Big Nasty wrote: »
    Either they're extremely unprofessional which previous reviews seem to contradict or they didn't realise they were supposed to be there on the night.

    Which would make them extremely unprofessional…


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,913 ✭✭✭clint_silver


    Big Nasty wrote: »
    I'm gonna guess this was a plain and simple mistake of a double booking and the wedding booking wasn't put in their diary for some reason - innocent enough. However some bright spark probably thought they'd soften the blow when contacted by saying one of them was taken ill, a white lie they can't back down from now, hence the evasive 'apology'. I feel sorry for the wedding party but equally sorry for the band who have most likely just lost the rest of the years bookings from one silly mistake. As an earlier poster said you have to judge on all reviews not just this unfortunate incident.

    Whilst rare, double bookings do happen and when they do a phone call is made. Its the worst call in the world but its made. Theres a process in place to catch these. Contact 4 weeks before to sort out music, 2-3 days before to sort out final details. In this case, The band have posted elsewhere to say it wasnt a double booking.
    theres real humans involved here, things happen, while a no show at a wedding is real worst case scenario stuff for the day in question some perspective must be kept. Literally every bride whos getting married who ever reads this story will have stress levels raised now hoping this doesnt happen them. Theres 20,000 weddings in ireland a year, in nearly 20 years doing weddings this is only second case Ive ever heard of so dont be worrying. for anyone getting married, contact your band and indeed other wedding supplier if any doubts as this is a really rare occurrence.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,859 ✭✭✭CFlat


    As a musician who has played weddings and other events I would like to make a few comments here.

    If a couple book your band for their wedding then they don't want someone else so a replacement band is not really an option. Also, bands don't take better paying gigs when it comes to weddings, that's just a no no. So...

    If one of your band members is sick on the day of the gig then you do whatever is needed to get him/her to the venue no matter if you have to bring a Dr. and a nurse with you, YOU GET TO THE GIG.

    If there are outstanding issues like money, riders, setlist, stage size, etc etc it doesn't matter YOU GET TO THE GIG.

    If the band member in hospital has passed away then you replace him because any band worth their salt will know someone who can dep and guess what? YOU GET TO THE GIG.

    If you have 4 blow outs at the same time on the wagon on your way to the wedding, you hire a van, you get a few cars, you carry the gear on your back but YOU GET TO THE GIG.


    Then, you play the gig with a big smile on your face and AFTER when everyone goes away happy, then you shout and scream about whatever were the problems in the first place. There is NEVER an excuse to let down a couple on their wedding day. NEVER.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,185 ✭✭✭stargazer 68


    CFlat wrote: »
    If the band member in hospital has passed away then you replace him because any band worth their salt will know someone who can dep and guess what? YOU GET TO THE GIG.

    Then, you play the gig with a big smile on your face and AFTER when everyone goes away happy, then you shout and scream about whatever were the problems in the first place. There is NEVER an excuse to let down a couple on their wedding day. NEVER.

    This absolutely!! I know a band whose singer passed away the morning they were to do a wedding. The band turned up to the wedding, citing illness of the singer, and carried on. Bride and groom were none the wiser.


  • Posts: 2,799 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    CFlat wrote: »
    As a musician who has played weddings and other events I would like to make a few comments here.

    If a couple book your band for their wedding then they don't want someone else so a replacement band is not really an option. Also, bands don't take better paying gigs when it comes to weddings, that's just a no no. So...

    If one of your band members is sick on the day of the gig then you do whatever is needed to get him/her to the venue no matter if you have to bring a Dr. and a nurse with you, YOU GET TO THE GIG.

    If there are outstanding issues like money, riders, setlist, stage size, etc etc it doesn't matter YOU GET TO THE GIG.

    If the band member in hospital has passed away then you replace him because any band worth their salt will know someone who can dep and guess what? YOU GET TO THE GIG.

    If you have 4 blow outs at the same time on the wagon on your way to the wedding, you hire a van, you get a few cars, you carry the gear on your back but YOU GET TO THE GIG.


    Then, you play the gig with a big smile on your face and AFTER when everyone goes away happy, then you shout and scream about whatever were the problems in the first place. There is NEVER an excuse to let down a couple on their wedding day. NEVER.

    Unless the band was not booked. My sister wedding the band did not come. The friend resposible to book the band left it too late and was too ashamed to admit, so said nothing and pretended.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 838 ✭✭✭qm1bv4p8i92aoj


    If you read the thread or the apology in the paper this obviously was not the case. Band were booked deposit paid and a complete no show was performed.
    Terrible form.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,913 ✭✭✭clint_silver


    Unless the band was not booked. My sister wedding the band did not come. The friend resposible to book the band left it too late and was too ashamed to admit, so said nothing and pretended.

    This is same as a double booking. If the band dont know, how can they not turn up to something they didnt know about? Doesnt look like this was the case here though.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 982 ✭✭✭VincePP


    Are you a member of the band Vince cus what you have said has been shown to be factually incorrect! Care to link to your imaginary statement??;-)

    I must change jobs every week - last week another gob****e said I was I must work for some place because I didn't agree with his view.

    Your type of comment is something I used to hear in a primary school playground.

    The band said something could not be resolved despite their best efforts and they WERE in touch with the bride & groom.

    Funny the bride and groom have been extremely silent on this, only the scangers who obviously were not party to any first hand information are bleating about like sheep.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 838 ✭✭✭qm1bv4p8i92aoj


    VincePP wrote: »
    Are you a member of the band Vince cus what you have said has been shown to be factually incorrect! Care to link to your imaginary statement??;-)

    I must change jobs every week - last week another gob****e said I was I must work for some place because I didn't agree with his view.

    Your type of comment is something I used to hear in a primary school playground.

    The band said something could not be resolved despite their best efforts and they WERE in touch with the bride & groom.

    Funny the bride and groom have been extremely silent on this, only the scangers who obviously were not party to any first hand information are bleating about like sheep.
    No need to be abusive.
    If you care to look at the thread I posted earlier or some of the many other posts on this thread you will see the groom said it was not an issue that couldn't be resolved but a band member rang to say another band was in hospital with a mystery illness.
    And I don't think the band would be apologising via a national newspaper if it was the couples fault...


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