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New laws on Consent are deeply-flawed

  • 28-07-2022 5:18am
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81 ✭✭


    Proposed laws requiring the accused to prove consent are deeply flawed and a breach of the EU Rule of Law and the EU Treaties.

    How is an accused supposed to know the wider knowledge of the accuser of all potential criminal engagement attributable to any particular aspect of their relationship? It seems that the principle of 'innocent until proven guilty' is also under attack by this proposed law.

    Since 2017, the accused can no longer cross-examine the accuser in a Court of Law and soon the accused will no longer have the right to examine the accusers psychiatric and/or counselling records. How come the European Union isn't raising the red flag about this?

    Will it lead to a rise in false accusations and is there even a deterrent against the wrongful accuser due to a fall-off in prosecutions?

    P. S. I'm not trying to offend anyone, I will add: read also the rules of the site. This is no place for political battles and personal insults.

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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    It enshrines a simple principle, ask before engaging in sex. If the person cannot answer then don't have sex.

    Rape is common and hard to prove because people get off by claiming incapacity or assumed consent. If you have sex whilst drunk then you should be justiably concerned that you could fall fowl of this law



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 984 ✭✭✭Still stihl waters 3


    How can you prove you asked and what's stopping someone giving consent at the time and retrospectively withdrawing it if they feel they shouldn't have given it, will men have to print off a generic consent contract to get their partner to sign



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,705 ✭✭✭✭drunkmonkey


    Is there any examples of where these new type of consent laws have been tested in court, Sweden has them in a few years and last year Denmark, Australia only introduced them last month.

    It appears consent has to be given, how do you prove it wasn't without a contract recorded in some way? We're still in a he said / she said scenario in court, no?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    Even if there was a signed contract the accuser could claim that they withdrew consent at a later stage…



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,028 ✭✭✭✭SEPT 23 1989


    So we removed the Catholic Church from the bedroom and now the state is lurking there

    how progressive



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,242 ✭✭✭brokenangel


    So this is been posted on other threads.

    The laws are to protect women and no surprise some people are upset about that. The amount of rapes in Ireland that are not reported is huge, over 66% based on information in 2022.

    So as I said on the other thread, men going out to find drunk women to sleep with have to think twice about it. Is this woman actually capable to give me consent etc. No idea why someone would see this as a bad thing?

    On the other thread you tried to push that women wouldn't be able to "find a good guy"? why you think women are looking for someone who will run if they don't have sex with them up front???

    The law are changed not as you claim to "that the principle of 'innocent until proven guilty' is also under attack by this proposed law", they are changed to try and make it easier for women to go to the courts and put these rapist away

    66% of unreported rapes is a disgrace. No idea why someone would complain because we are trying to decrease that.

    Will it lead to a rise in false accusations and is there even a deterrent against the wrongful accuser due to a fall-off in prosecutions?

    This of course is given as the excuse all the time, but how may false accusations have we had in the last 20 years compared to the amount of people who didn't report because they got treated like the criminal?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,139 ✭✭✭Gregor Samsa


    Preposterous take.

    The Church was legislating against actions between consenting adults, and in fact endorsed "the right type" of non-consensual sex in marriage.

    "Matrimonial consent is an act of the will by which each party gives and accepts a perpetual and exclusive right over the body, for acts which are of themselves suitable for the generation of children." Code of Canon Law 1081.2, 1917

    This is tidying up legislation against actions where there is no consent.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    “This of course is given as the excuse all the time, but how may false accusations have we had in the last 20 years compared to the amount of people who didn't report because they got treated like the criminal?”

    You know very well that nobody will be able to answer this question, so why ask it in the first place?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,139 ✭✭✭Gregor Samsa


    Just the same as the "question" in the op asking if it will cause a rise in false accusations.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n




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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,261 ✭✭✭Gant21


    Helen will get on the case and make new laws.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,242 ✭✭✭brokenangel


    You missed the number that we do know about, 66% of rapes are not reported by people. Do you not think we should be looking to reduce that number massively?



  • Posts: 8,856 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    A law Protecting those who are drunk or incapacitated so that they cannot consent is to be supported - and if that’s all this law is doing then great. Determining consent in a drunken night out situation is I’m sure particularly difficult - it does sound though with this law introduced, that any content given if either or both parties are intoxicated, is in serious doubt?

    If it makes people more cautious about sexual encounters where drugs or alcohol are taken, it’s probably a good thing -reduced sexual assaults, reduced unwanted pregnancies reduced morning after regrets; but the litmus test of the success of this law should be a reduction in rapes where there was intoxication by one or both parties- let’s see what happens there.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,921 ✭✭✭John Doe1


    The same people who would support this are probably people who said #believeallwomen on twitter as if women did not have the capacity to lie or exaggerate.

    I think there should be a new legislation where false accusations of sexual assault should result in a long jail term.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,140 ✭✭✭Backstreet Moyes


    Who cares about examples over the last 20 years.

    Would you not agree that one man being arrested or losing his job and reputation would be enough?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    I think that case was a farce and he was made an example of, but I think this thread is not specifically aiming at discussing that case.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,028 ✭✭✭✭hynesie08


    How about we start with proper sentences for sexual assault and work from there?



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Arts Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 50,981 CMod ✭✭✭✭magicbastarder


    Proposed laws requiring the accused to prove consent are deeply flawed and a breach of the EU Rule of Law and the EU Treaties.

    source?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,705 ✭✭✭✭drunkmonkey


    Where are you getting those figures and have you a breakdown by gender?

    Also "The laws are to protect women and no surprise some people are upset about that"

    From reading the Australian law it makes no reference to the sex of the victim.

    If women are underreporting men must be multiples time that.

    I don't think it's going to do anything to the 66% figure, if anything people could be more inclined to lie about who they are, that's also covered under the Australian law as non consent when you do that.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,503 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    I've said it before, many feminists are just secular nuns



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,228 ✭✭✭The Mighty Quinn


    PlentyOhToole, I agree with the general thrust of your post, but it won't make people more cautious about sexual encounters when alcohol has been taken, its one of the side effects isn't it, lowered inhibitions, poorer decision making etc etc.

    In theory it's great, but in practice I don't know how it's enforced unless all sexual encounters are deemed non consentual if alcohol has been consumed. Does this then auto default to the man being guilty of rape if both have had drink? Maybe that's correct as she clearly wasn't in a position to consent? But what if she gave a resounding 'yes' to sex on the night and next day regrets and she felt she was taken advantage of?

    The 'guilty until proven innocent' approach worries me if this is the direction it goes.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,503 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    How do we know that?

    Sounds like feminist propaganda along the lines of " a quarter of female college students have been victims of sexual assault "

    Ireland isn't the Congo



  • Posts: 8,856 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I’m giving the law a guarded welcome because I’m in favour of protecting those who cannot give consent but it has to work in reality - if two people who are both intoxicated, meet up and have sex and neither feels bad the following day, then great- intoxication was not a factor that impinged on the ability of either party to consent.

    But if one person feels they were taken advantage of because they were drunk, can’t remember what happened and are appalled to find themselves in bed naked with someone else, then mission control, we have a problem.

    To what degree this law will enable more prosecutions than previously remains to be seen - the intoxicated state of either of both parties limits investigators to determine exactly what happened and to what degree any laws were broken



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    “But if one person feels they were taken advantage of because they were drunk, can’t remember what happened and are appalled to find themselves in bed naked with someone else, then mission control, we have a problem.”

    But this in itself is hugely problematic. Where do we draw the line with regards to personal responsibility, particularly if both parties were intoxicated?

    Like many others I have wollen up next to people and wondered what on earth I had been thinking the night before, but it never occurred to me to insist that I had been taken advantage of.



  • Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators Posts: 10,623 Mod ✭✭✭✭Jim2007


    Well if it is there is nothing to worry about because the law will not stand for very long. Mind you I’m not sure who you’d get the ECJ to rule on a criminal matter…. Perhaps you should make yourself available to advise barristers on the matter because obviously the ones involved in drafting the legislation need help.

    You need a better approach for trolling, at least I hope that is what this is.



  • Posts: 8,856 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Yep - it was somewhat tongue in check when I mentioned less pregnancies less regret etc- I totally agree with you that society, especially young people in their late teens and 20s, will have a lot of adapting in their behaviour if we’re to see a reduction in alcohol / drug related rapes.

    People won’t stop going out enjoying themselves with alcohol; won’t stop one night stands; we could get carried away saying all drunk sex is wrong- in vast majority of cases both parties have no regrets or at least, have no feeling they were raped- so that’s great.

    But in the cases where there was no consent, it has made it easier for the victim to come forward- that has to be a good thing. It probably puts greater emphasis now on “what is consent” which is not a bad thing either- if this law scares serial predators of drunken girls in nite clubs then that can’t be bad- but I don’t want to see a guilty till proven innocent approach coming into law- and anyway there would be a constitutional challenge if it did



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    The laws are to protect women and no surprise some people are upset about that.

    Except they're not. They're concerned about laws which might give excessive power to women in claiming rape.

    And that statement of yours shows exactly why people should be concerned, as it reinforces the impression that such measures will be used to push an agenda. The same agenda that points to toxic masculinity, the claims of a rape culture, the projection of responsibility on to all men for what some men do, etc.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,396 ✭✭✭✭Boggles


    The bill also includes the provision that self-induced intoxication would not be a defence to a charge of rape in relation to an accused's capacity to understand if he did have consent

    But when was that ever a defence? Have we precedent where someone raped someone but was acquitted because they were píssed?

    The bill would also provide for anonymity for victims and the accused in all trials for sexual offences and not just in rape trials.

    I imagine the above will be largely welcomed?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,314 ✭✭✭✭Mrs OBumble


    And in particular

    Determining consent in a drunken night out situation is I’m sure particularly difficult 

    No, it's not.

    If you aren't 100% sure that the person is saying Yes, and in a state where they are reasonably able to do so and will remember it later, then assume that they are saying No.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,576 ✭✭✭PGE1970




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,766 ✭✭✭✭Fr Tod Umptious




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,028 ✭✭✭✭hynesie08


    The defense is usually "I'm sure she said yes but I was drunk" rather than "she said no but I didn't understand because I was drunk.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,396 ✭✭✭✭Boggles


    Indeed, but is their precedent for an acquittal on these grounds?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,028 ✭✭✭✭hynesie08


    I'm not sure off hand, but in the past that had been allowed be your main defense, by my reading of the new laws you'll need a bit more than that going forward.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,396 ✭✭✭✭Boggles


    I don't ever remember reading about any case where an acquittal was gained on the grounds that the accused was píssed.

    Given the consumption of alcohol would be a factor in the majority of these cases, it would be extremely odd if no one ever successfully received an acquittal if it was seen as a basis for a not guilty verdict. I'm very much open to correction on that, but nothing comes to mind.

    It very much sounds like a law being passed for the sake of it and I don't actually understand what is to be gained from it, apart from an accused stating he/she hadn't been drinking. Which is more of mitigating factor when you think about it.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,069 ✭✭✭dogbert27


    What if both people were to claim non-consent after the fact resulting in a he said / she said?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,104 ✭✭✭manonboard


    but isnt the issue with these laws, that even if the person is giving consent. If they've had alcohol, then legally they arent able to give consent? and how do you know its too much alcohol? Like ive had a few drunken fumbles in my time (not many, maybe 4 times, i prefer sex in serious relationships), and there was 2 occasions were we were both very very drunk. We both enjoyed it, but by the standards now, i think it was VERY risky if one of us decided the NEXT day that we are not ok with it.

    Also, I think a large conversation goes silent in society that men almost never feel like they were raped, even though the same actions were taken to them. A woman can have sex with a guy who has been drinking (even if the woman is drinking too), and there's almost no societal backing that a guy could be the victim there due to intoxication. The same actions would occur, but because of our conditioning, we dont feel the same way the next day about it. I think thats very wrong then because the same laws wont be applied to both genders even though the actions were the same, all because we've been conditioned differently which brings it back to feelings guiding things.

    I completely agree with that its a No unless you are 100% sure its a yes, but the law only activates AFTER the night of sex. That leads to a huge broad reinterpretation of events, and people are huge offenders of dodging personal responsibility. Its in our nature to protect ourselves by blaming others. A flaw in our characters sure, but a very persistent one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,028 ✭✭✭✭hynesie08


    Realistically? It wouldn't get past the interview stage. If one party claimed it later on as a revenge plot, it would probably not end well for them.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,104 ✭✭✭manonboard


    I want to say that i really agree with your last paragraph. I think overall, its a step in the right direction, and is likely something at least providing a good set of tools to start with. I'm only fearful of the mis-allegations or a reasonable situation/mistake being interpreted as predatory which I've seen happen before so it scares me a bit.

    If the law was just going to be used to target predators, absolutely 100% support it with my full heart. However, I've met some crazy people who would ruin a persons life so easily for the most fecked up of reasons. Replaying abuse dynamics, a coping mechanism, crazy trauma controlling them, vile personal accountability avoidance and some societally encourage victim roles.

    I've had a friend who was charged with Rape. It was eventually thrown out of court, but SOOO much damage was done to his life because of the accusation. The girl turned out to be nut-job with wildly different stories, tampering with evidence (deleting messages and thinking the phone is only record lol). It really scared me how vulnerable a person is to the word rape.

    Ive also had a couple friends who were raped, and its awful seeing they had no justice and were terrified of even going down that horrible path in courts. One victim though found out the rapist was put in prison 10 years later for a similar much more sadistic gang rape.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4 jetz2003


    I made a submission to the European Commission about this law a short while ago. The EU Commission told me they are constantly monitoring the rule of law in Ireland and have received several complaints about this. I encourage more men to also report this proposed Government law to European Commission over its implications. I say men because this law will undoubtedly impact men a lot more.

    It's amazing how women remain so silent when it comes to denying men their rights yet they shriek and cry foul when men dare to defend their right to innocence. Dozens of life-long husbands and partners may leave their wifes because of the chilling effect of this proposed law and its prejudice. It's like something a first year law student would propose on their first week of college. 

    The Justice Minister seems hell-bent on railroading this illegitimate and illegal law onto the statute books. Just because other common law countries have this law doesn't mean we should jump on the bandwagon - those other common law countries are outside the EU. We aren't.  



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,396 ✭✭✭✭Boggles


    Also, I think a large conversation goes silent in society that men almost never feel like they were raped, even though the same actions were taken to them. A woman can have sex with a guy who has been drinking (even if the woman is drinking too), and there's almost no societal backing that a guy could be the victim there due to intoxication

    That's generally not how rape works.

    If he was anally penetrated against his will, that's rape. If he was tied to the bed and the woman had her wicked way with him as in forced him to have vaginal intercourse that's sexual assault.

    I'm not aware of any cases of that TBH.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,503 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    Yes because those who draft law have never been influenced by political activists



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,749 ✭✭✭✭osarusan


    The isse of consent is being changed from whether the defendant had an honest, even if mistaken, subjective belief that the other person had consented, to an objectively reasonable belief as to whether the other person had consented. The UK, for example, has been using the word 'reasonable' rather than 'honest' for a good while.

    The issue here is it was useless (and impossible really) to decide whether the defendent was being honest about what they said. If a defendant says that they honestly believed that the person who was virutally unconscious with alcohol but who managed a to slur out a 'Yes' to the question of whether they wanted a shag was granting informed consent, what should a judge or jury do in this situaton? And in fact, sometimes when judges were instructing juries about such cases, they have been more or less saying that a story has to be reaonable for the belief to be honest.

    I'd be more concerned about this:

    "The bill would also include the provision that self-induced intoxication would not be a defence to a charge of rape in relation to an accused's capacity to understand if he did have consent."

    Consider a scenario where 2 gay men wake up in a hotel bed together. They bothe have foggy, broken memories of the night before. One man knows he was absolutely pissed drunk and in no way able to grant informed consent, so he reports what happened as rape. Polic investigate, and the hotel footage does indeed show the complainant reeling about the place drunk...but it also shows the accused, reeling about the place equally drunk, or maybe even more so.

    I am not sure what would happen under the existing law, but under the new law, certainly, there is no such defence as 'I was too drunk to recognise that the other person as too drunk to consent'. It seems to me that either man could equally accuse the other of rape.

    But perhaps that's no different to how it is now anyway.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,104 ✭✭✭manonboard


    I think that's my point though, there wont be any cases charged/or going to court of a woman having sex with a drunken man. Even with both of them were drunk.

    It will always been the opposite cases we will see. Even though both people did the exact same things together.

    We have such conditioning that men are never even self seen as victims when the same actions are done to them. We barely even have it in our words to describe rape being done to a man without penetrating HIS body. If a woman pushes her vagina on to a mans penis, we should view it the same as a man pushing into a woman. We don't though, we don't view it as invasive. There will be zero men reporting crimes like this even if the actions were same by both genders.

    Of course, i completely agree that if someone forces a person to do something they don't want to, then that's absolutely reprehensible.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,943 ✭✭✭✭Rothko




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4 jetz2003


    You can't make laws if they breach EU law. This proposed law breaches EU law and it is illegal.

    Helen McEntee knows that.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,396 ✭✭✭✭Boggles


    We do prosecute male rape though. These are generally other males though.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,503 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    Which shows the kind of professional charlatan she is, she knows that even this never goes anywhere, it will play extremely well with media and that's tremendous career equity in terms of her future run for higher office ,she has form in this regard



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,104 ✭✭✭manonboard


    Yes generally they are, its the non male on male rapes i have concern about the huge disparity.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,396 ✭✭✭✭Boggles


    What stats have you on non male on male rapes that has led you to be concerned about a "huge disparity"?



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